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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is it over with my married lover? Or is he just cooling down?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

31 May 2017 (F) - Hello everyone, through common friends I met a guy at a dinner and we clicked instantly. I have been single for 3 years and I'm very hard to connect with someone immediately. We spoke the entire evening and exchanged numbers. The next morning I had ...

I need help so I can stop having an irrational hatred towards women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

31 May 2017 (M) - I did some therapy but it didn't really help. Through strength and determination I’m a much more positive person that I was a year ago and I’m proud of myself for my growth. Core Problems: 1. My earliest experiences with the opposite sex were ve...

Should I talk to my co worker about our fling, or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - Hey guys, need some work/relationship advice!! So I recently started working at my job a little over a month ago. One thing I love about this place is there are a lot of people my age and we're all motivated to work, but can still have a good time...

Did he just want to have fun with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - Hi My name is Aliyah and am 30 years old,separated and from Mauritius. I would like to have an advice please. I have know a guy on an online dating site since last December,he is actually working for an international company in South Africa ...

I made some inquiries about a co-worker, she must have found out and now avoids me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

30 May 2017 (M) - hi all, i know this lady since 3 years ago, we are working in the same place not the same department. we will bump into each other a few times in a week and sometimes will start a conversation. Most of the times she will be the one initiating t...

I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

30 May 2017 (M) - I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...

He's unbalanced and often will not take his meds. I'm scared of making another mistake but I know I have to leave him. How can my children and I leave him safely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I've decided to leave but I am scared. I've been married twice before. The first 14 years and two children and he cheated. The second was a rebound one child but he was abusive. I had 5 years on my own with my three children and we were happy...

I am not getting enough quality time with my boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - For those of you in a long-term relationship, how much time do you spend with your significant other? Lately I've been feeling frustrated with the amount of time my boyfriend and I spend together. We've been dating for five years and don't live t...

I cant seem to crack the code to being happier, I am always miserable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I wanted to ask if someone else has struggled to be happy- I am a miserable person and as much as I try in therapy I just can't be satisfied. I worry a lot about what others perceive me and I please People. Sadly the only joy I have gotten is ...

So tired of it, what now? I feel rejected again. We met, and then we were texting a lot. Now he is not replying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Hi! Just need some advice on not stressing out too much... I met this guy a week ago, last friday. We were at a party and kissed on the night and he was SO nice. He asked for my number and texted me the day after and told me how nice it was ...

I am beginning to resent him. He has changed since we married. He is now sarcastic to me. How can this be resolved ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Apologizes in advance for the long post but I really need advice. My husband and I have been married for five months. We dated for 2.5 years long distance. I moved to his city post-marriage. During the time we dated, he was always very sweet ...

I feel massive resentment towards my boyfriend because everything works out for him but never for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I don't really know how to word this but I have massive resentment towards my boyfriend because everything just works out for him, I don't want to be jealous or annoyed but I am. A few things I can think of are that I applied to go on an aid trip to ...

The guy I'm dating doesn't want kids but I do

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I am dating a guy I am 35 he is 46 he says that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and would marry me tomorrow if I wanted it. We have loads in common hobby wise, we have similar political and religious stances. However I really...

My boyfriend is lying about porn again. what are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Hi i've been in a relationship with my partner for a few years, the beginning was perfect great sex almost every day. He would always please me go down on me and stuff, compliments all the time he made me feel sexy and confident. we even watched...

Why did my husband marry me, (I'm slim), if he prefers more curvy woman when he watches porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I am a slim enough (not too slim but not curvy chubby), my husbands porn preference is ALWAYS BBW or chubby women. Why?? I know it's his preference because we've talked about his sexual attraction to BBW women! And we sometimes watch porn together...

Why do men show an interest in me and suddenly change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

28 May 2017 (M) - I am a gay man. I stopped dating for a year as I was just tired of being heartbroken. I started again a couple weeks ago, I met a guy who seemed so nice. He was everything I wanted in a guy, I honestly couldn't believe it. He was constantly ...

I don't want both of us to be broken after we are dating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

28 May 2017 (F) - Im that type of girl who seeks relationships that has deep connection and not just a plain relationship. So i know this guy for two years, and he's madly in love with me, at first i was really trying to avoid him because i wasn't interested in him ...

My boyfriend's best friend hates me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

26 May 2017 (F) - I have a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend . We have been together for over a year. We get a long very well don't argue. My friends and family love him and his family likes me as well. His other friends likes me . However , his best ma...

I made a fake account and my boyfriend chatted with it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

26 May 2017 (F) - i made a fake account recently and send request to my bf...and he asked who s this and then i started talking to him by telling fake family nd fake profession and all..he shared all his personal details with me he even send his pictures to me( fake ...

How can I forgive my boyfriend for drunk cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have lived together since February, our one year is in a couple days. Last month he came home at 2:30 in the morning after drinking, he told me his car battery had died on his way home from work so he was stuck. i went through his ...

Why can't men just say they are not interested in pursuing anything anymore rather than string you along with the crumbs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - I did it again. I swore never to talk to another man online due to my past experiences of getting too close without having any kind of commitment. It took time to get over the last guy I spoke with for 18 months (I found out he was dating someone ...

How do I deal with this? I'm hurt that a second man is asking about who is the prettiest of my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

25 May 2017 (F) - Hi all, So I dated this guy for a short while who really messed it up for me. He has a narsissistic personality disorder and well I bore the brunt of of it. One thing in particular which he did and I found very insulting was- he wouldn't stop ta...

Haven't heard from my friend after I rebuffed his advances. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - A friend came over we went to my room sat on the bed we talked them he touched me I moved his hands. Shortly after he left. Haven't heard him after that. He only sent me moving greetings via whatsapp. Should I try to contact him or walk away?...

I cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

24 May 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...

Advise needed about my husband's therapist!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate your help. My husband's therapist wants me to LIE to my husband and I'm not comfortable with it. My husband has been in therapy for almost 10 years. The last shrink changed our lives 8 mont...

He said he needed time away from me but still texts every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend of a year and a half told me last week out of the blue that he needs time away from me. At first I thought he was joking and I said are you casually trying to break up with me and he said no that he stressed and that I've been mean ...

I am troubled and feel so down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Just looking for advice. I'm 33 and separated from my husband due to domestic violence we separated in December having only been married 3 months. I wasn't happy for a long time and only married as we have 2 kids one is 2 1/2 and the other is 15 ...

How can I cope with my sexual frustration? Masturbating seems my only option. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - I'm 26yrs old and have accomplished nothing. I failed college, don't have a job, and I am a virgin. I feel that I am a hopeless disgrace with no future or anything of value. My problem is that I am sexually frustrated but feel like I have noth...

I'm getting no empathy or support from my family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Hi I'm not really sure where to start with this one or how to word it without coming across like I'm playing the victim so il just say how it is best I can. Basically I am in my 30s with three children. 11,13 and 10 weeks. My newest addition was a ...

5 years with girlfriend, losing attraction, annoyed and frustrated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

22 May 2017 (M) - I been with my gf nearly 5 years, we are still living apart due to money issues and our permanent jobs. But things have changed. I'm avoiding her because I feel like i can't really speak to her like I speak to the guys. For example, I mentioned I'm ...

How can I make my partner's ex not hate me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - My current partner and I got together while he and his then wife were going through a slightly bumpy divorce. Our relationship evolved pretty fast, and I didn’t see this as an issue because they had since moved away from each other, living in their ...

How do I deal with my mom's attitude and treatment of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - We're expecting our second baby in 2.5 months and I have a 15 month old at home. My mom has been a wonderful help but every time she visits us, she makes me feel like the worst mom and occasionally a bad daughter. I have a happy life and I just want ...

What are the rules for family visiting when we are separated but still living under the same roof?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - My husband has recently said he wants a divorce after I started sleeping in another bedroom for comfort reasons after my breast cancer and mastectomy last year. He says he is sick of being the provider and is angry that I haven't yet gone back to ...

He argues about everything! Will our relationship last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - My partner and I have been fighting a lot ever since getting together 2.5 years ago. I love him a lot but often have doubts about whether we will work long term. Whenever I ask him to do something small (like take his shoes away from my front do...

I don't know what to do, yet I don't want to give up on us.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - I recently read a post where the woman didn't know what to do because get man was still visiting online dating sites even though they are together and so neither of them are no longer single. I wanted to answer her, yet I can't honestly give her ...

I feel used. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - I had been speaking to this guy that I met online.. we had been flirting away and getting on super well. Time passed as he asked to meet which I agreed. However he didn't make it and I found out it was because he has a girlfriend. I've accepte...

What do her words mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

20 May 2017 (M) - hello, I've been seeing this girl now for 6 months, but out of no where, she been acting moody and distant with me lately and I don't know why. So I confronted her about it and ask if I was us and she said yes. she went on to say "I don't know h...

Why is he ghosting me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

19 May 2017 (M) - Why is all of a sudden ghosting me? This guy bought us concert tickets, we spoke for a while he gave me his number. He spent over £200 for these tickets, continued chatting a while then all of a sudden he started ghosting!! His ignored my me...

Do I message "his secret woman" and ask how many times he has seen her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

19 May 2017 (F) - After finding a 3 year old secret twitter account of my long term partner I was gobsmacked the tweets 4/5 times a day hugs and kisses can't wait to see you tonight etc he'd been working with her every night for 8 years in 10 years I've never met one ...

I cheated then found out my girlfriend is pregnant. She says she doesn't trust me and would leave me if she wasn't pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

18 May 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for four years. A year ago we bought a house together and within weeks I got laid off from my job. I ended having to take a job that required me to be out of town for three weeks then home for a week. I felt terrible ...

My boyfriend is grounded and I feel its my fault.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend has college review classes and is not allowed to go out after classes. But the other day, he broke the rules and went out to have lunch with me. When we were almost done with our lunch, his dad called him and got mad at him because his ...

Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...

My boyfriend is planning to propose! Should I tell my difficult parents now or after the engagement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is not a secret keeper at all. For a while now we have been talking about marriage. For us, it is just the next natural step to take in our relationship. I cannot imagine it going any other way, love him dearly, and see the same from ...

Help me with this family situation, my father thinks I'm avoiding an event!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - I have a difficult situation with my over 65 yr old parents Need advice please My parents live in another state that is a 1hour plane flight away I visit once a year and they come to my state, once a year to visit and and we talk on phone sometim...

I hate that I don't want sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - Hi Everyone! I don't really know where to turn or who to ask for advice. I'm a 24 year old female- have been with my current partner for 6 and a half years. With our up's and downs admittedly. I love this man, I look forward to seeing him eve...

He's a nice guy but it's just not working out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - Why do I always feel so down? I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we have had several ups and downs. I can't seem to look past his flaws and at times he can't see past mine but we tried hard enough for so long.bThis has been my first ...

Why does she keep cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

15 May 2017 (M) - The last three years have been very turbulent ones. We have broken up and got back together so many times. Usually couples just stop getting on and end up drifting apart. Not in our case, because its only ever been one thing that has ever caused ...

Am I asking too much? Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

15 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot over the last 3 months. It started as I was nitpicking at him and I think it was due to my parents divorcing and me desperately wanting him to be there with me. I live at home with my Mum and brother and ...

On/off holiday friendship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

14 May 2017 (F) - I met this guy on holiday. We got along really well and I thought he was, well, perfect. Then he had to move away and stuff cause his holiday ended. We exchanged phone numbers and we were texting for a while. After a couple of weeks of texting he ...

Partner lets me shoulder all the responsibility

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

14 May 2017 (F) - I've been with my fiancé for 4 years now. We have a 1 year old little boy. My fiancé and I are very different. - he's passive, I'm aggressive, he's reactive and I'm proactive. When we met he had an issue with drinking and doing other things such as ...