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writes:hi i was wondering if anyone would be able to help meive decided 2 meet up with my ex one last time to say are goodbyes we both like eatchother stil and he said he allways will but its the age diffrence hes 15yrs older than me i dont know whether i should meet with him? he will try and get close to me even tho we aint toghther anymore i rli like him and cant let him go but him meetin with me is tellin me theirs still a chance right??plz help xx
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reader, Lizz  +, writes (26 October 2008):
 Hon, I don't know how long you two have been seeing each other, but it's not a relationship that you should feel comfortable with and you sound like you are. Go with your gut feeling. He can and will go to jail for having a relationship with you whether it's mutual or not. He can still be charged as a sex offender even if your parents approve (which I doubt they do).
If you barely know this guy then listen to the warnings going off inside your head. He shouldn't be attracted to a girl so young just like you wouldn't be sexually attracted to a 1 year old. That makes him a pedophile. There are so many differences between 15 and 30. This is a grown man, you are still in high school. Please listen to me. You still have so much to learn. It's so normal to be confused at your age. I used to be 15, I remember. I only wish I knew then what I know now. Older men will move too fast for you. He could also be messed up in the head. Please trust your gut on this. Be safe, be smart.
If you've known this guy for a long time and trust him then end it for his sake. Besides the fact that he should've known better than to move in on someone so young, you wouldn't want him to go to jail,right? So, if there is something real there it can wait until you are 18. Sex offender is a huge scar on your record and it will haunt him for the rest of his life.
If he's trying to talk you into meeting him one last time after you broke it off then head for the hills honey! SEX OFFENDER! He's up to no good.
Please please listen to me.
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (26 October 2008):
 im not going to say anything about the 15yrs age gap as you can't help who you fall in love with.
However i dont think you should meet up with him, you send mix signal and you comfuse your self more.
You start wondering if you should have broke up with or not, he obviously isnt worth it if you broke up with him.
Good Luck, tell me how you get on. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): No I don't think you should meet with him. You will just upset yourself again. It will be difficult to see him and walk away again, as you still have feelings for him. I know you want to go and see him and meet with him, but don't. You will just hurt even more.
Thinking about him probably bring stars in your eyes, but remember dreams are a vital source of inspiration, however, unless your feet are firmly on the ground your dreams can be shattered by unrealsitic expectations.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 October 2008):
Yep if you meet him it will signal to him that you are not over him and he has a chance.
If he is 15 years older than you he will have had 15 years to learn to manipulate teenage girls.
Tell him you can't meet him and then cut contact with him. You know deep down that this is the wrong thing to do so don't do it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, KarenY +, writes (26 October 2008):
 the only think i could suggest in this situation is not to go and meet him....whatever caused you guys to break up in the first place must have been something big..and meeting him will only bring it all back xx
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