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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am 14 years old and am friends with a girl in my year who is also 14. We are really good friends, and can laugh about absolutely anything and everything. We never seem to stop texting each other, to chat as we live in different towns. The problem is, I think I've fallen for her. That wasn't meant to sound corny, although it probably does, but I really like her and want to ask her out, but I'm too worried and shy and am afraid I'll get a no. I've never really had a serious girlfriend before because my friends are pretty much all boys (no I'm not gay.) and I have never plucked up the courage to ask. Has anybody got any tips on what to do, because it's driving me mad. Thanks for reading this and if you have any advice, please, please post it for me. Thanks.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (1 August 2009):
hi there! aww you sound so sweet :) ok so first of all you need to establish how this girl is feeling. give subtle hints about who you like, maybe joke about your childhood crushes and then say you like someone else now etc or if you cant pluck up the courage then write her a letter. girls like all that romantic kind of stuff. as a 15 year old girl, i like guys who are confident but not cocky. the ones who are comfortable in themselves. so i suggest you do something which puts you in your comfort zone and then you can invite her in. so that sounds weird but let me give you an example. so lets say you have a dog and you enjoy walking it in the park- you feel comfortable and relaxed. so why not invite her for a picnic in the park or something or if she has a dog then arrnage for a dog walk. if the conversation runs dry then there are always the dogs to talk about. the main thing is what you want help and tips onn?
so mail me if you wanna talk more: my ears are open
ellie
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