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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:ive been romantically involved with a man on and off for 5 years.he doesnt want a commitment yet says im one of his best friends. ive accepted that because i love him so much ill take anything i can get from him recently he had suspicions i was lieing to him about other men. he said its ok if i go out with others as long as im honest. he hates liars.i told him about a guy that asked me out, but said i wasnt interested.which im not. i do have his phone number in my phone and he called me when he was with me. now he says he never wants to see me again because i was playing him for a fool and lying.i didnt tell him the full truth because i was afraid of losing him.not because i was guilty of anything.im so sad what can i do to make him believe me?
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reader, luvme247 +, writes (29 March 2007):
 You told him that he asked you out (which is more than I would have done in an "open" relationship). You don't have to give him all the details about your relationships if you are not committed. If he is getting jealous about this guy calling you, then maybe he should have thought about it before telling you that it was ok for you to see other guys. I think he is just trying to make you feel guilty and I don't think that you should. You didn't even date the guy, he just called you. There is nothing wrong with that. I would leave it be and wait for him to cool off and come back to you. I wouldn't call him and explain anything. You didn't lie. You have been seeing each other for a long time so he is bound to call you back when he is ready. In the meantime, build up confidence so when he does call you can talk to him about it and explain what happened. The fact is that a guy asked you out, you gave him your number, and he called you. That is it. You told him a guy asked you out. What more does he want? If he has a problem with you receiving calls from other guys then he needs to figure out how to deal with it or he needs to take your relationship to the next level and commit.
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