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writes:hi. i started talking to a guy i meant on a online site, and we exchange emails, and soon numbers. we texted everyday, with him texting me every day, and we would text alot throughout the day. we fell out a few times, but it was all forgotten, and started liking each other.we have also spoken on the fone. the thing is, he suddenly, stopped texting me as much, and now doesnt text me first, im always having to text him, and when we talk, he doesnt always text me back, something he always would do. im confused as i really like him, but he isnt showing any interest. should i just forgot it, and move on?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 Well he is texting you back so his interest isn't totally gone. I'd suggest pulling back a bit. Let him text you first and call you first. He might get interested in the chase all over again. However, if he doesn't contact you at all, let him go and move on to someone else.
Good luck.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (31 July 2009):
hi there. i went through the same situation a couple of months ago. what it sounds like is that this 'relationship' started very intensely and full on. both of you showed a full interest in each other but now the 'honeymoon' period is over and the intensity has worn off. he seems to be the one who is less interested- which is why he is texted less often and sometimes not replying. why not give him some space and he may just start to show some interest. give it a couple of weeks and if you get no texts then forget him, he isnt worth it
good luck i hope this helped
if you want to talk about it more then feel free to mail me anytime
ellie
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reader, IamSoConfused +, writes (31 July 2009):
Yes you should forget him and move on.
If he is really interested in you and wanted to be with you then he would contact you.
I should probably take my own advice on this one as well so you are not alone :)
Good luck. There will be other people, you have your whole life ahead of you to look forward to. Don't be down :)
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