A
female
age
30-35,
*rissyj89
writes: I'm in a serious relationship with a man I love. And we are intimate, but both virgins for the time. I have a few questions. Here goes:One: I know it bothers my boyfriend that I don't come a lot, and haven't had an orgasm. We had a brief discussion, and I said its hard for a girl to orgasm, that females have to learn, especially if you're like me and dont really enjoy self-masturbation. I mean, its ok, but not something that really floats my boat. I know it'll upset him when we finally have sex and he orgasms, and I dont. How can I help make him feel better about it?Two: I want to be good during sex. Are there any good pointers?
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reader, krunkqueen +, writes (29 July 2010):
well what turns you on? whatever does let him know so that he could do these things to you so that you could both pleasure each other before you go all the way. you need to be aroused in order to have the best orgasm . be open and honest tell him how you feel about mastubation,,, no secrets it only makes things worse
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