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writes:I have a friend from Spain who I have known for 5 years and he recently told me he loves me... and I think I've started to love him too... but I'm not sure if I believe him because we've been thinking of taking things further sexually and I would prefer to lose my virginity to somebody who loves me, might sound daft but that's what I think. I'm not sure if he says he loves me because I told him that I would lose my virginity to someone I love... so should I believe him? Reply to this Question
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reader, caraduddy +, writes (14 August 2007):
 I think sex should be kept in a relationship personally. Because you may regret it afterwards. Make sure he has feelings for you aswell before you do anything with him. Use a condom. Be responsible and have fun.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Yep, ceratainly not too young to have sex...just not legally. I think you should wait until your older.
Aunty Em x
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reader, sexi  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Hi, it depends on your maturity level and how ready you are. If those to apply then age isn't much to worry abou (except with the law)Regards,Mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBtw People Im 15 So Im Not That Young Lol
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reader, sexi +, writes (13 August 2007):
Hi,you should wait until you know that he really loves you. If someone loves you then he would not mind waiting as long as you want him to.You should not be sexually involved with someone at such a young age. You should wait until you are in a meaningful relationship to lose your virginity. Just wait until you know what this guy id=s up to.
Take care,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (13 August 2007):
Your too young to embark on a sexual affair, it is also illegal in england until you are 16. If you want to save yourself for someone who loves you, then you may as well wait until you are a little older and with someone you are dating seriously. You like this boy and yes, you might feel love for him. When we are young we begin to explore these feelings and ideas about boys or girls, its natural, but it is just infatuation and an important learning curve.At such a young age, I think you are very sensible to wait. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into sex, if you feel it isn't right for you, then don't do it. There will be plenty of opportunities for you in your adult life, you will understand more about the importance of sex, and you will be proud that you waited.
Good luck sweetie
Aunty Em xx
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