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writes: I`ve had a boyfriend for three weeks. He never leaves my side and he always tries to be with me 24/7. Hes happy around me but not when hes with other girls. My boyfriend is now telling me he loves me and he really means it. Im starting to feel the same but is he really telling the truth? So many guys told me they loved me but they all lied. )`: Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (18 July 2011):
He may be saying this cause he has never felt the way he feels. It is not love yet and dont let the fact that you are young blind you into this.
As you are young then your most important things in your life should be your friends. because in the end, they are the people who are less likely to leave you.
It is too often that when people get into a relationship that they neglect their friends and end up losing them or they become better friends with others and move on because their friend is too busy with their bf/gf.
Focus on friends for your own sake, because you dont know what the future holds.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (18 July 2011):
You're young and he's young and most teenagers don't know what love is. We use the term so loosely now that everyone takes it seriously. I wouldn't believe him. Just tell him you're flattered but you don't think he knows what it's like to be in love and neither do you. Talk to him and tell him to give you a while before he starts expecting for you to say it back/feel the same way.
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