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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My exbf and i got got back together 5 months ago (we had previously been together for 3 yrs but split up because he couldnt commit). He moved in with me as soon as we got back together,he said he was so happy that i had given him a 2nd chance that he wouldnt mess up and we were going to be very happy, we have even talked about marraige/children etc and i was over the moon. At the wkend while using his mobile i found that he had been texting another girl, i am so hurt! my life has been turned upside down yet again, what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007): Well if they're kissy, intimate texts then this guy's a player and best to get rid of him now. But if they're just friendly texts then I think you need to calm down before you accuse him of anything more serious. You need to talk things out together without you flying off the handle and find out more about who she is. If she is genuinely a friend then he wouldn't mind you meeting her would he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007): Firstly what did the texts say? If it looks like a romantic affair is going on behind your back then dump him, he isn't worth it. Find someone else who won't cheat on you. If the texts are just words of friendship then just leave it, after all the opposite sex can be mates as well as having a relationship together.
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reader, Reebe +, writes (28 March 2007):
 Hello
It all depend what these texts contained. Whether they were friendly or more intimate. You need to speak to him about these texts before jumping to any conclusions.
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