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Archived questions from: March, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I stop being paranoid when my man goes out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

31 March 2007 (F) - How can I trust a man...and stop being so parinoid when he goes out with his friends ?...

We met on the internet, one minute hes 16, then 18, but now hes saying hes 20, Im 14 and confused as I love him!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2007 (F) - Hello...I am fourteen years old and I am dating a guy who is nineteen turning twenty a month before I turn fifteen...I met him over the internet and first he said he was sixteen. Then he told me he was eighteen and then he said he was seventeen ...

I'm 24 and have been married 2 weeks. My husband (28) has just taken a lover who is 64!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I'm 24, and have just got married to my new husband who's 28. Recently he went on a business trip for a few days, or so it seemed, until a good friend (female) had told me she'd seen him with his lover. I thought that was bad enough - se...

I feel like I can't exist without him, I'm so confused about men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - we have been seeing each other for since last june he was the best looking , most laid back , kind happy person ive ever meet and i truly love him /... until xmas every thing was fine (i was paying for everything as he didnt have a job that was my ...

Why is it that I find it difficult to trust people..especially my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

30 March 2007 (M) - Why is it that i Find it difficult to trust people?? and wnt to question everything my girlfriend does ...

Shes got cold feet, she said she loves me and wants me but not right now!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

30 March 2007 (M) - I've been having girl troubles for about the past month and she's playing the whole "I love you and I want to be with you... someday... just not now." act. We have been together for about 1 year and lived together for about 3 months. Everythi...

Is it a big thing for a girl to lose her virginity!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

30 March 2007 (M) - Is it a big thing for a girl to be broken in? and another quick question is that my girlfriend has told me about a fling in her past when she told me I became jealous its because she is more experience then me, when she told I think I even started ...

Met a guy off the internet, was it just all about the sex for him ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I met up with a guy of the net about 3 weeks ago. The chemistry between us was crazy and we ended up kissing on the first meeting. Second meeting we ended up having a one night stand, except I left in the middle of the nite because he didnt want to ...

We are married but have been living apart for 4 years, and no sex for 3 years, does he still love me!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I'm confused. I love my husband but I'm not sure if he loves me anymore. He prefers we live apart because he says at the moment we can't afford to live together. we have a child together but I have be like a single parent. I want a divorce but...

He said he only slept with her because he was high! Is that really a valid reason ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - My boyfriend slept with someone else! And now our relationship is over. I asked him why he did it and he said because he was high - Look, i know that alcohol and drugs can make you lose your inhibitions and judgement, but is this really a valid ...

I found him with a prostitute! 12 Months on I still cant forgive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - hi, what do i do, i have been married for 16 years, together for 20, we have a 10 year daughter and 1 year old son, when our son was 2 months i found out my husband had visited a prostitute for oral sex whilst i was pregnant. eventually it came out...

Im paranoid when Im not with my bf, I miss him all the time and worry so much when were not together!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - Hi everyone Im with a great guy and have been for 9 months Recently he moved closer to me which is great. At frist i guess i had trouble with us getting more complacent as we wernt being so into one another when we met up as we were seeing more...

My long distance boyfriend never calls when he says he will, We love each other so why is this ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend's bad calling habbits anymore! We're in a long distance relationship and a few weeks ago he moved out of his roomates place and back home with his parents. His cell phone has been dead for the past month ...

What can I do to speed up the process of getting back with my ex!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - Help! Right as I thought I was getting over my ex, he came back into my life. At first he started saying don't do anything with any other guys, then he said do what feels right. He says he is confused and not sure what to think about me and him. I...

is there evidence of couples getting together after a long struggle of distance and silly problems...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6449 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I met an amazing guy last year and we were dating for a month before he went to Fiji for 6 months. This was originally planned before we even met, and I wanted a relationship from him, but he insisted it wasn't a good idea because he was going to ...

I dont trust him, he doesnt make me feel sexy and it doesn't feel like he respects me, but he is such a nice guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I am currently living with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years. I love him very much but I dont feel happy in this relationship anymore. A year ago, he cheated on me, he was seeing a girl on his university course. He told me he made a mistake and asked ...

My gf kissed another guy when she got drunk! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - My g/f got drunk for the first time in her life and then walked to her room with a guy. He gave her a kiss and she didn't object. Then she told him to leave. We have been together for 4 years and I really love her and she is really sorry...Any ...

I slept with my husbands brother!! Now I dont know whether to tell my husband ??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - About a year ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. A lot of what happened between us was emotional rather than physical, although we did sleep together on 2 occasions. I think I did it because I wanted the excitement and as a reflex reac...

Ive a feeling shes about to look for someone better, advice on how best to prepare myself would be good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - Feelings of affection for someone can cause so much sadness can't it? Well I guess that wasn't so much a question as it was an observation but I could really do with some advice on what attitude you should go into a relationship with so as not to ...

Im hating the summer before its here! I cant stand my bf looking at all those pretty girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I feel angry and jealous when the warmer weather comes b/c i feel like my b/f probably sees so many attractive girls(he works outside and near alot of stores). I also feel jealous b/c it seems he has less time for me in the summer b/c he is busy ...

Is he just manipulating me so that he doesnt have to put any effort in!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going through a rough time. I've been seeing a counsellor who thought it would help to clarify our needs/expectations in the relationship. She wanted us to outline what we expected as far as sex, household concerns, friends, ...

Does he want to date her, is he bored of me now ? What does this mean!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - OMG! right another stupid question with most probably a simple answer i cant think of. I have a site like myspace but its not and so does my bf. so i can read all his comments and he can read mine etc. anyway, i wo jus looking through people in ...

Im really worried about my bf's behaviour, hes being really lovey, but way over the top!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - my bf has been acting very strange last night we were outside ma house in the car and he was really strange he was sayin over an over that he loved me and i was like i love u too and he was like no i REALLY love you i was like i know... and he was ...

I want to date this guy but dont seem to trust him, is it because my ex ran off with my cousin ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - i have two problems...1.i was seeing this guy who i loved so much for 7 months recently he just stopped showing interest in me and suddenly broke up with because he says he has fallen for my cousin who is also my best friend.my cousin claims there ...

My current BF has become uncomfortbale with me seeing my Ex, hes making me choose!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I have an ex bf whom I am friends with. We talk on the phone sometimes and have dinner or coffee sometimes. We have not been a couple for 6yrs. My current bf whom I have been with for 9months has a problem with my friendship with my ex. He feels ...

My boyfriend seems different lately, or is it just me !?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - Can someone help me please? I don’t know what to do about my boyfriend his been acting different lately like he can’t be bothered to have me as a boyfriend. Let me try to explain this. Well he has loads of friends and that in 6th form and so on and ...

He found out I cheated!! How can I keep my man ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6452 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - recently things hadn't been going so well for me and my boyfriend of almost three years. i ended up cheating on him. then we had a long talk and we decided to make things work. everything was wonderful , and then he found out..... how can i keep my ...

He says he never wants to see me again because I lied to him! But I was afraid to lose him if I told him the truth! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6452 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - ive been romantically involved with a man on and off for 5 years.he doesnt want a commitment yet says im one of his best friends. ive accepted that because i love him so much ill take anything i can get from him recently he had suspicions i was ...

I've lost all confidence when it comes to sex, been together 9 yrs and in a rut!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - i've been wi my partner for 9 yrs and we have a 5 yr old daughter, i am really insecure even though i am attractive and can attract many men. i jus don't have the confidence to be sexy around him. we have got into a rut an rarely have sex or a laugh ...

We got back together 5 months ago(initally together 3yrs) Just found out hes been texting another girl!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - My exbf and i got got back together 5 months ago (we had previously been together for 3 yrs but split up because he couldnt commit). He moved in with me as soon as we got back together,he said he was so happy that i had given him a 2nd chance that ...

I told him some of my past, his face said it all, Im also insecure, How can I get past all this with this fab guy!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - hi, i am with this amazing guy who means the world to me, and he is truely the best thing that has ever happened to me ( relationship wise ), we get along so well and i have always told him everything about me and my past, even the fact that i h...

Im seeing an older guy and all we do is have sex, plus Im not sure if I trust him!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a guy alot older than me 4 about 2mths now, however all we do is just have sex.. he has made suggestions of going out but we haven't yet, the only thing that bothers me is he lives with his baby's mum and says he is there for ...

How do I convince her to trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 March 2007 (M) - Adult Help And Advice Required Please I need some Help and Advice with my relationship. I have been seeing my Gf for about 2 years now and got engadged at christmas, we were meant to be getting married sometime this year. our relationship has ...

Do I try to forgive and forget and believe that he is telling me the whole truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We were only together for a month when he moved back home (hours away) for work last summer. We decided to try to make it work because we both really felt that we had an amazing conection. At ...

He has a laptop so I can't check and see what he does online! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6453 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - my b/f has a lap top so therefore i dont really see what he does on it because he may leave it at home or at work etc etc..but i get curious as to if he goes to porn sites or looking up pictures of pretty women or if he is e-mailing someone he ...

She won't let me go home to see my parents unless she's with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - hi I am a 21 and a lesbian. I am in one of the most unhealty realationships possible I think. My girlfriend won't as much as let me go home to see my parents unless she is there with me and I am not allowed out for drink with out her cause she ...

How can I ask her out again so she GOES this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

27 March 2007 (?) - i asked this girl out 3months ago. we didn't know each other so she said she doesn't feel the same and just wants to be friends. well suprisingly after i asked her she continued to talk to me on msn a lot. We are planning to go out in group of ...

How do I gain her trust back after cheating on her 4 months ago?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 7 months, an I have cheated on her once with someone I went to college with. I explained why I cheated on her and we got back together but now my girlfriend doesn't trust me at all, It has been 4 months no...

My husband has been seeing prostitutes behind my back!!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi, Just found out after 30 years of marriage hubby has been using prostitutes for 4 years behind my back, I had no idea, none whatsoever and I feel such a fool, he is begging for me to stay and work this out but I feel it is so hard to forgive ...

He was making calls to an ex, could he have now changed her name in his phonebook to stop me suspecting!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - about a month ago i saw that my boyfriend had been calling an ex girlfriend. it was a few calls over about a week's time but we had an argument about it because he kept it from me and then lied about how many times they actually spoke. Anyway, I...

Been together nine months and havent said I love you, or met his kids ? Is this long enough to wait ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi Im feeling quite emotional at the moment I have a bf who is great and we get on really well and enjoy spending time together our relationship was long distance at the begining but now hes closer and all together weve been going out abo...

Is kissing classed as cheating ? Should I end this relationship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - hiya im really confused and need some advice, the other day me and my boyfriend of a year n half with a child went out for the night, we were stopping in a hotel so it was an all nighter, half way throught he night we had an argument over nothing ...

I really regret the one night stand I had, but does my GF really need to know, as it would break her heart!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - I'm in a long-term, long-distance relationship and I love my gf to bits. I don't drink and I came home from university and met up with some old friends. I had a few drinks, which turned into a quite a few and I slept with another woman. I feel awful ...

Should I be worried my partner is about to stray??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - I found a txt on my partner's mobile sent by him to his friend. He said in this txt to pass on a hello to a certain young lady that goes to his friend's gym Should I be worried my partner is wanting to stray? Why is interested or thinking about an...

He has a baby by someone else, and I think shes using that just so she gets to see him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 4 months we only used to see each other once a week but now we see each other most nights and he stays over.thing is before he met me he was seeing this women,it was a drunken thing really he would just go round there ...

How can make her see that I truly love her and I want us to be together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

25 March 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfiend broke up today, and she won't even talk to me. What happened I went in the bedroom around 10:00...and fell asleep watching TV...then woke up around 3am...went out and got a drink and had a smoke...went over to the couch and put ...

What is the first step for me to stop being emotionally abusive and controlling towards her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

25 March 2007 (M) - Hello. First off let me share my background. I'm a 21 year old guy, in a relationship with my 20 year old girlfriend. Although the relationship has only lasted 3 months this far, we've known each other for over two years, being best friends and e...

After 2 years I still don't trust him! I'm stick of the lies, he's sick of the snooping!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6456 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - Recently I sent a text message to a woman that is a secretary at my fiance's company because I heard a voicemail on his phone from her. I check his emails and now he is angry because I embarrassed him and it was business. Reason being is af...

Huge trust problems with my partner. Can anyone advise me on what I should do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - I really need an answer to this problem... I am a very honest and devoted person and seem to have alot of trust issues with my partner. He hides alot of things from me, and lies alot. He has kids by 3 different women which I went thr...

I'm flattered that he is trying to gain my trust--but, will he go back to being a cheater?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - In January of this year, I broke up with my fiancee because he was cheating on me. He emailed me recently and said that he wanted to talk to me because he was sorry for what he did to me and he understood the pain I went through because of his ...