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*assandra_096
writes:Hi everyone. I kinda need help. you see im a virgin and i think im ready to loose it to this guy i know. I mean like he is soo sweet and he makes me feel sooo good inside. but the thing is hes not a virgin. we talk about the subject "sex" when we are on the phone. I mean i like talking dirty to him!!He knows that im a virgin and he respects that, he tells me when im ready he'll be there for me. I want to give it up.I'm tired of not knowing how it feels to not have sex!! I mean i had my moments with guy and i ALMOST lost it but it just never happened!! sooo this is where u come in! i need help!! what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, daglish  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 I know how special most girls want there first sex to be but from what i have studied, it aint at all. However life is what u make it. I belive sex is something you can get as long as you want it especially when it comes to ladies This is bcoz there are alot more of boys dying to taste a female's inside than there are girls dying who would kill to have a penis inside them. So if u really want to taste just ask this guy and he will do it after all he has done it b4. But be ready for some pain cozu are still a virgin and that membrane has to give way.
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reader, caraduddy  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 I think sex should be kept in a relationship. You should like this person in the romantic way and make sure they feel the same. Best to be kept in a relationship because you may regret it afterwards. Or you could be heartbroken ect. Your choise but my opinion x
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reader, Lizz +, writes (25 August 2007):
 There are people who say to just do it and get it over with and others who want to make it "special." I personally don't think there is anything special about the first time. It's awkward and painful. The second time isn't much better. It takes a while before sex becomes mind blowing for a female so don't expect to see stars right away. This guy, how long have you been seeing him? Be sure that he isn't just adding another notch to his belt. That would be terrible for you. I think you should lose your virginity to someone you care about and, more importantly, someone who cares about you. That way he'll be a gentle lover and stop if you need him to.I say that if you've been seeing him for more than a couple months, if he truly cares about you and treats you with respect, and if you think you're ready to take on the adult responsibilities that come with being sexually active then go ahead and take that leap. Don't be a fool about it, though. Use protection first and foremost. Be prepared for the pain, too. If your hymen is still intact there will be a little blood. Penetration will be painful, too, since your vagina isn't accustomed to being stretched. Just make sure he understands to take it easy on you. Also, if you are unsure of how promiscuous he's been you might want to have a looksee at his genetal area before sex. If you see any sores/warts and such DO NOT ENGAGE IN INTERCOURSE without proper screening for STD'S. You should also consider notifying your parent/gaurdian so you can be put on birth control. You can never be too careful. Best wishes!
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