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Why does it hurt to know he's not a virgin?

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Question - (9 January 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *ovebaby126 writes:

Why does it hurt to know he is not a virgin while i still am?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010):

I don't agree with the others. You might like him but not ever get over him having another girl. It depends on who you are. You have the right to feel however you feel about things like this.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010):

If you really love him then you will be able to accept for whatever he is,,past is past what's most important is he's now yours,,yeah it hurts for a virgin knowing your partner is not,,you'll accept the fact as time goes by,,

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2010):

Maybe you're romantic and you would like to have been his first? Believe me though, it's not as a big a deal as it sounds. Everyone has a past, and if you like him enough, then you'll be able to accept him for it.

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A female reader, loki Ireland +, writes (9 January 2010):

It hurts because if you have sex with him, you will be giving him so much, something really special and he can't give you anything back because he gave it to someone else

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2010):

I think the reason is that if you do have sex with him, you will be giving him so much and something that is really special but he won't give it back because it was given to someone else.

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (9 January 2010):

Honest Answer agony auntUse this a s a learning experience. If it hurt you so bad to know this, how is your future husband going to feel if you lose your virginity at 15? Just something to think about.

It hurts because you can not both never enjoy the first discovery together.

Good Luck!

Jeff

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