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*heerycharlie
writes:hi. im 16 and recently lost my virginity, the thing is, i did not bleed and stopped him before it hurt me too much.i don't think that i let him penetrat all the way in me and it also tore my skin at the bootem of my vagina. did he break me through? also i have been told before by other lads that im tight in foreplay, is there anyway that i can break my self through and sort out the problem of being tight? i also would like to know where abouts exactly is it where you get broken through so i know. i realy need help with this because i loose cofidence in my self in having boy friends because it think i will be too tight for themplease help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): hunny be happy u are tight man with my bf's 10in i cant even rember a time that i was tight
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reader, cheerycharlie +, writes (1 September 2007):
cheerycharlie is verified as being by the original poster of the question tanx, you have all bin a great help xxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): I don't know if you are on birth control but.... I am naturally quite tight (and definately not a virgin). I have been on birth control for about 6 years. I noticed myself getting even tighter! My gyno said that the estrogen in birth control can make you tighter if it is too high! Never would have thought.
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 A possibility is this:Female children are born with a thin film/skin covering inside of their vagina. This is to protect them (From what, im not sure) this film eventually erodes away with age, however now-a-days most people don't give it enough time (this is where the phrase "Popping her cherry" came from, because if you tear this skin when penetrating it bleeds.) That could be what makes it so hard to push in. If you and your boyfriend slowly build up to sex, have constant foreplay, him fingering you, or engaging in oral sex will help erode away at the film. The best way (If not the forementioned issue) is like the person above had said. Foreplay. It relaxes the muscles in the vaginal area, and makes it easier. It's pain you'll have to live with at first, honestly.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (31 August 2007):
 There is no way to break through being tight i am a married women and my husband still has troubles getting in me and i have had sex pleinty of times, but what i find to help get his penis in so it dont hurt is if i foreplay befor we have sex, and if i dont do that i use ky jelly to help slide in that way it dont hurt that bad. But not everyone bleeds when they loose the virginity. you will never be to tight for a guy, a penis can always work its way in a hole, just try some lubercation cause at first all girls will be tight when you first start to have sex no matter how many times they have sex, but have the guy eat you out or rub your clit intil you have an orgasm that way you are really wet down there. And if you are still to worried about being tight why dont you break yourself in and stick your fingers in your hole just as if you was having sex going in and out. start off with one and work your way up i wouldnt reck a mend more then 3. well good luck
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (31 August 2007):
 hun, be happy your tight !!!!!!!!!you just have to be careful i bet it feels better for im you being real tight than being lose i have that same problem i can take only one finger in me and also my bf is 6 inch but i got use to it and he still has to work it in but he says its worth it because he can feel me wraped all over hes cok and he came better because of that so you got a good thing you just got to get use to sex you just lost your virginity so relax and dont go tryn to loosen your self youll end up ruinning your self or hurting your selfgood luck and take things slow
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