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writes:Ok well, 2 years ago, i met this boy (lets call him bill) at a rockclimbng camping trip and as soon as i saw him, i fell in love with him! i would always look at him and think of him allday, for the whole 4 days we were on the trip. i thought he liked me to, so i started to talk to him and get to know him, and for some reason he flirted back! i was sure he liked me...so i carried on. when we talked on msn, he would always say 'love you' before he went. but then i got a text from my friend saying that her and 'bill' were going out......i just cried...i asked my friend to ask him what he thought of me and he said a good FRIEND....is that all i was? a friend?.......well ok...so there is bill messing me about and he has done this on a few occasions now, leading me on and meesing with me! i just got fed up with him, and pushed them feelings i had out of my life. (another year went by...) then i was round another one of my friends house after school and i went on msn. my friend thought it would be funny to wind him up, after all the stuf he had done to me....and so she did. the next day he apoligised to her! via MY msn, and they traded numbers....for the next like month they were texting 24/7! and arranged to meet, they were planing on going out with eachother (bearing in mind this was the first time they would have met..) and they went out for about 2 months. then the other day they broke up over this inciddent that happened (which i dont want to say) and he dumped her. and now he is doing exactly the same thing to her as he did to me. texting her saying things like 'i love you but dont want to go out with you again', and 'another girl has asked me if i can kiss her' and just winding her up....i dont really know whats going on with my friend, but i know somethings up, she isnt her usual sunny self! throughout the whole time she was texting him, i told her, he is a lie, and a joke, she didnt listen, and now she can see it.....(i hope!) i just need some advice on what to say to this guy...and what to say to my friend............??much obliged (:xx
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (10 December 2008):
What an asshole, he obviously just likes knowing that girls like him and is leading you on to make himself feel better. He seems to enjoy hurting people. You and your friend just need to blank him out, he wont like it but he deserves it.
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reader, Mixylicious +, writes (9 December 2008):
aww hun im sorry to hear that if it was me id knock two planks outer him but thats not the answer. he is a waste of space tbh i believe in wat goes around comes back around so one day he will know what it feels like to be hurt and messed around with. i think he is a pathetic immature little boy who needs to grow up. talk to your friend or atleast let her know you are there for her and she could talk to you anytime about anythink. but if she wont listen you have to leave her to make her mistakes she'll learn the hard way im not trying to be harsh or nothing but thats how it works but just be there for her when she does she will need someone like you to talk to. as for this lad he sounds really pathetic and rather cruel and people like that dont have feelings for anyone but there self so i think its pointless saying anything to him cos theres more chance he wouldnt care and do it all the more knowing that its hurting her and you. alot of lads are like that unfortunatly i should know ive been there done that got hurt an realised the hard. hope this helps and take care luv mixy xx
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (9 December 2008):
hey there! im so sorry this silly little boy has had to put you through this. i know what it feels like when you think that guy is really special. some guys at this age, and some at all ages, are unaware at how they should treat girls. this guy is basically a joke and is using you. stay away from him. one thing you MUSNT do it say rude/horrible stuff to him. hell be told by others about his behaiviour. you dont want to get a reputation for being nasty. im sure your not and if you really want to have a heart to heart with him then just tell him that you thought you two were more than friends and he really hurt you. hope it goes okay.anytime you need advice, mail me to let me knowelliebelliexxx
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