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writes:My boyfriend has left me for another girl, as i did not satisfy him sexually. We have been together for 9 months and all i have given him was 2 blow jobs which i did reluctantly. His last attempt to have sex with me was rejected by me. Thereafter he did not ask for anything and broke up with me 2 months later.Now i cant help but regret the decision of not giving him my virginity. I heard he and the girl became official just less than a month after our break up, after the girl had sex with him.how do i get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): He just wanted sex. Find someone who loves you for YOU and is actually willing to wait until you're ready to have sex.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 He wanted sex - you wanted a relationship..
Face the facts, honey.
Move on and find a guy who wants ALL of you, not just to get into your pants.
Having sex with someone doesn't always mean you LOVE them. It doesn't mean that they will LOVE you afterwards.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 Hello,
It seems clear he wanted you with sex. He didn't get it so he pushed off. If you try to get him back, it will cost you your virginity and then he will probably go back to his now girlfriend. You would then give him the ego of boasting about being your first. That's how I see it anyway. But think hard about things. Hannah.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe started asking for sex 2 months into the relationship and i didnt feel comfortable..another 2 months later i gave in and gave him a blow job in his car at a desserted car park..i was very scared at time n i feel very exposed..after that he seemed to have drift away and we only met up once per week and sometimes with his friends..7 months into the relationship we went overseas together and i did think of having sex...but he just climbed over me and took off my clothes..no hugging no kissing...i was a bit shocked at how my first experience will become and stopped him before he could take off my pants...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 July 2010):
Why do you want him back? All he wanted was sex. That was it. He was just after sex and nothing else. If you let him back into your life and give him sex, he'll just use you like this other girl and leave you when he gets bored. If he had loved you, he wouldn't have left. All he wanted was to get into your pants. Don't let him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): If a guy can't respect your decision on how sexually regarding how soon into a relationship then i don't think he a guy you want ... clearly he only wanted sex otherwise he wouldn't have run off at the first sign of new tail. I think if he really cared for you ... he would have waited as long as it took. Hun, i think you are better off without him x
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