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writes:The story goes like this. When guy Smses her , she will say "what the hell? mom, dad around, stop bothering me, give me a space!". When guy stops doing so, she will say "you have got changed big time and no more care about me". When guy tells her that im gonna send over my parents for officially propose you, she will say “No , you are not financially stable track." Ok , when he tells her that we gonna get married when I will be having good job, she will say “So u wana keep on using me without making our relationship official huh? When she calls you on phone, the first thing she will ask you, “What are you doing right now?”, when guy answers “ I am watching TV” she will say “Why are you wasting your precious time on watching TV? And why don’t you go for evening job with morning one to make some saving for our future?” When guy starts doing this, then she complains saying “you aren’t giving me proper time and I think we should move apart now”. On first date, when he tries looking into her eyes and takes notice of her dress, she will find this cheap . On next date, when you will just look at your shoes while talking to her , then she complains “Why you were avoiding eye contact and not looking at what I was wearing ?” When guy politely talks to her female friends, she will jibe at him saying “ wow you got friendly with my friends so quickly than what I thought.” When next time, he tries avoiding her friends through diplomatic words, she finds this unacceptable as well“ Why you were behaving so rudely with my friends?” . All this makes you bang your hand in the wall. Girls suck your blood dry! They just don’t care about man who has also heart in his body which hurts when it is hit so often and so badly. They are confused , so they also make man confused and he struggles to find the balancing act to keep the relationship going . They just don’t know what they want in their life and in what amount. Why girls are like this? Please people help me solve this !
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): You've got quite a long list there. It seems to me that one of you is seeing the world in extremes.
It might be her, overreacting to keep you anxious. Not nice.
But it might be you. Extrapolating innocent comments so that they seem extreme. A way of keeping her anxious. And not nice either.
What is clear is that one of the two of you isn't being nice. The best thing for the victim to do is to dump the aggressor before there is too much investment in the relationship. Because being nice is one of the things which makes a relationship fun, and it's obviously lacking here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): I think your girlfriends PMS-ing. It would explain the mood swings. Not all girls are like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011): AngelDlite nailed it!This girl has some serious control issues. Move on.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (21 August 2011):
 as a rule girls are NOT like this so don't let this spoilt little princess put you off all women! i can tell that this girl has zero respect for you and she is not into you - if she was she would not dare to treat you like this coz she would be scared that you would dump her. she is acting like a brat. nothing you do will ever be the right thing and good enough for her. you should be with someone who appreciates you. this girl doesn't
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (21 August 2011):
 Maybe its just the girls you have experienced. Whoever does that is extremely insecure, and you should give her space and move on with your life. Cause people who talk like that arent ready for a serious relationship and just thing that guys are like toys and can pick them up whenever they feel like it.
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