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writes:Ok, today my bf really surprised me...he insisted that we use a condom wen he normally penetrates without usin 1. the thing is, for the 1st two years of our relationship, our main contraceptive method was the withdrawal method and once in a while if he cum in me, we would buy the morning after pill. however there were times wen i was ovulating, an he cum in me we didnt make time 2 buy the pill but yet i didnt come out preg. well, wen he was younger the doc told him dat he couldnt hav any children so wen we realized that i never came out preg within the 1st 2 yrs, we continued to have unprotected sex for like approx, 1yr only 2 find out 1 great day, i got preg by him. during my pregnancy, i realized that i had genital warts...they were very tiny in a small area. so is den i realized that i got hpv from him. apparantly he didnt know he had gotten dis from his previous sexual partner. we both did blood tests to see if we have any other std's an well everything came out negative. and after i had the baby in july 2009, the warts disappeared completely like a mth after an i havent seen any since.well after we had our baby we still continued the pull out method an today he insisted on using a condom. so b4 we did anythin he went to a near by store an bought a pack. his great excuse was he cant afford to get me preg again, at least not now. (i was ovulating 2dy). well after intercourse, we went an bathe, i realized he had a sore like 9mm on his penis an about 4-5 bumps. so i got really frightened an wonder if he recently cheated on me an he got an std. i researched it an i saw it could be yeast infection, genital warts, symptom of cancer, herpes or syphillis. so here i am wonderin if its some kinda std or cancer...has any 1 seen dat b4??? please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2010): It would of been the warts back. You do realise once you get genital warts you have them for life right? there is no way to get rid of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell for 1, d reason why i didnt think it was a wart because it looked different to a wart. an d both of us had been wart free 4 like a couple of months. i know hpv is not curable but ppl hav so many different opinions sayin it (hpv) may go away on its own while others say differently.
well dis mornin he went by d doc an d doc said it some kind of fungus. an he was advised to wash his clothes wenever he buys any before he put dem on. apparently he got it from d new boxers.
but we're still goin an do an std test...thanx 4 urs answers.
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reader, Dalmatian  +, writes (12 May 2010):
He is sick. He has one or more STD's. If he loved or cared about you he would have had no sexual contact of any kind until he was totally clean and well. It appears that he has been going out on you. Please do a blood test for HIV. He could have several STD's if his partner or partner's have various diseases. You need to find out if he has been out with prostitutes. If he had he has been exposed to a wide variety of sexual disease risks. Please do a complete work up with your MD and start treatment. I pray he did not give you HIV.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): Well if you said that you both have hpv (genital warts) then maybe it was an hpv outbreak. What makes you think it was a different std?
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (12 May 2010):
 That's normal for a guy to get without intercourse. I don't know all specifics but i got that once and it was like 5 months after i had intercourse. There is a bit chance that is something else but otherwise u dont have to worry it will go away soon
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): Go to a doctor, the both of you. There's very little this online community can do for you.
Mount hope or General hospital is bad but it couldn't be any worse than the kind of madness the both of you insist on going through.
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