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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is it true the longer you wait to have sex the harder it gets ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hey I am 16 and I am still a virgin I feel worried that I will never find anyone to have sex with because all my friends have boyfriends and are having sex and saying how good it is. I am afraid that the longer I wait the harder it will get. Is it ...

I'm a girl and worried about what to do during my first time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - what does the girl do in sex? i am a virgin but am thinking about having sex woth my bf of 15 months. We are both virgins so he's not sure either but what does the girl do in sex?? do i jst lay there or do i hav to move or what? obviously i am going ...

I've moved from germany to USA when i was 12. Why do people here not feel its right for teenagers to have sex under 18?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - I was born in Germany, and I moved to the USA at the age of 12, since I've moved here I have always been curious as to why having sexual intercourse is such a bad act and disrespect to the parents for Teenagers under 18. In my town, it was ...

My boyfriend told me he was a virgin, But he's not! Its really upset me that he's been with someone before me. Is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - *sigh* I've just found out that my BF, who I thought was a virgin, isn't a virgin at all. Turns out that one time when he was drunk, he had sex with a girl he didn't, and still doesn't, know. He can't remember it, but TWO different people...

I think I am too tight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - hi. im 16 and recently lost my virginity, the thing is, i did not bleed and stopped him before it hurt me too much.i don't think that i let him penetrat all the way in me and it also tore my skin at the bootem of my vagina. did he break me through? ...

I lost my virginity 2 days ago. We used protection but I feel bloated and ill. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi, im 17 and lost my virginity 2 days ago, it was protected sex as he wore a condom. It hurt when while having sex and i bled a little but afterwards i felt fine. But the day after i felt a little sick and bloated and i still feel like that today. ...

When she and I started having sex she always and still does complain about pain but my concern is that her vagina does not seem tight at all.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hi I have a problem with my girlfriend but she doesn't know of it. She is not a virgin (neither am I); she said she had very infrequent sex with her ex who by the way took her virginity. Furthermore she never bled with him nor with me. They had sex ...

When in a relationship is it right to become sexually active?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - When in a relationship is the right time to start becoming sexually active? And does an age difference from say 17-23 would make any difference?...

Is it normal to smell a little "down there"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Hey i know this maybe too much but... I am 15 and am a virgin. I am worried about "down there" as i smell a little. Is this usual in anyway???? Pleasse help, i am worried and feel so dirty!! x...

I'm 28 and a virgin. Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't wait for someone special?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I´m a 28 yrs old female virgin too (seems that are a lot of us around here). In my case, it havent´t happened for lack of opportunity. I´ve been always been too "right". With my first boyfriend, when I was about to do, he dumped me. Then nev...

My boyfriend wants to lose his virginity to me, but I dont want to be known as the 'bad first'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I am 16 and lost my virginty along time ago in the not the best circumstance , my boyf is 19 and is stil a virgin, it took him courage to tell me this and i respect it , now he says hes ready to loose it , but ive never been in this situtation ...

I was abused as a child. Am i still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - hi guys pleas help me! im not sure if im a virgin when i was a little girl a guy of my age did touch me alot of time. i think it happened once that he did put his finger in me. now today im 21 and i have a bf i dont want to have sex no. i want to ...

I'm 13 and i tried making out with my guy but i thought it was gross! Is this normal for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I'm 13 and my boyfriend and i tried making-out for the first time. It was my first time making-out with anyone ever. when we started i thought it was gross then i just got up and walked away. I know that was stupid of me and i shouldnt have done...

I'm a virgin. He's convinced me to have sex, I'm nervous, any tips???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

26 August 2007 (?) - hi guys,well I'm a teenager and i have a great bf i no I'm under aged but he has kind of convinced me to have sex with him.i was just wandering because it's my first time and I'm slightly nervous any tips on how to actually have sex?i no that sounds ...

I'm using hard objects to masturbate, is this damaging??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I use hard things to masturbate like mobile...i use hard ones to reach orgasm that i can' t reach with fingering. May this damage my virginity? may these hard things have a bad effect on my vagina? can they lead to an infection ?...

My brother sexually abused me as a child, will this affect my future relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - How can i know that i'm ready for a sexual life with the one that i love if i tell you that i've gone through a sexual abuse when i was a child by someone so close to me, my brother. when i remember that i disgust sex ,do you think that i'll enjo...

Am i addicted to masturbation? How do i deal with it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Hi every one. my problem is that i practice the secret habit(sexual habit)since i was so young till now; i want help to get rid of it i'm so accustomed to it that whenever i decide to stop i find myself doing and after i do it i hate myself so much ...

Planning on losing my virginity, will the first time hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - dear cupid. I have bin with my boyfirend for 15 months and love him more and more each day. I am 14 and he is 16. we do yes have a sexual relationship however we have'nt had sex because we have not yet felt that we are ready. Over the course of our ...

I'm plannin to lose my virginity, will i bleed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I am 18 and still a virgin because i never had intercourse. I have been fingered alot in the past making out but no sex. I am preparing to have sex with my boyfriend soon and wonder if i still have my hymen and will i bleed. Just want to know....

I want to lose my virginity, what do i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone. I kinda need help. you see im a virgin and i think im ready to loose it to this guy i know. I mean like he is soo sweet and he makes me feel sooo good inside. but the thing is hes not a virgin. we talk about the subject "sex" when we a...

I think I am ready to lose my virginity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - hi everyone. i kinda need help. you c im a virgin and i think im ready to lose it to this guy i know. i mean like he is soo sweet nd he makes me feel sooo good inside. but the thing is hes not a virgin. we talk about the subject "sex" when we r on ...

I'm confused about whether he is looking for a visa to stay here or genuinly cares about me! Should I wait some years for him to get at the level I am at in this country?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I don't know, maybe I needed this help; I guess that's why I'm writing this question here. My story is that I am a very attractive young female, in my early 30s, single, I've never been married, and I am still looking for my right better-half. I ...

Should I wait for my first kiss to be with someone special, or should I find a random girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 20 and have never had a girlfriend and never even kissed a girl. I have always thought that my first kiss would be (with someone) special, but I also feel some reasons for pulling a random girl. I thought it might be best to give you the ...

What is the average age to lose your virginity?

This question has 275 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

21 August 2007 (M) - what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that i'm a 20 year old male and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked when i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they called me a weirdo. am i quite old not to have had sex?...

We want to lose our virginity, but couldnt get it in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

20 August 2007 (F) - were both virgins and we love each other very deeply weve been together a long time we want to have sex but he couldnt get in i tried relaxing i thought i was calm he soothed me the whole time he was right on top of it but he doesnt want to hurt me ...

Scared she'll tell people about my circumcised penis!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

19 August 2007 (M) - I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?...

How can I gain the confidence to let guys touch me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

19 August 2007 (F) - How can I gain the confidence to let guys touch me? Don't get me wrong, I have let them before, but I havent liked it much and been uncomfortable. I've never had to confidence to touch them either, they are always making the first move and I usu...

Ms. Virgin...not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6279 days ago

19 August 2007 (F) - This is a story about how I lost my virginity. It all started in May 5, 2007. I was out with my boyfriend, we had been dating for 3 months now, and never did I taugh I was going to lose my virginity, until I was married. That was something I wanted ...

I don't want to mess it up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

17 August 2007 (M) - hey me and my gf have been going out for 4 months and we talked about sex (were both virgins) but im woried that im gonna screw up any advice?...

How can we be more discreet with our lovemaking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly a year and a half. I moved in with her a few months back due to situations at home. Her mum lets us slep together because she trusts us and she's known me all my life and me and her daughter ...

We've done most things, "sexually" together, except actual intercourse. I'm a virgin and he's only had sex once, through peer pressure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6298 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been with my current boyfriend for 5 months but I've known him a few years. We're both completely comfortable with each other and we feel that we love each other and we actually want a future together. We've done most things, "sexuall...

Had unprotected sex yesterday and lost my virginity...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

14 August 2007 (F) - Had unprotected sex yesterday and lost my virginity... the problem is that I have really irrregular periods, does the 19th day idea still follow with this? I am due on supposedly in a week and a bit. Help please...

Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - Is it normal not to bleed when you lose you virginity? I lost it to my boyfriend and I didn't bleed and now he thinks I didn't lose it to him!...

She is more experienced then me but she doesn't know that as I lied and said I've done things in the past too,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

13 August 2007 (M) - Hey guys I have a problem! Just wondering if you could help me, I keep wanting to ask my girlfriend about her past. I don't want to know what she's been up to before but I keep wanting to ask her, I duno why! She is more experienced then me but ...

How can I tell if my hymen is broken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - how do I know if my haymen is broken or not? I do lots of horse back ridibg and sports but how do I really know?...

Why would a guy lie and say he wasn't a virgin when he was?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

13 August 2007 (F) - Hey all, This isn't an urgent question or anything, I am just curious. When I first got with my boyfriend, we obviously talk about our past relationships, I told him how many guys I had been with, he told me how many girls he had been with. He sa...

He says he loves me but does he just want into my pants?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

12 August 2007 (F) - I have a friend from Spain who I have known for 5 years and he recently told me he loves me... and I think I've started to love him too... but I'm not sure if I believe him because we've been thinking of taking things further sexually and I would ...

How do I know if I'm ready for sex (or not)?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

12 August 2007 (F) - I don't know if I am ready for sex but I really want to give my boyfriend my virginity he is really nice and cares about me and is only willing to do it if I am ready for it. It will be my first time and he is wanting to make it the best. How will I ...

I'm getting married and I don't want to! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - well, I'm so confused and the issue itself has been causing me a depression since it happened that I thought of committing suicide just to escape the scandal. I'm 23 years old and due to circumstances I was pushed into a relationship and I lost my ...

Was this RAPE?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

11 August 2007 (F) - Around 10 months ago I was out with an old friend from school and she met 2 of her friends which were 2 lads that I did not really know but had seen around the area a couple of times. They got pretty drunk and at first I didn't touch any drink but ...

How can I control my sexual urges? I want to wait before my boyfriend and I have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - I sort of have mixed feelings about sex right now, and I'm confused. I am very attracted to my current boyfriend and I love him very much, and I am really tempted to have sex with him (I'm a virgin, but he isn't pressuring me at all, this is just ...

I'm not sure if I can handle having sex for the first time with someone who doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - URGENT HELP NEEDED i have been seeing this guy for less than a month.(he has been single for a year after being in a 5yr relationshp.his ex hooked up with his friend and they are getting married soon.)we are very attracted to each other.by the end ...

For the first time at 28 I gave it up, I had sex with him , lost my virginity to him and now he not talking to me at all!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a whole year, within that year we went through some rough times where he cheated a couple of times and then he stopped and silly me I remained in the relationship because all along I thought I was the problem because ...

Totally in love with my girl of one year, except our relationship has a problem... she never (ever) wants sex and we've not yet made love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) - Hi I've been with my girlfriend since the start of the year. I love her very much and she's everything I'd ever want in a partner. The only thing I'm unhappy with though, is our sex life (or lack thereof). She told me a long time ago that, before...

Is there any way for sex not to hurt the first time round?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - how do you break yourself in for sex the first time not to hurt?...

How do I tell my mum I'm not a virgin anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

6 August 2007 (F) - how do i tell my mum im not a virgen anymore? she thinks i am. and keep going on about how bad it is. but i want to tell her. i tel her everything. and i dont want her hating my bf. i want her to trust me still even though i did something i ...

Why do people think being a virgin at 20 is a problem? IS it a problem??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

5 August 2007 (F) - This isn't a problem, its a question! But why do so many people think that being 20 and a virgin such a big problem?? And why do all the teenagers think they have to have sex at like 14, 15??...

Should I have sex before I'm married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

5 August 2007 (F) - Okay I need help from all the other Christians!! I have a problem and it is really worrying me. I am a Christian and I really want to wait until I am married to have sex, but, I am worried that I will be tempted. And I want to do the right thing by ...

I feel embarrassed because of my virginity

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

5 August 2007 (F) - I use to go out with a guy a long time ago for nearly a year. we broke up and then he went out with my best friend - which hurt me alot. Eventually they also broke up. By no means is he a great catch or anything but he continues to get girlfriend ...

We have been going out 8 months, but now he wants to have sex. Should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6308 days ago

5 August 2007 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we really love each other we have a brilliant time and can talk about anything i cant imagine being with anyone else! latley he has brought up the question of sex i dont know if i should because ...