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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm a 21 year old guy and realized that lately I've been having fantasies about kissing and hugging a girl. I was wondering if this is normal, because I thought guys usually fantasize about intercourse and girls are more into hugging and touching. Maybe it's because I've never done any of that kind of stuff with a girl yet and the thought of sex seems really remote and unrealistic to me since I have zero experience with girls in the romantic or sexual sense, making it hard to have such fantasies except in a very abstract sense. I'm just wondering if this is normal for guys. Thanks.
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reader, MissFixIt  +, writes (24 January 2010):
 Hi
Kissing and hugging is something that a male or female can enjoy. Contrary to popular belief this does not make you strange or any less of a man, the fact that you show such sensitivity will actually improve a relationship with a woman and make you much more attractive. Women do not want a man who is only interested in one thing! - Embrace your differences!
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reader, veronika  +, writes (24 January 2010):
 It's normal. Unfortunately, you've just been socialised to believe that "men *should* fantasize about *this* and women *should* fantasize about *that*". That's all bull. Fantasizing about being affectionate is something most humans do, it's not limited to one gender only.
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