Can a vasectomy fail after thirty years?
Q. A man I may be pregnant too claims to have had a vasectomy some thirty years ago.. Is it still possible it is his or is he likely to be lying? He never said this when we slept together in fact he asked if I was on the pill but he said this after I ...
A. 30 December 2010: It is very simple to find out if the vasectomy has failed.
Take a sample of his semen to a Dr. and have him look
under a microsope to see if any sperm are present.
It is very unusual for a vasectomy to fail after 30 years.
A DNA test of t... (read in full...)
Pregnant and the father is cheating and unsupportive!
Q. Ok, I'm 22 and pregnant with twins. I also hav a 8 year old son. Right now my life is crazy,and I'm hoping not 2 lose my mind. My boyfriend at first was there 4 me. Now that I'm 4 months pregnant he jus doesn't care at all. He's cheating, doesn't ...
A. 30 August 2010: Yes, please concentrate on the soon to be three beautiful
children. See an attorney and find out what your rights are
and then let the state track him down for support etc.
In my state they will really go after them. Twins will be
such a gift f... (read in full...)
Pregnant... but it might not be my husband's!
Q. OK.. here goes.. me and my husband split up for 3 months, and during those 3 months we both slept with other people (we honestly didn't think we were getting back together).. we have 3 kids together.. a set of twins who are 2 and an 11 month old.. ...
A. 15 August 2010: The baby is the important thing now. Take good care of yourself. Please consider adoption if the baby is not your hisbands. It can be an open adoption where you may have some contact over the years. This would save your marriage and provide very ... (read in full...)
I had my twins aborted and years later I still feel a numbness about having done it...
Q. When I was fifteen, I fell pregnant. Me and my boyfriend (who I'm still with) had been together for over a year by then, and I knew what his reaction would be if I just came out with 'I'm pregnant' without me having thought about our decisions ...
A. 24 July 2010: I am sorry about the loss of your twins. This tragic loss
will cause you grief all your life. The loss of a child
whether by abortion or untimely death after birth is a loss
one never completely gets over. Please seek out a
clergy person... (read in full...)
Is this some sort of STD or cancer?
Q. Ok, today my bf really surprised me...he insisted that we use a condom wen he normally penetrates without usin 1. the thing is, for the 1st two years of our relationship, our main contraceptive method was the withdrawal method and once in a while if ...
A. 12 May 2010: He is sick. He has one or more STD's. If he loved or cared about you he would have had no sexual contact of any kind until he was totally clean and well. It appears that he has been going out on you. Please do a blood test for HIV. He could have ... (read in full...)
Two guys, one pregnancy, unsure of father or what to do!
Q. (MOD NOTE: Aunts/Uncles please be respectful to this poster, no negative nasty posts please!) I have a huge dilemma. i'll try to make this as short and to the point as possible. I just very recently ended a three year relationship with a man that ...
A. 6 April 2010: You have done the right thing by keeping the baby. We all have made bad choices in our lives but keeping the baby is
a good choice. I strongly advise that you talk to a
Catholic priest. He will value the decision to keep the
child and will hel... (read in full...)
Will he leave me if he thinks the baby's not his?
Q. The thing is, I'm currently 37wks pregnant! I'm with my partner of 3years who I love to bits but when I fell pregnant we were going threw a bad patch and I slept with sum1 else round that time. My dr said I concieved the 25th and I slept with the ...
A. 23 February 2010: The biological father needs to know he has a baby. As soon as the baby is born do a DNA test and let the biological father know he is a Dad.
The truth now is much easier to deal with than later.
It WILL all come out later. Believe me !!... (read in full...)
My partner wont name me as a joint tenant on the house we share even when we get married, is he just covering himself in case anything goes wrong in our marriage?
Q. I fell in love with a man 15 yrs older than me, everything was rosey. We got together about 2 yrs ago and he asked me to marry him after 1. It is my first proper relationship, I am in my early 20's. I moved in with him to his house - which he built ...
A. 4 February 2010: My wife of 26 years required an agreement before we were
married. We both had houses but hers was better and I moved into her house. A few years later we sold her house
and moved into another bigger house in both our names.
After a few years an... (read in full...)
What could help with all day morning sickness?
Q. Im pregnant and i cant get any sleep. Im only about 2 months and im feeling so nauseous 24/7. Ive been pregnant before n it was never this bad to where i am crying hysterically about it. Its to the point where i cant even move my body or else im ...
A. 30 January 2010: My wife had severe morning sickness with our third child.
She was actually placed in a hospital for three days.
The reason was dehydration. IV therapy - that added huge amounts of liquid to her system. This did cure the
morning sickness. S... (read in full...)
Baby situation as well as boyfriend!?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and want a baby at least one, so we have been trying for a while but I don't no whether he wants as much or his hope is just lost, at the minute we are waiting to see if i am pregnant, but if i ...
A. 19 January 2010: Children are a blessing. Keep trying!... (read in full...)
Pregnant to another man...
Q. I'm a married woman, and have been married for 8 years. I love me husband and see him as the man I will get old with. He's my best friend. My future is with him as emotionally we just 'click'. Sexually we are very compatible too. He satisfies ...
A. 16 January 2010:
This other man probably has women at other locations.
This means you are at risk of giving a horrible STD to
your faithful husband. Divorce your husband. He deserves someone better than you!... (read in full...)
Is this scar tissue after having a baby?
Q. Hi! I've had my first baby 5 weeks ago and I noticed that there is something inside my vagina blocking the entrance and it looks like scar tissue or something. I tried looking this up online and found nothing. What could it be? Can I still have ...
A. 6 January 2010: See the doctor ASAP. It could very easily be a sexually
transmitted disease.... (read in full...)
I believe I may be pregnant but part of me is unsure even after taking a pregancy test.
Q. I believe I may be pregnant but part of me is unsure even after taking a pregancy test. The reason is very simple, the man I've been sleeping with has had a vesectomy and we use condoms. Is there any chance that this man could possible produce a ...
A. 2 November 2009: He probably lied to you about the vesectomy. Thats why he
used condoms. Men do not always tell the trueth especially
if it would prevent sex.... (read in full...)
Anyone heard of constant, negative pregnancy test results before?
Q. Hello. This is very mathematical so i apologise already. *I made a summary at the bottom Secondly please dont judge due to the age bar up there. Im engaged, we both work, we both have qualifications and we both pay our bills and tax. So lets get...
A. 25 October 2009: Yes, you are pregnant. The doctor will be able to confirm
with a simple ultra sound since you are probably two months or so along. There are times pregnancy tests can give
repeated negatives if your hormones are different than
the "average" wo... (read in full...)
I feel my boyfriend's mother is overstepping a little with our plans for the baby!
Q. I don't know if i'm thinking to deep into this matter or wether or not i have some valied resson for concern. Me and my partner are expecting are first child in a few months but frew out the whole pregnancy I have had some concern as to wether or ...
A. 27 September 2009: Sometimes grandparents are so excited about the birth of a grandchild they may seem to be controlling but are just excited. Sometimes one of our children will say we are too involved in the raising of a grandchild. We don't fight over these th... (read in full...)
I don't want an abortion but I don't want to risk my sisters health!
Q. I'm 19 years old and 6 weeks pregnant. My uni course starts in 2 weeks where i will be studying Law. So my boyfriend of a year has me all focused on having an abortion, when it will break my heart to do so, and even worse my family has a history of ...
A. 15 September 2009: Please give your unborn child the gift of life.... (read in full...)
Do I turn my back on my sons or raise yet another child?
Q. My 19 year old son just told me that his girlfriend of one year is 4 and 1/2 months pregnant. Her parents have made it clear to her that if she keeps the baby that she can not stay with them. Right now, my husband and I are raising our 2 sons, and ...
A. 11 September 2009: Please don't turn your back on this new grandbaby. It will bother you if the baby is being raised in a bad home or
worse. At least if you raise the baby there will be
love and safety.... (read in full...)
Will he ever speak to me again?
Q. Will he ever speak to me again? Was with a man for over a year - on and off for the last 6 months. A year and a bit. Recently found out I am pregnant in July. He didn't take the news well at first and freaked out via txt. I found that weird and s...
A. 7 September 2009: There is a reasonable chance the baby is the one night sex event. Do a DNA test at birth to find out. If the baby is not your ex then he will never contact you again. If it is your ex then he has legal obligations to take care of the baby. ... (read in full...)
I had an abortion because we decided we were not ready for another baby, but now he has changed his mind and wants to try again!
Q. Heres my story i have a daughter shes 7months after her i made the mistake and got pregnant again me and my bf decided we wernt ready for another baby so i got an abortion, but now my bf wants another baby! i dont understand i just had that abortion ...
A. 2 September 2009: Have the baby. Put the abortion behind you. Your BF has
matured as you both have gone through this experence.
Your daughter really needs a sibling as she goes thru life.
I hope it is a boy so you can name him after your boyfriend.
This will rea... (read in full...)
I cant stop worrying that I'm pregnant!
Q. Ok well me and my boyfriend had sex but we use a condon EVERY time. Im a week late but im stressing like crazy, My step dad wont get my a prego test because he doesnt think iam because every time i have sex i stress out and i become late or early. ...
A. 28 August 2009: My wife was about your weight when she had our three children. It is possible that the condom did leak. If you are pregnant there is no reason why you should not have a normal pregnancy and delivery. Remember that a baby is always a blessing.
... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair with my friend's 16 year old daughter, and now she may be pregnant!
Q. Iam a married 40yr old who has been having an affair with my friends 16yr old daughter. She may now be pregnant and I think I love her. What should I do?...
A. 11 July 2009: If my 40 year old friend got my 16 year old daughter
pregnant jail would be the least of his worries. Her
daddy and relatives would solve the issue on a very personal basis.... (read in full...)
I slept with my fiance's dad!
Q. I slept with my fiance's dad. Yes, I know what I did was wrong but I was very drunk at the time. Very, very drunk. My boyfriend was away on a training course at the time. I found out I was pregnant by his dad a few weeks ago. I feel a bit g...
A. 5 July 2009: Please do not kill your baby. Give the baby up for adoption. You will carry the guilt of killing your baby forever. People make mistakes - please do not compound the mistake by killing the baby. Do the right thing and let a couple who rea... (read in full...)
He got his ex pregnant! Everytime we argue I'm scared he goes to her!
Q. My partner of 4 years cheated on me with his now ex, unfortunately she got pregnant by him. Anyway today I had to go to the doctors as i'm not well and i asked him if he could pick me up from there. We arranged it and all was fine. I came out of the ...
A. 19 June 2009: The ex is going to have his baby. The baby will need him
since he is the father. Drop him - let him be a happy
family with his ex and the new baby. They do not need you
in the way. Move on find and someone else.... (read in full...)
Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!
Q. ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...
A. 16 June 2009: If this post is true and not made up - the 17 year old father should be in jail. A 16 or 17 year old boy having sex with a 12 and 13 year old is clearly against the law. In the United States a 17 year old could be a junior or senior in hig... (read in full...)
We showered together...could I be pregnant now?
Q. I'm really paranoid that I might be pregnant. You see, my boyfriend and I showered together about a week ago. While he didn't actually penetrate me, he did rub himself underneath me. It was mostly between my thighs. He didn't actually "cum", a...
A. 6 June 2009: The only way to know for sure is to use a pregnancy test. You can take one now and again in a couple weeks to make sure. Yes, there is a chance you could be pregnant. If the test result is positive it is very important to start prenatal care. A... (read in full...)
Pregnant at 15 and madly in love, help please
Q. ok, i dont know how to go about this. but i am 15 years old and possibly pregnant, all the signs add up and tests were positive. and im terrified. not that my parents might isolate me more than they already do. but knowing the man of life, may have ...
A. 3 June 2009: Your boyfriend broke the law when he had sex with a child under the age of 16. He should go to jail to protect other children. Do not kill your baby by abortion but give the baby to a couple who would be able to properly care for him/h... (read in full...)
Skipped almost two periods now...am I pregnant?
Q. Okey i really need help im 13 nearly 14 and i think im pregnant. the last couple of times me and my boyfirnd had sex we did not use protection as he pulled out before he came so i thought it would be okey but now im realy worried because i have ski...
A. 16 May 2009: Who says he did not cum inside you ? Boys lie all the time.
He could have done some inside you and some outside.
You would never really know at the time. He would not want
to upset you because you might not let him do it again.
Get a pregnan... (read in full...)
What do I do? My boyfriend has a baby with a crazy woman!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we live together. About a year ago we decided to have a break from each other, in this time he slept with someone else. We decided over our time apart that we missed each other too much and could...
A. 11 May 2009: Now is the time to break up with the boyfriend. The baby needs a father and you need to move on with your life.... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to have family in room when I give birth...im not so keen..
Q. Hi, im preganant and baby due in august. Me and my husband are both thrilled but theres 1 aspect im not happy with.... I am having a hospital birth and so far a vaginal birth which is all good but my husband wants his parents and possibly som...
A. 24 March 2009: Yes, let the family in for this special event. It is not
your decision alone but a family decision. You are very
lucky that you have a family that cares and wants to be
involved. If you don't do this the family will rightfully
feel insulted... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of what he'll do if he finds out I'm still pregnant!
Q. I turned nineteen about a month ago, I'm a freshman in college, and my ex is still in high school. About a week after I broke up with him, he raped me with no protection. The reasons we broke up was because he physically and emotionally abused me ...
A. 22 March 2009: You must tell him since he is the father of the child.
If he finds out later he can challenge any adoption because
he was not involved. He will also have visitation rights.
I suggest you have an attorney contact him to work out the
details. If ... (read in full...)
She's a couple days late, but we are so scared. What are the chances?
Q. I live in the US. My GF of 17 months might be pregnant, we had intercourse 7 days ago today. she is worried cause her period was suppose to happen and it hasnt yet. I did use a condom with spermicidial lube..but after i came, i kept going. and i ...
A. 14 March 2009: Yes,she may be pregnant. You must get a pregnancy test
so you know for sure. If she is pregnant congratulations!
You have created a new human being a child. Tell your
parents and get prenatal care. If you are not employeed
find a job an... (read in full...)
Is she just sick or could she be pregnant?
Q. This is just an update about the whole pregnancy question of mines I guess that was like 3 weeks ago. I don't know how to update my posts so I'm writing this as a new one. My girlfriend started puking the night after the day we made love and i...
A. 13 March 2009: Puking blood and the doctor just sends her home. Puking blood is a life threatening event. Internal bleeding. I would not be worried about a possible unlikely pregnancy but why my girlfriend is bleeding out. Your post does not make sence.... (read in full...)
Help Trying to get pregnant
Q. Dear whomever, I'm 18 years old and me and my boyfriend has been together for 1year and 2months and we have been trying to get pregnant since we ...
A. 11 March 2009: Congratulation for deciding you want a baby. They are always worth the effort and you are old enough to have one. You will not regret your wonderful decision. His smoking weed will have little effect on getting pregnant. However, you ... (read in full...)
Is it true if you haven't yet started your period you can still get pregnant?
Q. Hello, umm is it true if you haven't started your periods you can still get pregnant? of course you ave to use a condom but I was just wondering if this was true. thankz...
A. 11 March 2009: Yes you can get pregnant though it is unlikely. If you are
pregnant - It is possible to have a healthy baby at your
age. If you have been having sex please do a pregnancy test and if pregnant start prenatal care with a doctor
ASAP. Tell your p... (read in full...)
What should I do if the baby isn't his?
Q. I am a mom of 3 little girls and yesterday I found out I am pregnant again. When I became pregnant with my oldest daughter my boyfriend was delighted. She was a ray of sunshine. 4 years on and I became pregnant again but my boyfriend wasnt the dad. ...
A. 8 March 2009: He desires better than you! Tell him that you continued
to be unfaithful and that he is probably not the father
of the unborn child. Do a DNA test to determine who the
actual father is so child support can be paid. Hopefully,
this man will... (read in full...)
We broke up, I'm pregnant and very uncertain about the future
Q. Me and my boyfriend moved in together, we fought a lot though. Well the last time we fought it was over myspace, I know stupid, his friend said she wrote something to me and I never got it, he believed her over me when I said that I did not receive ...
A. 5 March 2009: It sound to me like he found a easy way to get rid of
his pregnant girl friend. It is quite possible the
message was never sent and they set you up to get you out
of the picture. If it is not too late please consider
abortion. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that I'm 17 and wanting a baby?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend a while now, and we've never used protection whilst having sex. We did to start with, then on two occasions neither of us had any, so we decided to do it without. Now this has become a regular thing, and protection ...
A. 5 March 2009: Continue to have sex without "protection" and you will
get pregnant. You are using the method that other couples
successfully use to become parents. Continue to have sex without condoms and you may get the added bonus feature of a nasty STD to g... (read in full...)
Pregnant, alone & scared!
Q. I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend just left me and our 14 month old daughter and 2 step children. He said I pushed him to do it, that he did not abandon us. Its all my fault for seeing how far he would go. Is this a man thing to do. He cheated ...
A. 2 March 2009: He is the one with the problems. You concentrate on having a healthy pregnancy. He lived with you but had sex with anyone who was available. You are very lucky if you did not get an STD from this guy. I had some very rough times in my ... (read in full...)
I am 15 and want to have a baby!
Q. I want to keep having sex....i was 14 when i started to and now 15 and want a baby. I really want to have one but my mom don't want me to i wanna fellow my own desires...
A. 2 March 2009: Are you mentally ready to go thru a long and painful labor or a C-section birth which is major surgery and requires lots and lots of stitches ? At age 15 a normal size baby has to fit through a small vagina. Too painful for me to even think abou... (read in full...)
Pregnant, alone & scared!
Q. I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend just left me and our 14 month old daughter and 2 step children. He said I pushed him to do it, that he did not abandon us. Its all my fault for seeing how far he would go. Is this a man thing to do. He cheated ...
A. 1 March 2009: Continue the pregnancy. Bring the new life into the
family. Contact an attorney ASAP to start child support
and continue medical payments. He cannot legally just
walk away from his responsibilities. It is not your fault!!
Young childre... (read in full...)
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