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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Sex should feel good at some point right...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Here is my story... Well, I lost my virginity fairly late compared to others that I know. I was 20. Before that, I never was so into the idea of sex or felt that I needed it. I know this may be a taboo topic but if I wanted to pleasure myself,...

Do you women think this could have happened?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...

When I lose my virginity to my boyfriend I don't just want to lay there and not know what to do! Can anyone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi, i've been with my boyfriend for a while and we havent had sex he knows im a virgin but he doesnt rush anything because he is a gentlemen and he's not a virgin. but when we do have sex i want him 2 have a lot of pleasure and i dont just wan...

I cant wait until I am 25 to have sex! So how do I convince my girlfriend we will be together forever so having sex now is ok?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - My name is Alex. I'm in this situation Where I want sex and she wants to wait until Marriage. It's hard for me to wait. I'm thinking I'm probably going to marry this girl one day, I Love her more than imaginable. We've never gotten into a serious f...

Was what he did with me considered cheating? And how can I get over the feeling of being used only for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone! Soooo I have a bit of a problem... This summer was a pretty crazy one for me. I lost my virginity to my bestfriend. We didn't start dating or anything, but I didn't expect him to be talking to another girl. Throughout the summer i...

My husband found out I am not a virgin! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - sir,,i got a mistake,my problem is that my husband got on first night that i am not virgin girl.what can i do....

Should I get it overwith and have a one night stand to lose my virginity?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so I'm only a few months off 21, and I'm still a virgin. Not feeling quite as alone in this as I just read another post from a 21 yr-old girl in a similar situation, but regardless, I feel that it's time to lose my virginity. I've never had a ...

Because he did this, do you think he really loves me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - after my x bf acuse me of lieying to him for not being a virgin i found myself a good man he lier for me by telling my parent that he his the one that took my verginity i was so chock when he said that so do u gys think he really loves me....

Why do guys want a virgin?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Why do guys say that sex with a virgin girl is better/more pleasurable than with a non-virgin? and why do guys want and like to be the one to take a girls virginity?...

I'm considering first-time sex with my boyfriend, how can I make sure it isn't disappointing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I'm in a serious relationship with a man I love. And we are intimate, but both virgins for the time. I have a few questions. Here goes: One: I know it bothers my boyfriend that I don't come a lot, and haven't had an orgasm. We had a brief discussi...

Should I call him and just let him know how I feel to clear things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy 4 years ago when I met him it was a odd situation for me because at the time I was very shy and A VIRGIN. but we started to hang out and he wanted to take me on dates and tried to get me to go out and not just stay in his house.( ...

How can I make our first time special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm a virgin and my boyfriend isn't and i know that it will hurt my 1st time but i want it to be special i dont want him to remember it as me just laying there doing nothing! I want to give him a lot of pleasure! and why do guys say virg...

My bf doesn't believe that I was a virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - hello my name hach i was a virgin 4 the first time i have sex with my bf on my 18th bday i wasnt bleading he said that i lie to him because i wasnt bleading thats mean i wasnt a virgin is that true. but he is the first person i did it with how can ...

What was your first time like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

27 July 2010 (?) - I am a teenage girl. I do not plan on having sex until I find someone I love and they love me back. But I wanted to know , what was your 1st time like? How did it feel? How old were you? What were you thinking? Was it someone you loved? Where was it ...

Bipolar nice guy looking for love. How much bad luck can a person take?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - At this point, I don't know what to do anymore. A bit of background: I'm a 22 year old virgin, a nerd in many areas, afflicted with Bipolar Disorder, have had nothing but failed relationships, and a "Nice Guy". So you can kind of see what my pers...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour getting weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Would like to get some opinions on whether my boyfriend's are normal We have been together for 2 months. He only kissed me lightly on the lips ONCE and most of the time he wanted me to neck him and to stroke his penis. There were also times when ...

She waits for Marriage...And me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok. Here's the deal. What I like to think is, "I don't wait for marriage to lose my virginity, I wait for love" I've been dating this girl for a year now. And I brought up sex. She says she wants to wait til marriage and insists on that. It's a goo...

Is having sex with him going to ruin our perfect relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - - dating for months -feel comfortable enough (i've been shirtless in front of him and felt totally comfortable) -he told me he loved me first. and he respects that i want to wait (he's not a virgin, i am) -we had the chance to have sex when ...

21 year old virgin loser, never been kissed by a sober guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi im a 21 year old female virgin (almost 22 soon) i never had a real relationship and i never been on a date... i have madeout with guys but everytime ive been kissed was by my guy friends who were drunk/horny. i imagine that since they were drunk ...

He's bisexual, but I love him, how do I get over this love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I am absolutely in love with my best guy friend, but I really can't be. I've had strong feelings for him for about 3 years now and at the beginning of the year I told him how I felt. The problem comes in because I told him that I wanted to lose my ...

What if I'm just the rebound from his ex? And I broke up with my boyfriend for him? Help!

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26 July 2010 (F) - Hey Guys. Please read everything and give me advice! Ive been with this guy for about 7 months. We are very much in love. No doubt on that! We lost our virginty to eachother.. But about 2 days before me and him had gotten together he broke up with ...

Am I still a virgin after our messing around session?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Ok ive been trying to find an answer to this but just don't seem to find the right one. Well like 2 days ago my boyfriend and i were just messing around, and well he fingered me and then well it led to another thing. He told me he wanted to just f...

17, female and a virgin. Should I keep my standards high?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - I am 17 and still a virgin. I have had relationships, kissed guys, and just recently hooked up with an older guy who I went to 3rd base with. I felt very regretful after the hookup because I found myself wishing that had been someone who actually ...

Is it that bad to be a virgin, & why is it such a big deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - I'm 17 and im gay, but i'm also a virgin, i've never really been in a real relationship, which seems weird because if you saw and knew me you would've never guessed. but everytime i try to pursue a relationship with another female, when i t...

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - Hi! IT's Been a long time since i'm asking myself that i was virgin or not!i still can't understand i haven't asked anyone yet.3 Years ago i had an infection in chanels of urine and it stinged a lot so i put my finger inside and when i pull ...

14 and thinking about losing my virginity, can anybody tell me about their first time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - i started dating this wonderful guy in April of this year. we're pretty young and all but we love each other. he swears he loves me more and i believe he loves me :] he turned 15 last month and i turned 14 5 months ago. we were dating on his ...

I'm confused because I dnt know if I'm ready to have sex.!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - Okay.! Im 15 years old and im a virgen.! Im confused because i dnt know if im ready to have sex.! I have a bf and we were going to have sex. I was going to say yes but we were not in a safe place. I am scared that my parent would find out if i have ...

Why do people make it like having sex before marriage is so bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend of 6 months for the first time 4 days ago. I was virgin. It just kind of happened, with out any planning like I had always wanted. I am 16 I must add. At first I thought I will probably regret this, because people make it ...

She was intent on holding onto her virginity, now she's trying to lose it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

21 July 2010 (?) - My best friend isn't acting like herself. As long as I've known her she's thought sex is something you should wait a long time before partaking in with your partner, which was a view I completely supported. We talk about these kind of things all the ...

Casual sex... does it bother you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Ok I have a quick question. I'm still a virgin and the main reason is because: 1 my brother accidentally got a chick knocked up in college and so I've always been afraid of getting someone pregnant and then be stuck raising a kid that a don't want, ...

How should I cope with first time sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hello My Lovely's!! , I really love my boyfriend and he's the first ever guy i feel completely comfortable around, we are both virgins and have been talking about sex for a while now. I really want him to be my first and we have a very serious r...

Am I just too sensitive to the touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! First off: I'd like to say thank you for all the help with my other questions. I really appreciate it and they've helped a lot. Secondly: I just had my first... Erm, "long" kiss - if you will - with my boyfriend. It was incredib...

I'm an 18 year old virgin and suspecting that I am bisexual

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Ok.im 18 a virgin and suspecting that i am bisexual. this i do not have a probelem with,but i would like to know if i am for deffinate,i dont think i would have much of a problem coming out. I dont have a very high oppinion of men in general,howev...

1st time sex and pregnancy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Okay so .. Ugh .. I know this is gonna sound stupid and I hate myself now.. Anyways .. I lost my virginity about umm .. 5 days ago .. To my boyfriend I really love .. He told me he wants to spend his whole life with me and well I feel the same .. ...

Why did he ask me if I'm a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so I really need help trying to figure something out. Me and this guy have been talking/flirting for a couple weeks and we've just been getting to know each other. We were talking just recently and he asked if he could ask me a personal ...

I'm worried I might be "too strict" in my morals concerning virginity, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - In this day and age, I know it's rare to find virgins, and it's even rarer to find someone willing to tell the truth about their virginity. I am an 18 year old female, who's a firm believer in keeping abstinence until marriage with the right person. ...

I regret not giving him my virginity. We broke up so how can I get him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has left me for another girl, as i did not satisfy him sexually. We have been together for 9 months and all i have given him was 2 blow jobs which i did reluctantly. His last attempt to have sex with me was rejected by me. Thereafter he ...

Is it weird to be a virgin at 24?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

18 July 2010 (M) - I haven't found a girl yet. I could if I wanted to. In college I had some chicks reject me. I could have gone for girls that I wasn't interested in. I could have hooked up with them, but I didn't. But now I'm 24, and haven't had sex. I'm ...

Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Were you a virgin when you met the person you are married to? Were they a virgin? Were you a giving oral virgin? Were you a recievimg oral virgin?...

Coped without love so far, but what about the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I'm 16 years old and feel like im missing out on a unique, somewhat important experience. I've tried to avoid ranting about love, but i feel i've exhausted most other things i find interesting over years, and i've finally reached my breaking ...

Tormented by girlfriend's sexual past

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - hi guys. i know this has been throughly discussed here before.. i already researched about it and read almost all of the responses to the queries. and honestly it helped a lot. i have a girlfriend now who i love very much. i really adore her and ...

Married and still a virgin, the longer I wait the harder it gets

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Hi all, I have a problem with my sex life. I have now been married for four years but still a virgin. My problem is I feel afraid and so penetration never happened. We tried lots of times but failed. It is like I contract my hymen and put a pressu...

Should I choose my best friend or a potential boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - a guy i really like is kind of a player and dated my now best friend and they were each others 1st time for sex. well she says she would be mad at me if i dated him but she doesn't know if she would be mad at me if i just fooled around with him. idk ...

We were talking about losing our virginity to each other, but then 2 weeks later he lost his to another girl! Now he wants me more than ever I don't know what to do....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Well, i have been talking to this guy and weve liked each other since childhood.one day we asked each other about our virginity and we both admitted we were. I believe in abstinence,none the less i was willing to loose my virginity to him. But a ...

Is this some sort of psychological block I'm experiencing with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - So, I'm a 25 year old male virgin. I know, as sad as that sounds, I was overweight for most of my life and have recently lost a lot of weight and have begun experiencing the confidence boost and attention from females that comes with it. Anyw...

Opinions appreciated. Am I still a virgin... or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hi so, im not sure if i lost my virginity, like his penis was in me but he was pretty thick and i was pretty tight and it was my first time so it was really sore, he pulled out though when i said i couldn't take it so does it mean im not a virgin? ...

Virginity Regret?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - I was 20 when I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend, at the time we were not in love and I always wanted to wait until I was either in love or married, but with him it felt right so we did it and we eventually fell in love. Now we're not ...

Help!!! Am I still a virgin??? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. We love each other. We've being practicing oral sex but always with my pants on. He does not want to have penetrative sex with me before we get married. Even though he sucks and squeezes my breasts, he ...

How can I be free of these desires?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I am a virgin with a fairly normal sex drive, except for a bunch of paraphilias, most of which don't bother me. But there are 2 of them which are bizarre and disturbing and I've had all my life, and I'm disgusted and ashamed of them and...

28 year old virgin with psoriasis in deep despair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

11 July 2010 (M) - I am extremely depressed I am a 28 year old guy who has never been in a relationship. I have never been kissed. I have never slept with a woman. I am extremely depressed. I am ashamed of who I am. I have absolutely no self-confidence ...