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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Would having sex with her change the perameters of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Hi. I'm an 18 year old virgin. A girl I know, who is a close friend of mine, has said she will have sex with me if I want, so I can gain experience. I really like her, and I wouldn't say no, if you get me. But she's one of my closest friends ...

She's a really nice girl but I'm afraid she's not telling me the truth about her virginity.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Ok I'm pretty old to have just lost my virginity which was only a few months ago. I wanted it to be with someone really special but it wasn't. A month after that happened I met a girl who I really wanted to lose it with. She tells me that she's ...

I'm considering losing my virginity to a one night stand.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Im going to Ibiza with some friends for 2 wks this summer. Im 21, single and still a virgin and was thinking of having a (protected)'one night stand' while i am over there. Ive never tried anything like this before! Has anyone else ever lost th...

Should I contact her and tell her the truth or should I let sleeping dogs lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

29 January 2010 (?) - I just recently contacted on old friend that I found on facebook. One of his facebook friends is the woman who I lost my virginity to. I was 19 and she was in her 20s. When we were together I lied to her and told her I wasn't a virgin. I was ...

I worry about my sexuality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - I am 16 nearly 17 year old male, And i have a problem. I am firstly very conscious about my appearance (overweight, i myself would like to be more muscular) but thats not important, i believe myself to also be a late bloomer...but thats not importan...

I really want to return the favour for my boyfriend, but I'm pretty scared to do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Hi I need a little help, see me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years (since highschool were 20) and we both are still deep in love. We lost our virginities to each other when we were 18 and the sex is great! My boyfriend doesn't have ...

I am planning on having sex for the first time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - how to have a romantic sex so that my girl friend will like it actually will anyone explain me in fully detail as i just listen from my friends about it but i have not done sex yet ......... reply me girls you know better ...

What do I do when my best friend lied about not loosing her virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I cannot trust or look at my best friend of 6 years the same way again after she lied about not loosing her virginity to her boyfreind of less than 1 month and they have had an on and off relationship throughout that month. The day prior to her ...

How can I deal with the frustrations of being an older virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I need some help here, as I am beginning to drive myself nuts with self doubt and insecurities. I am 26, and a virgin, and I feel so lonley, miserable, deprressed and frustrated, I cannot describe how horrible it feels. Everywhere I look, t...

She was a virgin, I told her I wasn't a virgin when I was, now she wont speak to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...

She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...

I need insight on contraceptive methods...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Hy everyone. I am little bit suspicious with condoms as a prevention of pregnancy. I know that they are pretty much safe because they can also protect person form all kind of sickness, but there`s a small posibility that makes me nervous about ...

Even though we used protection I am paranoid now about being pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Well ok I'm 22 years old. Last time my period ended was on December 25. I lost my virginity on the 7 of January. my boyfriend and me had sex three days in a row.. but every single time we used a condom we even checked before and after condoms ...

It was different for me than the horror stories...Is that ok, or is there something wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I just had sex for the first time last night with my boyfriend. It was great everything was perfect, I must admit I was really nervous and scared but once it happened I calmed down.from what I've heard I always believed that when you have sex for ...

Was it too early to confide to him that I'm a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I am 21 year old female in college. I have been talking to this guy for the past month over our winter break through Facebook chat. On the first day back from break, he immediately texted me and asked to meet him at a bar...and we just madeout for ...

I'm afraid I wont do it right..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - im 15 and im going out with this girl one year older than me we like each other a lot but im afraid, because weve been to the point of almost have sex twice, this would be my first time and im so happy that it would be with her coz i feel a lot for ...

I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging, is this normal for a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - I'm a 21 year old guy and realized that lately I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging a girl. I was wondering if this is normal, because I thought guys usually fantasize about intercourse and girls are more into hugging and touching. ...

I want to wait to have sex with someone special, but my sex drive is through the roof!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - Im 19 and will be turning 20 pretty soon and ive never had sex and have only been kissed once. It isn't that i want to rush sex or anything and i don't want to do it for the sake of it but at times its very tempting because at my age my sex drive is ...

Is he over me now that he took my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for about 8 months now, from the start he has been chasing me. he is 26 and i have just turned 20. We both have a lot in common and are comfortable around each other. we see each other as often as we can (3-4 times a week)and ...

Can someone get pregnant without sexual intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm pretty much messed up right now and way too worried. I'm still a virgin as I have not had sexual intercourse yet. However, the other day I was lying on bed with my boyfriend and we were playing around, we had our underwear on and...

I think its time I raised the subject of sex with my girl, but unsure how to do it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - What would be a good way to bring up having sex to mu gf? We have been together for well over a year now. We have gone as far as dry humping with only our underwear on. So what would be a good way to bring up the topic of sex to her?...

What is a guy's fantasy about losing his V-card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Ok for you guys out there...I am dating a guy who is a 27 year old virgin. I am 24 and im not a vigin. I know that he has been waiting for this to share with someone special and wants it to be special. he says that hes ready but im scared to ...

What's the general opinion on virginity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Okay so here's a question for you guys. What do u feel about virgins? Does it turn u off or does the thought of having sex with a virgin excite guys?? I'm 19,5 still a virgin...so i'd like to know...

Why is it so painful when we try to have sex? The doctor says I'm fine healthwise.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - i went to the doctor so its not anything health wise..ok so now after we tried to have sex twice, we tried again, for a third time. it still wont go in and it causes me excruciating pain... maybe i over-exaggerated but it hurts pretty bad. this guy ...

Not sure if he penetrated! Am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the new guy...

I'm quite daunted by the idea of first time sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - I'm quite daunted by the idea of first time sex. I'm almost 22 and still a virgin. Not to mention I hear that women prefer men with experience and are quite turned off of having to 'teach' someone at all. I know there may be 'some' that don't mind, ...

Is my best friend gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Hi I have a question for the male readers, can you guys please give me your honest opinions? Okay its about this guy friend of mine (Z) that I knew since elementary school. He is 2 years younger than me and I sort of treated him like a kid broth...

I saved myself until the right guy came along, but now I have slept with him he told me about his past and it disgusts me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi.. i have a pretty big problem with my boyfriend, im 18 he's 19. i had saved myself for someone who i cared about, and that person was him. i saved myself because didn't want to be another number on some guys list of conquests, another story to...

Virginity question

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the...

How can I tell if she wants sexual contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - Hey I'm almost 15 and my beautiful girlfriend is 14 we haven't had any kind of sexual contact but I really want to and I think she does to how can I tell?...

What's a good reason not to be jealous of people who aren't virgins?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I'm 17 and a virgin, I've been madly deeply jealous of people who is sexual active around my age. You can say it's good to save V card to the right person, but wait, the right person could possibly be hooking up with some guys now. So what ? Get ...

Why is it that a girls virginity seems to be more important than a guy's?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - Something I've been wanting to know for ever is, why is it that a girls virginity seems to be more important than a guy's?...

Advice needed please. Problems with sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we want to make love. To my distress we're both virgins. He can't seem to get hard at the right times and yesterday when he did and got a condom on it all went downhill from there. I don't ...

I feel that she wants me as a boyfriend and we were just supposed to be having fun.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - I have been having some 'fun' with a co-worker we discussed it before starting and she said she was cool just getting together now and then but all we do is have a kiss and hand job for me and I finger her, she wont go any further and I have begged ...

If virginity is so important, why is it that you are supposed to get over someone's past?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, Why should I not expect a virgin as I save my virginity for the right person ? and Why should I get over her past when the girl is not a virgin ? I see there's double-standard on this, People say it's good to keep virginity beca...

Will using a condom keep me a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - Ok here's another question for all of you wouldn't having sex for the first time with a condom on keep me a virgin? lol and plz read the question before answearing it ...

Is your first time really special?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - When people say your first time is special is that..really..true or are they saying its fun have fun..is it bad to think that i want to get my first time through so i can get the pain over with..idk i KNOW im 15 but it seems like its time to be ...

First time sex - how can I make it feel good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I feel bad because my bf and I had sex for the first time last night and I didn't enjoy it at all. his penis is pretty small. I was like just laying there and he knew I didn't enjoy it cuz he kept asking if it felt good and I said yes and he was ...

Married but still a virgin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - hi i m married but still virgin? please give me some tips how to lose it? when ever i do sex with husband full of pain in my legs. plz help me. i m very thankful to u. ...

I am the guy who always goes home alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - I was wondering if I could get some opinions on not only still being single at 29, but never having been in a relationship at all. Im 29 and Im starting to feel like some kind of weirdo. I was very shy when I was younger but came out of my shell in ...

I feel I am a few years behind everybody and that I'll be rubbish at sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - Ok heres the deal. I'm 18 and a virgin... I had a few relationships when i was younger, and have done a few "sexual" things, but never actually had sex. Then something happened in my life that put me under extreme stress and girls were no longer m...

I don't like being a virgin, I hate it in fact...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - I just turned 22, and yes, am still a virgin and it gets me incredibley depressed, i haven't had many relationships either, and those few that i have had were... stressful, due to that type of woman that either i attract or the type that i seem to ...

Should I tell him how upset I am about the comment he made?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - When i was talking to my boyfriend about us having sex ONE DAY not anytime soon..and he brought up the fact he wanted it to be the most special thing for me and i couldnt say the same since he is not a virgin...i hurts i know i have talked about ...

I'm thinking of going further with him but have no idea how to tell him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a little confused at the moment. I'm 14, nearly 15 in a couple of months, and I've been with my boyfriend who has just turned 15 for about 1 month and a half now, and we get on really well. We've never argued and he's always telling me he ...

He has been unfaithful and violent but I still love him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - Just to fill you out on the background first: Me and my boyfriend started courting at the slightly young age of thirteen, and now we're fifteen, so we've basically been going out for two years. The first three months of our relationship were no...

Why does it hurt to know he's not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Why does it hurt to know he is not a virgin while i still am?...

17 year old virgin with no boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - Is it bad to be a 17 year old virgin whose never had a boyfriend?...

Can you get an abortion pill at 14?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - hello, i havent started my period because i am just 14 but 4 weeks ago i lost my virginity and i bled quiet heavily afterwards, we didnt have a condom on and i went and got the morning after pill 68 hours later and i told my doctor i had started ...

Virgin always horny around male friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - well, i'm a virin, and i'm almost always horny around my guy friends. several of them even want to have it with me. and we even get pretty into it sometimes. but i'm too scared and nervous to have sex. for one; i don't know if they like the way i am ...

Losing virginity to stranger?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I'm a female and I'm 18 and a virgin. I was recently on craigslist because i want to find some one to have sex with me. I'm sick of being a virgin cause I'm always horny and i just can't take it anymore. So is it wrong to lose your virginity to a ...