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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...

He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...

My ex could never get over the fact I dated somebody else during a break: please help me put my family back together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - my ex and i have were together over 4 years. we have a beautiful little girl, an engagement, 2 dogs, a house, joint bank accounts, etc. things were rough about 2 1/2 years in, we fought constantly and i split up with her, then dated another wo...

What can I do about my boyfirends constant lying??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. I am 16 and he is 17. When we first started to go out he was constantly lying to me and said he only done it so people would like him. But it was affecting our relationship so he ...

On facebook I said another girl is more attractive than my girlfriend, now she's dumped me, how can I get her to forgive me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Hi, i need a lot of help... About 9 months ago something happened on facebook between me and one of my friends. He told me this one girl was hotter than my girlfriend and i replied yes. It had not occured to me that it would lead me to this ...

Is he into me or is he just stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Ok I need a guy perspective on this. There a guy I really like and he says he really likes me too. We havent been on a date yet but we flirt loads. He's said we're going to go out one night and go to the cinema and have a nice meal and ...

Am I being played for a fool? Should I even talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Ok. I was with this girl for 2years. We broke up in August of 2007. We had an on going relationship, even having sex until October. Around mid November i cut it off, and didn't speak to her again until a bit before New years. Since we broke up we ...

Why won't he stop texting other women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Like other posts I have read on here, my fiance and father of my two year old has been texting other women for quite a while. There have been occasions where he has gone out at night and ignored my texts for hours, saying he didn't text me back cos ...

A love triangle, how can I get my ex to forgive my betrayal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - I have a complicated problem that I need some help with. me and girl #1 dated when I was in college and she broke my heart and ended up having a child. after this, I fell in love with girl #2,we dated for a year and a half and she broke my heart as ...

Am I right in thinking my husband might be having an affair with a co-worker?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - My husband has been a bit distant from me and he's been more into his job lately. I have this gut feeling that is starting some relationship with a female co-worker of his since he used to just call on a break to say hi and that has stopped and says ...

Looking for men who have been cheated on but worked it out????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Is there any male out there who was cheated on, but managed to work out your relationship? I'd love to talk to you about what happened....

I am jealous of my boyfriends best friend that happens to be a female. Am I overreacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I think i'm starting to get jealous of my boyfriends bestfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been together for almost 2 years. He has known his friend, which is a girl, for a long time he says and I get sad because they go to ...

How can I assure my boyfriend that I will never cheat again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 years old, and I'm in a 7 month relationship with a WONDERFUL man who is 21. I stupidly cheated very, very early into the relationship. My boyfriend just found out and i know it hurt him very badly as he's been cheated on before in past ...

My boyfriends best friend makes me horny!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hey people.... i really need help... basically,theres this boy iv liked for SOO long,and he knows it,,but now im going out with his best friend,he doesnt know about this,and at school he comes up to me ,,,and touches my but and stuff,,and it ma...

How can I learn to trust and show love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, My problem is that I am 'relationship-phobic' (be it friendships or relationships) and find it impossible to trust people, even if I want to. Whenever I meet someone I want to avoid getting close to them. My life is hell because of ...

I confronted him about him giving his number out and now he is calling me possessive and sick.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi.. i've been having lot of problems lately with my boyfriend.. i've been with him for 8years now. He is a good guy but i got to know that he mailed a friend of his(female)gave her his no and never bothered to let me know... i happened to find out...

How can I tell him how I feel about the "ex experience" without him realising I read his mail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Im in a great relationship but my boyfriend gave me his email password to check something for him in his account.I started looking at his emails from months ago partially due to curiosity and what I found worried me. He has been friends with thi...

Struggling to trust after girlfriend's affair. How do I discuss my concerns without being confrontational or appearing to be controlling or stalking her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for over 5 years. I thought she was the one and we planned our future together. Due to work commitments we do not live together but often stay at each other's house. A year ago I started to set up my own business ...

She won't speak to me now and I am confused and lonely. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - i met a lady in september 07, in two weeks she was wanting to get married, took her mom and daughter dress shopping, told my mom we were getting married , set the date and everything,we spent every day of the next 3 months together,I wanted to slow ...

He cheated with his ex and dumped me because I am too controlling.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Ok...Well, I've known this guy for about 8 years. We started dating 9 months ago but he dumped me 2 months ago...because *He* cheated on me and had sex with his ex. So after that day I would try to restrict him from going over his friends' houses o...

Is he cheating or was he really just joking??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of over two years likes to play jokes a lot. Recently, however, his jokes have included telling me he has been: 1. seeing someone from his gym for a few months and they really like each alot, then saying just kidding. 2. he is ...

What is trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - How do you build trust? Is it just given or does it have to be earned? My girlfriend has cheated on me and i'm thinking about giving her a second chance. But aren't you core beliefs like not lying set in stone from childhood. I'm confused, what is ...

My husband doesn't trust me! help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - in the pass, i have done something unforgiven! i am very regretful of it! i wouldnt let him down again! never! we got back together, we had a baby and got married! he works away, and i rearly go out! occasionally when i do go out, he dont approve ...

I stopped chasing him and being nice. Now he's saying that I'm a mean person. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - hey. basically, i like my flatmate at uni. He knows how i feel through a stupid mistake. however, since we came back after uni, i have kind of changed towards him - i am a lot meaner, don't do things for him anymore and don't chase after him ...

Mind games have me nuts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - Hello, If you can give me some advice that would be great. Let me briefly summarize my story- it's rather complicated! So to begin with about 2 years ago I started dating/talking to "Bob" although we never labeled it a rel...

Is this just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

27 January 2008 (?) - Write now I am having a problem with my girlfriend drinking while she is studying abroad in England.I don't understand why she is doing it. She did drink her before when her boyfriend, now ex-boyfriend, pressured her into drinking. She didn't like ...

Turned on secretly seeing wife with another man

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - i saw my wife having sex with another man. they didn't see me and i watched until they finished. i didn't get angry, i got turned on. i want to tell my wife, but will she be disgusted with me? i really wanted to join in when i was watching, ...

My boyfriend is calling himself "Big Daddy" at work..what would YOU do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - Ladies: I have a quick question for you. If you found some receipts that your boyfriend had signed at work signed "Big Daddy" how would you react? I found a couple of them so far and I'm wondering if I should even say anything about them. Please ...

He never came home last night. He cheated before... I'm lost. Can you help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do i'm with my partner 9 years we have two boys. two years ago when i was pregnant he had two affairs and used stay out all nyt i kicked his ass out when i found out and 6 months later i took him back but i told him never to ...

How to be more masculine and be myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - Hi whats masculinity, my girl friends dumped me because she says i'm not masculine enough. Now I resent talking about my feelings to her, I wasn't comfortable with it at the time and now I know why. How can you increase your masculinity....

Pregnant, homeless and confused....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I was 5 months pregnant when my Husband asked me to leave our home because he said he was miserable due to our fighting and bickering. We used to fight about fidelity issues on my behalf. Prior to me getting pregnant, he said he was over those ...

Why can't he talk to his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - my bestfriend has just told me that my boyfriend is thinking about moving away. he hasn't said anything to me, he says he can't talk to me. what do i do?...

Why is this a problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

25 January 2008 (?) - I have read about people writing some negative things about the other woman, I have been in this predictament if a man is saying he is unhappy at home and you are there to comfort him be it sexually or emotionally what is the fuss? I believe I ...

16 and scared to lose my virginity!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - Ok me an my boyfriend has been dating for only 3 months i am 16 an he is 17 we are in love you can say.Sometimes i get the feeling that he is cheating on me but then i think that he aint.everytime i go over his house i have some excuse to why we ...

Feeling suspicious and insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend, and we tell this to each other regually but he has a reputation of a person who gets wround alot. As i am 2 years younger and he is 15 i wonder if he is thinking about somebody else. He says that i am the only girl ...

I lied to him and feel bad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6148 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - i'm 28 and in a long distance relationship. I lied to him about not changing my password. He is a computer person and i think that helped him. he asked me several times but i kept saying "no, i didnt." I've lied to him several times but i used to ...

I'm disgusted... I found a fake rubber vagina in my bf's closet!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I found a fake rubber sex toy resembling a woman’s vagina in my boyfriend’s closet! I got furious at him and threw it at his face and said “What’s this?” He got angry at me back and said it wasn’t my business, and he had it long before he knew me. ...

I broke up with my bf several times as he's not contributing to the household, now I suspect he read my private emails! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I recently wrote an email to a guy I was seeing in the summer before I got back together with my on again off again bf. There were somethings that were said that was just for him but it was very platonic and i wished him all the best. The next ...

How will I know if she is cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi guys... Im going through the phase of i think my Girlfriend is cheating on me im not so sure i need your thoughts please!!! and its tricky! I live in derby and she lives in tamworth about 30 mins apart im 19 and shes 17 we met at a party an...

Our sex life is in tatters due to his affair. How can We move on!?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) - Hi people, My husband had an affair last year. We have made enourmous progress in trying to get back on track, but it is tough. Through the recovery process, our sex life obviously has come into discussion and debate. Our sex life pri...

We're getting married but he's interested in someone else. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I of over 5 yrs have been having some problems lately. We are engaged and are planning on getting married. But something has changed because he has met this girl who lives and hour or more away from us. He is all of the sudden ...

Loving somebody who is afraid

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Fear is one of the most potent human emotions that there is; it's one of the most pervasive there is because it is rooted in our survival instincts, in other words our subconscious mind. In the dim distant past fear would have saved many a early ...

The thought of her having sex with another man gets me depressed...can we ever have normal sex again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi there aunts! I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (2 years an a half) had a relationship breakdown quite some time ago. She went to another guy and she told me that she used the moment when she was weak and kissed her. She hinted that they had...

How do I overcome his hypocritical ways of trusting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My other half is currently in the Army. He's preparing to go to Iraq, he'll be leaving in June 2008 until September 2009. This will be his second time. We've conversated on a few things. One of the topic was my exes. What happened? Why this? W...

Should I still trust my wife after she admitted emailing her ex behind my back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi, My wife received an email from an old boyfriend, she told me at that time and we agreed to that, she will reply and tell him that, my husband don't like us to exchange emails and for that this is my last email to you. The problem is my wi...

Do you think she is someone he would like to have an affair with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I have recently found out that my long term partner of 10 years has been emailing another woman in a way I feel is wrong. here are some examples: Hi Nici just a quick e-mail so you are in my contacts folder, hope you're ok and not enjoying the war...

Are my fears based on something possible??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just moved to Dallas a few months ago. We text each other every single day. I respect him by telling him where I'm going and with who I'm going with. However, there have been times when he fails to mention that he's going somewhere ...

Should I accept his use of pornography whilst we are in this long distance relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who is in Australia, I am returning within the month to move in with him. About 5 months ago we discussed pornography, he said that he'd delete anything from his computer...

Do his reasons for masturbating to his exes picture sound valid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - i am in a relationship with a 29 year old man (i am 41). we've had a very good relationship in and out of the bedroom thus far. however i found out recently that he has been masturbating to old nude photos of a very recent ex-girlfriend. what the ...

She swears undying love for me but I have seen her have cybersex. Am I being unreasonable??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Can anyone tell me why people go to dating sites as single if they don't want to meet anyone? Over almost 2 years me and my partner have had several upsets due to her going on date and flirt sites. No matter what is said the truth is i am always c...