New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Should I wait for my first kiss to be with someone special, or should I find a random girl?

Tagged as: Virginity<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (23 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2008)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm 20 and have never had a girlfriend and never even kissed a girl. I have always thought that my first kiss would be (with someone) special, but I also feel some reasons for pulling a random girl. I thought it might be best to give you the pros and cons for pulling a random girl:

Pros: it would be really exciting, experience, give me confidence, it’s “only a kiss”, I’m 20 and so should be having fun.

Cons: I want to wait for my 1st girlfriend, or feel like i should, and make my 1st kiss special.

What do you suggest?

Thanks for any help

View related questions: confidence, never had a girlfriend

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Lajqi8 United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

I'm 22, and had my first kiss less than six months ago. yes, i'm embarrassed that it happened so late, but I'm happy that it happened with someone who I came to care so deeply about. Wait for the right girl, I think you'll be glad you did. Best of luck.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2007):

i might be a girl but i can help agony auntdo not find a romdom girl and kiss her, that would ruin your first kiss. i remember mine it wasn't nice but im still waiting for my real kiss the one where it runs all the way through your body and after you can't stop smiling, i know only in movies but i can still try and find it can't i.

good luck

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007):

I think it would be best to wait for someone you care about. If you just kiss anybody the first time you will regret it when you find a girlfriend and she can't be your first.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Should I wait for my first kiss to be with someone special, or should I find a random girl?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0313024999995832!