I truly want a child and am willing to try anything
Q. For two months now my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant. Everytime I think I'm pregnant I find out I'm not. For some reason my menstraul cycles are much longer than the normal 28 days. I went from having my period start on the 30th of ...
A. 4 November 2008: Eat healthily, quit smoking and drinking, take folic acid suppliaments. Get one of those test kits which tell you when you are at your most fertile. Go to a doctor and get them to check you and your husband's fertility and talk about your ir... (read in full...)
Please Help Me With My Autistic Niece!!
Q. Do any one knows how i can get help for my 10 yr old niece who is believed to have autism or PDD? She is suffering very bad because her parents really dont know how to care for her. They often just try to shunt her out of their life and never take ...
A. 4 November 2008: Put the name of your state and autism into google and bobs your uncle. Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...
A. 4 November 2008: So he's going on about how much he loved his ex and flirting with other girls and openly admitted he got with you for fun / sex. You yourself say that if you do so much as not texting him for a while then he will dump you. The signs are there.... (read in full...)
I just with the other babymomma would go away
Q. Please help me please Iam in a difficult sitaution i let my babydad move in with me after he just broke up with his other babymom.They been brokenup for two 6 months they have two kids together and i have one bye him to.I know him first i met this ...
A. 4 November 2008: I bet she's thinking exactly the same thing. Can't you see that this man is playing you both off against each other? He's going round her and telling her all the same things he is telling you. He's lying to you both. She won't ever go away.... (read in full...)
Should I continue my friendship with this man?
Q. hi everyone, So i have gotten myself into a pretty confusing situation where i dont even know what i feel anymore. It all started 3 years ago when i was in highschool, I was 16 at the time and thats when i met him, he wasnt just any guy, he was my ...
A. 4 November 2008: You have to keep doing what you are doing. You are married and so is he. It doesn't matter about the age difference or anything else at this point. You just have to do the right thing and cut contact and throw yourself into something new. ... (read in full...)
He's gone cold, and doesn't know why.
Q. Well here is the problem. I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for nearly 2 months. Just today I came back from a 4 day trip that I went on with him and his family. Without any forewarning to the unusual behaviour it seems like the d...
A. 4 November 2008: Tell him you need something to go on because he can't just leave you torturing yourself. I think you should hope for the best but expect the worst. Stop chasing him. Tell him you are going to give him some space to make his mind up. If he ha... (read in full...)
Is my mums boyfriend doing the dirty?
Q. my mam is got a major problem her boyfriend works nites and just recently he got a phonecall from a girl and he said it was nothing my mum asked him 4 times if he had gave her lifts in and from work and he said no, but my cousins boyfriend who works ...
A. 4 November 2008: Unfortunately you just have to be there to pick up the pieces afterwards. You can't get involved and pass on rumours from your cousin's brother's friend's boyfriend who works in the same building. You just have to be there for her, make her cu... (read in full...)
Why is this guy ignoring me, after HE asked me out on a date?
Q. I used to see a guy two years ago, who i did get on really well with, we were instantly attracted to eachother. we started seeing eachother and it was fun until other people made him out to be a liar, and i got paranoid and accused him of lieing ...
A. 4 November 2008: Well he could have been kidnapped and taken away to a hut in the mountains. Or he could be trying to hurt you since you have been rejecting him this long. Try calling him again and ask him what happened. Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it common for married couples to get bored with sex after 5 or 6 years?
Q. Hi Sexy Auntieeeeess and Handsom Unclezzzzz. How are you doing? Your suggestions helped me a lot. 10x a ton for dat. Now one more thing to ask... plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz I want to know for some reason, is it a common feeling in between Husban...
A. 4 November 2008: You say you have been married for 5 to 6 years but you type like a 14 year old.... could your immaturity be the problem of why your sex life has faded? Can you not try and spice it up in other ways?
If you are both up for wife swapping then go ... (read in full...)
Am I a bootycall?
Q. ok I met this guy on myspace his friend was my friend so we started chatting exchanged numbers then started texting a lot! I knew he had a girlfriend but he was just so cute and we have almost EVERYTHING in common we started hanging out first night ...
A. 4 November 2008: Just because he doesn't treat you like crap when you are with him, it doesn't mean that he has any respect for you / cares about you.
Don't kid yourself into thinking you are anything more than his bit of fun on the side.
Tell him that you wan... (read in full...)
Have I made a mistake? Should I apologise?
Q. Here’s how it goes. (I am posting this because I’m frustrated and I need to vent.) To make a long story short, since I’ve been telling over five sources this already and I’m sick of typing it out, in grade 10 I was in band with a guy I’ll call ...
A. 4 November 2008: Ah the classic "you won't go out with me so I'm going to kill myself now" line. My friend has a neighbour who slits his wrists in front of his girlfriend because she doesn't want to be with him and it's the only way he can force her to stay with ... (read in full...)
Can't stop brooding, any advice?
Q. I am a terrible brooder. I seem to have a mind that wont ease up and give me a break from the moment i wake up to the time i go to sleep. My brain concentrates on particular issues that are going on in my life to the point of obsession until it ...
A. 4 November 2008: It does sound like you need something to calm you down. If you are comfortable taking pills to help you relax then head over to the doctors and talk to him about it. If you are not then you could try some other things first. You say your br... (read in full...)
I'm not afraid of marriage, I swear! How to make her realise I just want to take things one step at a time?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now (I'm 31 and shes 24). I love her but we definatley have our ups and downs. We have openly talked about getting married and I assure her I want that in our future. The thing is she will often ask ...
A. 4 November 2008: I think you have to tell her something. Tell her half of the truth. When she has a go at you for not proposing then tell her that this is an example of why you don't feel ready yet - you argue all the time. Yes it will cause her to cry and yel... (read in full...)
I only date males because I'm afraid of what people might say!
Q. I am bisexual, but no one knows it yet. I hear people all the time saying that being bisexual is nasty, and I am afraid to say it. I like females and males but only date males because I'm afraid of what people might say, even tho I really want to d...
A. 4 November 2008: You sound like you live in a small town with small town minds. I'm not going to lie and say love conquers all. Even if you found a girl worth risking "coming out" for then people would still be horrible to you. All you can do is challenge pe... (read in full...)
He wants to settle down soon, where as I just want to go crazy for a bit.
Q. I have been with my guy for almost a year. I love him very much but we argue so often, mainly due to my lifestyle. I am a student and really want to spend my time with my mates doing work or at my job. He has a full time job with sporadic hour...
A. 4 November 2008: I think you need to sit down and have a calm serious talk.
He may be in a position where he is ready to settle down in a nice area and stay in... where as you want to go and work long hours in a shoebox in a city centre to get a cool job and go o... (read in full...)
She yelled at me and accused me of cheating. It's only a picture!!
Q. Is this cheating? I have a picture of a female musician on my binder. It's a normal picture, not one where she's half naked or in a slutty pose. Girlfriend: Who's that woman? Me: That's a musician I like. Girlfriend: Do you think she's pretty? Me...
A. 4 November 2008: Is she, like, 12?
Does she have any idea of the real world?
I think you need to tell her not to be so neurotic and paranoid.
As long as you reassure her that she is the most beautiful girl in the world to you and have pictures of her to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to purge my life of any man from my past.
Q. I have dated my boyfriend for over 2 years. He is 35 and I am 28. I love him deeply. He wants me to give up all contact with any man from my past. I am not in regular contact at all just friends on facebook or myspace, I'm not hiding anything he is ...
A. 4 November 2008: He'll start with making you get rid of all traces of your former love life. Then he'll make you cut contact with any of your friends that want you to go out and have fun "because they will encourage you to cheat." Then it will be all your frien... (read in full...)
Any tips on sexy underware ... I want to suprise my boyfriend!
Q. hey. im a size 16-18 with really big boobs. i want to surprise my boyfriend with sexy lingrey (sorry bout the spelling) x but i know not many things will be flattering on me. any suggestions??? thanks x x x x...
A. 4 November 2008: Put lingerie and Plus Size into google and there are a million websites that cater for girls with larger assets. Corsets are always really good. It's all about using what you have so have a look at some websites and see what looks best on girls... (read in full...)
She likes me more than she likes her boyfriend but won't leave him, how to win her over?
Q. i really like this girl, and she really likes me. but she is going out with this guy and he treats her like crap. and then she gets p.o. and the next day she forgets about it. He also ditches her for weed. any advice? anything i can do? i want to ...
A. 4 November 2008: Consolidate her mind by cutting contact. She has the best of both worlds at the moment. So tell her that you want her and you would treat her like a princess and everything else about why you would be a great boyfriend... and then tell her y... (read in full...)
She's cut down on the sex - what can I do?
Q. My female partner of nearly two years (shes 26, im 28) has gradually been cutting sexual activity out of our relationship. At first (three months or so) we would make love once, twice a day. Yeah the normal honeymoon period stuff. She was very ...
A. 4 November 2008: Oh dear. Well it seems you've been a brilliant boyfriend for her. You've boosted her self esteem and she's found faith through that. Unfortunately this means she now wants to save herself for marriage. And she doesn't want you to propose beca... (read in full...)
I hate to be away from her - should I leave before we get too serious?
Q. I've been dating this girl for 3 months now... for the past 2 months i've been an hour away at school but i come home on weekends and we see each other then... i know im falling for her and i am INCREDIBLY happy when i am with her... we have our ...
A. 3 November 2008: This is called a long distance relationship.
It's hard and miserable.
But it is only weekdays you aren't seeing each other. That's not that bad you know.
It's not like you aren't seeing each other for months at a time.
If you don't th... (read in full...)
Does everything happen for a reason?
Q. Does everything happen for a reason?...
A. 3 November 2008: Yep!
But fate only smiles on those who puts themselves in the right place at the right time.
So if you stay at home and whine about things then you will have a boring life.
If you get out there and make the most of everything that's offere... (read in full...)
I don't like where my life is going and it's making me socially awkward.
Q. I’m socially awkward. This is new for me. I overcame my shyness a long time ago and I was really happy and proud of myself but now I’m finishing my second professional degree and I really don’t care for it. I feel like a failure after all this ...
A. 3 November 2008: Everyone feels like this at the end of their degree. You don't know where you are going yet and that is scary.
Get your rolled up scroll and then go travelling or do some volunteer work.
Figure out where in the world you want to be and start ... (read in full...)
I can't believe he stole from my roommate. Should I give him a second chance?
Q. My boyfriend and I recently broke up. The reason we broke up is because I found out he had stolen some money from my roommate. He is a person I believed would never do this but obviously he did. He says it is because he felt like he wasn't providing ...
A. 3 November 2008: He hasn't lied once he's lied twice to you.
If he is that insecure that he is willing to risk serious trouble just to buy you groceries what else is he going to do?
I think people do deserve second chances but you don't necessarily have... (read in full...)
I'm very, very tight and am too scared he won't fit inside me!
Q. Help me please! I need your help, it's very upsetting! My verginal area is very, very tight. I feel I am more than ready for sex but am too scared that his dick more than likely will NOT fit! Please give some advice to help me with this! ...
A. 3 November 2008: It says you are 13 to 15 so there is a good chance that your body is just not ready for sex.
Wait till you are 16.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to have naked women on his phone?
Q. My husband thinks it's normal for him to post naked women on his phone. I disagree. Help please. ...
A. 3 November 2008: I wouldn't be very happy with my husband if he did that.
In fact I'd be furious and demand it was deleted and not replaced.
Once I'd made him grovel for a day or two then I might give him a nice photo of me to replace it with.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
How can I justify my coldness towards her without revealing that I love her?
Q. I'm in a bit of a situation. Last week I told my unrequited love that I really liked her and that I'm going to need some space so that I can get over her. She disagreed and thought that cutting me off was a bad idea, saying that we should just carry ...
A. 3 November 2008: Tell her the almost truth.
Tell her that you need space to get over her. She may disagree but she does not really get a choice in this.
Just tell her calmly that you will be back in touch once you are ready to be friends again.
You do... (read in full...)
I just want fun but he's getting serious. What should I do?
Q. I've fancied this guy who've i worked with for years... but he's 15yrs older than me. He has a very volatile relationship with his partner and has moved out of their house loads of time. This past year we've got to be really close friends. He's ...
A. 3 November 2008: If he's stuck in a violent relationship then he will be looking for an easy way out as he is going to be very emotionally battered and will want someone to run to.
If he was content to be alone then he would have left her by now.
Find details ... (read in full...)
Tried to spice things up with a saucy shave and she flipped!
Q. I've been dating a fantastic woman for about 4 months. Our sex life has been great during this time. I adore and respect her hugely but I've been dumped for stepping out of line. The woman has indicated in a number of ways a fairly liberal mind on ...
A. 3 November 2008: Well there is a difference between wanting to lick cream off someone and wanting to put moving blades on them.
Just talk to her about it and explain she was giving out signals that she would be open to suggestion and you would have never done it ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of being single.
Q. How can I get a man chasing for me?...
A. 3 November 2008: Kidnap one and lock him in a box under your bed.
He won't be able to chase you though.....
Maybe you should take Uncle Phil's advice.... But would you want to date a smoker?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does he still love me?
Q. I've been with my treasured and beloved boyfriend for over 2 years now. I've had my share of bad relationships. But none of them turned long term like this one. I am a picky person. Down to the some of the hobbies or interests he should have. ...
A. 3 November 2008: Do you really want to be in this relationship while it is like this?
It sounds to me like it has come to the end of the line.
If you can't get him to open up and discuss what is wrong then he is only going to get worse and I don't think it i... (read in full...)
He left me for his co-worker! Is this a mid-life crisis?
Q. my husband has been gone 7 weeks now, i think i am slowley coming to terms with the fact that my 25 year marriage is over. tonight he sent me a text moaning that his adult children are ignoring his texts and that he loves them so much, then saying ...
A. 3 November 2008: He's pushing for friendship with you so the kids can forgive him and everything can go as well as he planned it in his mind.
Tell him you cannot be his friend as you are still too hurt and angry about what he did. If he says it was for a happier ... (read in full...)
Should I deposit money in her account without telling her?
Q. My girlfriend works as a nanny for a large family, which for some reason in the last 3 months have somehow not paid her on time, sometimes her wages are paid 1 week late, meaning that she sometimes is low or runs out of money, i have offered her ...
A. 3 November 2008: The only way you can help her is to convince her to find another job.
If she tells her employer that she is going to quit if her wages don't come on time then they may make more effort.
I'm sure they'd rather keep her than have to train a new p... (read in full...)
I don't want to end it before I build an order in my life so I won't fall to pieces! Any advice?
Q. I have a boyfriend of nearly a year and he's just moved off to the coast to uni, and I'm still in London. I made my worries about us staying together to him clear, and he reassured me saying things like, 'don't worry ill talk to you every day'. This ...
A. 3 November 2008: Call your friends, go out for a few drinks. Catch up.
Then call him and end it.
All this will take a week max.
You say that he's needy but you are the one who can't deal without him there as a safety net because you haven't physically been ... (read in full...)
I let my brother go into foster care, is he behaving nastily because I didn't take him in?
Q. my brother (who's 9) was in a crash car and both my parents died but he is a survivor. Child services call me asking if I want take him in or he'll be in foster care. I didn't want to take him in because my girlfriend (of 2 years) just move in with ...
A. 3 November 2008: Of course he is hurt!
He feels abandoned by you, and the death of both his parents right in front of him may also have had a small effect on him too. You don't know what he saw in that car and whether he is messed up from seeing all the blood an... (read in full...)
My gf never answers my calls, but she is active online!
Q. Hello everyone. My gf always missed my call. She off work at 5 and I usually call her around 9. Sometimes, I call her in the morning or during her lunch time just to say hi. When she finally pick up, she said she is busy and stressed from wo...
A. 3 November 2008: Sounds like she just doesn't want to talk to you.
Ask her why she can never talk and why she is avoiding you. Ask her if she really wants to be with you because it's not worth you hanging around someone who just doesn't have the back bone to end i... (read in full...)
What does sperm taste like to men?
Q. My Gf wants Me to lick my *** off of her boobs but I don't know how it tastes. What does sperm taste like to men?...
A. 3 November 2008: It tastes exactly the same as it does to women: salty and bitter.
We are not a foreign species you know.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and loosing weight...
Q. i have a doc, appointment in a few days. it got pushed back because he was out of town for a week, but i have noticed i am loseing weight, im pregnant.... i know this shouldnt be happening, but i am eating like a PIGG!!!!! anyone know wat to do ...
A. 3 November 2008: Are you eating a balanced diet?
Make sure you are eating veg and meat and getting all the nutrients you need.
All you can do till you see the doc is keep eating.
It says you are very young like 13-15 so perhaps that has something to do with... (read in full...)
He never texts me or calls me!
Q. This guy started talking to me and he eventually asked me out. I said yes because i liked him to but, i have plans for the weekend but Im free the next. He was like ok. But ever since that he dosent text me or call me. He talks to me when he sees ...
A. 3 November 2008: Hmm, he could just be one of these guys who doesn't text unless he needs to.
Since you haven't yet been on a date I would leave it for now. But once you are seeing each other properly and are boyfriend and girlfriend then you could just ask him ... (read in full...)
I love him but he gets on my nerves sometimes!!
Q. dear cupid i`m 24 years old and i`ve got someone who i really love but sometimes he gets on my nerves,like saturday we went to a friend`s party everything was fine until his brother showed up with his girlfriend my boyfriend`s attitude changed...
A. 3 November 2008: If you do not like his attitude and you have talked to him about it and he refuses to change then you can either accept he will continue like this or walk away.
When he realises he is going to lose you then he may change.
If not then you wer... (read in full...)
What do I do if my ex blackmails me so I can't date anyone?!
Q. Hello, I am in stuff I don't want to be in. My ex girlfriend keeps pulling that 'if you loved me you would kissed me or hug me or agree with me.' I did love this girl but she is using it against me, and I have some friends who know about us, and ...
A. 2 November 2008: What are you on about?
You have a rubbish girlfriend so split up with her.
Tell her you are sick of her behaviour and don't want to be with her any more.
Why are you so ashamed about being with her and people finding out?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does he still love me?
Q. I've been with my treasured and beloved boyfriend for over 2 years now. I've had my share of bad relationships. But none of them turned long term like this one. I am a picky person. Down to the some of the hobbies or interests he should have. ...
A. 2 November 2008: All you have said is basically that your relationship has been through hardships... and that he doesn't want to have sex with you when you are upset... and that he's a bit stressed... and he's not ready to get married.
But then you imply that he'... (read in full...)
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