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30-35,
*sjckson21
writes:Ok me an my boyfriend has been dating for only 3 months i am 16 an he is 17 we are in love you can say.Sometimes i get the feeling that he is cheating on me but then i think that he aint.everytime i go over his house i have some excuse to why we can't have sex an the real reason is i'm scared.Why i don't know but there's something that i'm afraid of an i don't know if it's i don't like other's looking at my body or what....i am ready to lose my virginity so badley.And all my other friends aren't virgins.So why should i be? Reply to this Question
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reader, maggie1987  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 you should never plan when your going to have sex because it just wont work. you have to let it happen natuarlly when your ready youll know beleive me it will happen in the most unexpected time... if you plan it you will start gettin tense because you will be worried and the penis will not be able to enter and will cause you a lot of pain you have to be relaxed
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): Beacuse you don't feel ready to have sex yet and you suspect he's cheating on you, that's why.
Go with your gut, not with what your friends are doing or what your BF is pressuring you to into doing.
Believe me on this, having sex will make you get much more attached to him but it won't make him any more attached to you than he is right now. It's just a male/female diffference. Seems like every girl has to learn this one the hard way. They always sleep with some guy to try to deeping the relationship, and then they get badly hurt when it doesn't make him feel any more attached to her than before.
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