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writes:about a month ago i saw that my boyfriend had been calling an ex girlfriend. it was a few calls over about a week's time but we had an argument about it because he kept it from me and then lied about how many times they actually spoke.Anyway, I noticed that he delete and/or changed his contact list and there are a few new names that don't mean anything to me which leads me to beleive that he changed her name to another so I wouldnt' recognize the calls. Should I think he's hiding something as it appears he doesn't want me to see it or should I beleive that these are just "new people" he all of a sudden added after a year.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): When I first met my boyfriend i had ex-girlfriend phoning and him phoning her. It drove me mad. After about 9 months the phone calls finally stopped. But it has made me paranoid when his phone rings or a txt comes through. To this day (2 yrs on in the relationship) I still have the odd check on his phone just to satisfy me that the contact has finished. If you know his ex-girlfriends number then check it against the new listings on your bf's phone. If not then note the new phone numbers down and ask for his ex-girlfriend by name when you phone them. This will soon answer your mystery.
All i can say is, if you really love this guy then stick with it. At the end of the day he is dating you and not her. However don't let him lie to you or keep secrets from you either cause you don't do that to him! He should treat you with respect and not make a fool out of you.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): Of course he has changed her name in the contact list. Havent you ever done that to your phone. Its not always done to hide something but sometimes it just keeps you from argueing over the ex's.
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