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I hate my boyfriend, I'm lonely and sad..

Q.   I need a lot of help with something. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we have lived together for most of that time. 2 months into the relationship he started calling me curse names and yelling at me constantly. When he ...

A.   25 August 2010: No matter how much you love him, you can't let ANYONE talk to you the way he does! I had an ex that would make fights my fault and like I was the one that was wrong all the time. I loved him and I still do, but the way he talks to me is not ... (read in full...)

Opinions on "friends with benefits" relationships?

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago, and I've since picked up a friendship with an ex of mine who I've always been on good terms with. The other night, while we were sitting at his house talking, and one thing led to another and we ...

A.   25 August 2010: I think it's fine as long as it is made very clear that both of you don't want anything more. My ex and I used to be friends with benefits for months and then we decided to go back to having a relationship. I mean as long as you both know and are on ... (read in full...)

Shaving down there...

Q.   Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...

A.   24 August 2010: yes its normal! i do, and i think its so gross if you dont shave... (read in full...)

I want him back...but I broke up with him!

Q.   Broke up with my bf at the beginning of the summer ...then i realized how much i still love him and want to be with him, but i dont want 2 run into the same issues we were having when we broke up. I think we were on the verge of some significant ...

A.   21 August 2010: my bf broke up with me because he was scared we were going to continue to have the same bickering problems that we had. dont be stubborn and try to work it out with him and if it doesnt work then at least you know you tried... (read in full...)

How do I fix this relationship?

Q.   Ok. So The other day I made a big mistake. I broke up with my girlfriend when there was no reason to at all... We had gotten into a fight and my inability to handle my temper led me to grab my things from her house and storm off. It was a rough day ...

A.   21 August 2010: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 6 days ago because he overreated and flipped out over a small fight. i think hes doing the same thing your doing, except hes too stubborn to come back soon. you should call her and get together for lunch or ... (read in full...)

Confused but still want to give things a go...

Q.   hi all, im so confused at the moment. ive been with my bf for 6 months now but were both really busy so dont get to spend much time together. he is busier than me generally so often when we make plans sometimes they never happen. I end up getting ...

A.   17 August 2010: I was in a similar situation too. He always had something going on and it made my schedule seem like I never did anything but wait around for him to be with him. I realized that you have to accept it, if you love him then hes not doing anything ... (read in full...)

Sometimes I feel as if there's hope... other times I feel I've lost him.

Q.   my bf broke up we have been together 3 years and he wants me to fight for us bc my behavior was very clingy ever since we decided to get engaged and stuff, i guess i was scared to lose him! long story short, he has cut down everything. he told me ...

A.   17 August 2010: I'm sorry :/ It sounds like you are very unhappy, and like he is playing you! By him texting you he wants to keep you attached and thinking that there is hope. My boyfriend and I broke up 3 days ago. We were together for 2 years and it was the ... (read in full...)

Wanting a phone sex relationship to be more

Q.   I have been in a on and off again phone sex type relationship with an older man ever since i was 15, i'm now 17 and he is 40 years old and divorced with two kids, issue is, i am starting to fall really hard for him. i want more from it, but, i'm not ...

A.   25 September 2009: really?! thats gross! hes probably a creep. you should NOT be talking to him, let alone having phone sex with him. you need to be intrested in people your own age, imagine what life will be life in 20 years if you get together with him, and when ... (read in full...)

Should I get her back? Or will karma do it for me?

Q.   This is a bit of a mean one. A girl who is supposed to be a friend slept with my ex within days of us calling quits. I know she had been after him for the entire time of our relationship (3years) even though she had a doting bf. Should I get...

A.   24 September 2009: Karma will. She's not even worth wasting your time and energy on. Be the bigger and more mature person and just walk away and she will regret doing it.... (read in full...)

My long-distance girlfriend is sending love messages to other guys.

Q.   am in a long dist relationship for a year n half.i love this girl and recently we had sex after waitin for a year. after she slept i went through her cellphone and i saw some luv text she has sent to some guys.she didnt deny but she didnt ...

A.   14 August 2009: It doesn't sound like shes easy to trust. If i were you i would have her at least explain or you shoud move on. When your in love with someone there is no reason at all to be sending the other sex "love" texts. ... (read in full...)

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