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writes:I'm inexperienced with guys and I can be really naive. So in really worried that I've been too believing with this guy.So I met this guy and we started talking so before I left he came up and hugged me his excuse he just felt like it. So that night he sent a friend request on Facebook and we chatted for a bit and he asked for my number which I gave him. So we've been texting for the last few days and he asked me on a date. I really like him and for me he is perfect. But I'm wondering is it all to good to be true, I mean Ive never had any attention of guys ever then a guy who is gorgeous, funny and talented asks me on a date after only meeting me once. Please just give your opinion on this ?
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reader, harleygirl2010  +, writes (18 July 2011):
 I agree with the rest of them. Go on a date with him and just get to know him first. That is all you really can do at this moment. I had the same thing happen with me and my current man and now i am happier than ever. So just get to know him first and see what you think. :)
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (18 July 2011):
 He seems okay and not being strange in anyway. So go for it, the date will be fun and you will see what he is truly like.One worry is that you seem to be into it very soon into it. Since you are new on this scene just take your time because it wont be so easy and fairytale like for example, fall in love and be together forever, kind of thing.Just take your time with it and dont show all your feelings towards him straightaway. Sometimes can make a girl look clingy and that puts guys off. But dont focus on it too much atm. Just enjoy yourself! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): Honestly its too soon to say if he is genuine. Only time will tell. You have to see the good in people first, until you notice a sudden change in their personality. Heres some tips...Don't read too much into things, if he said he just felt like it he just felt like it... afterall it was just a hug, he didn't put his hand up your top, or anything like that so relax.Don't have sex/sleep with him until you feel totally and completely sure of his feelings for you. That way you'll have an idea whether he is genuinely into you or just after casual sex. Take it very slowly. Talk about things, get to know eachother find common interests. If he is consistant in doing this, then its safe to say he is interested in getting to know you.If he starts talking about sex, and asking you sexual questions at this early stage, well then its safe to say he is just after casual sex. See how he acts towards other girls, is he flirtatious? shy? aggressive? This will give an insight into his real personality towards women. All you have to do is observe and listen.But all that said do give him a chance,just talk to him and get to know him while keeping all the above in mind.Finally, relax and be yourself.Hope it goes well for you.Good Luck.x
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reader, person12345 +, writes (18 July 2011):
 Don't doubt yourself, he sounds like he really likes you! Nothing about this screams "player, stay away." Go have fun, feel confident in your attractiveness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011):
Go out with him and enjoy - he probably thinks HE is the lucky one
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 July 2011):
It's really too soon to be able to tell what he's up to. You almost need to go on this date and really get to know him before you can ask anything else. He seems to be okay though - it's not like he's been out of order or anything.
I would say at the moment, give him a chance and see what he's like. Come back when you've been on a date or two, and tell us how he acted. Then we'll know a bit more.
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