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writes:Hi everyone,I am a virgin with a fairly normal sex drive, except for a bunch of paraphilias, most of which don't bother me. But there are 2 of them which are bizarre and disturbing and I've had all my life, and I'm disgusted and ashamed of them and wish they'd go away! I've never acted upon them, and they don't involve harming anyone or anything to do with children, but they are pretty gross and It's as if my brain is hotwired to find them sexually arousing. I've gone up to about a year without thinking about them in the past, and they nearly fade away, only to re emerge again as strong as before. I'd really like to be free of them and find normal things arousing, how do you do it!?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 Haha thanks for clarifying. I didn't think it was. I just don't want to be, sued or something. So, you know, enjoy your weird fantasies just like everyone else. We all have them...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPerson12345, it doesn't involve harming anyone (or animals lol) in any way whatsoever.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (12 July 2010):
Don't worry about it, everyone has their own fetishes. As long as they aren't hurting anyone, masturbate and fantasize away! Everyone has SOMETHING weird that turns them on, we just don't talk about it. That's why we worry it's weird. I promise it's not so long as it doesn't hurt anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your reply, Srontium Dog. I'm interested to know what your recommendation is that you can't post on here, I would PM you but don't know how to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry...I guess it was a bit vague. I really don't want to say what they are, and i know they're not that uncommon - for instance some people like feet or BDSM and that's apparently not that uncommon either. Thanks for your replies too, by the way
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Well what sort of things are you thinking about? I'll bet that they're all perfectly normal or at least common for people to have...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Unfortunately this is a little vague. everyone has has weird things that turn them on. would you feel comfortable elaborating a little?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Hey, ok so it would've helped to know what those desires were. but for the record i dont think you should worry about it. sex is a beautiful thing and we all have our weird little quirks. also the fact your a virgin probably makes you a little close minded to certain things about sex. i can promise you that there are at least 100 more people in the world who have the same sort of desires as you :) good luck!
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