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writes: I feel angry and jealous when the warmer weather comes b/c i feel like my b/f probably sees so many attractive girls(he works outside and near alot of stores). I also feel jealous b/c it seems he has less time for me in the summer b/c he is busy fixing his car and bike(since its warmer out and its hard to do in the cold) So basically i am starting to resent that the warmer weather is coming and he is already talking about oh i have to do this and this..almost like the winter is over, i cant just lay around with you anymore..and once his bike is fixed he wants to go away for a week without me and with friends to basically drink at bars and i guess party..so im basically hating the summer now..what do i do....
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (29 March 2007):
You will loose him if you worry to much or be moody with him. You just need to embrace the summer and concentrate on your OWN beauty, not everyone elses. You have to remember that these pretty girls have insecuritys and get hurt aswell. And you are not even classing yourself as a pretty girl, you need to just be beautiful yourself and be fun to be around and then he will be thinking about instead of looking at other girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): Relationships have got to have trust to work and considering your jealousy for the other women out there having your boyfriend looking at them you are making your relationship worse and almost pushing him into having an affair. Trust him, after all you don't have proof that he is having an affair with any of the women that he's laid his eye on.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Thats the best way to lose a man ... Obsessing!
The summer is not here yet, but its slowly getting there. We all like to get out and about when the summer is here, do the things we cant do in the winter... Just because hes out and about doesnt mean he will be seeing loads of good looking girls, and even if he does, hes with you... so why are you so cranky ?
Why dont you get yourself out and about doing things, take up a hobby, let him do things without you, you cant be together 24/7 its not healty and will drive you apart...
You have to start doing things seperately, believe me it makes the time you do then spend together all the better!
He wont want to lose his identity, and neither should you... Ok so hes having a week away, you have to learn to trust him... If you guys are gonna make it the trust has got to be there, have a holiday yourself and dont wallow. Your his girlfriend and hes with you because he wants to be. I walk past a few shops everyday, doesnt mean that everything I see in there I will buy!!
Same goes here, the best success to a relationship, is trust, love, respect and honesty. Talk over your concerns and make plans of your own, be your own person and things will come together. The less you wallow the easier this will be. Believe me if you get too clingy you will lose him, give him is freedom and he will respect you for it.
And enjoy your summer, relax and chill!
Take care x
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reader, Reebe +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Hello
I don't understand what your bf has done wrong, he has a hobby and it would be good for him to go away for a week with his friends. You seem a little insecure and if your bf has never cheated on you, or has never even given you any clue that he might,then you need to stop worrying about what he might do with other girls, he's chosen to be with you.
I would find a hobby of your own to do whilst he's doing his thing.
As long as you still find time to be together and do fun things together in the summer then it's all apart of having a trusting, healthy relationship.
Good Luck!
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