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writes:Im that type of girl who seeks relationships that has deep connection and not just a plain relationship. So i know this guy for two years, and he's madly in love with me, at first i was really trying to avoid him because i wasn't interested in him at all, although he kept trying to date me and win my heart but i ignored it. However, im leaving my country permanently in July , but during these couple of months I've started falling for him and he just cant get out of my mind and im desperately trying to convince myself that he's not the right guy for me. I already know that if we dated, our relationship wont stay long. I just don't know what to do. I don't want both of us to be broken when we are dating. My heart start pounding just by crossing the idea that I'll never be seeing Jim again and it will never work for both of us while we are both in love with each other. He confessed to me before that he loved me (when i wasn't intereated yet) but know its too embarrassing to tell him that i do love him after many times of rejecting him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (30 May 2017):
 Tell him.
You never know how miracles happen and even if nothing comes out of this, at least he'll know that you loved him back. That in itself is a beautiful feeling
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 May 2017):
 honestly he has chased you for so long just give the poor guy a break and don't say anything to him. Not if you are leaving in July that would just be cruel. I think you are falling for him now because you know you are leaving.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (29 May 2017):
 Toss a coin to decide whether to give it a try or not. The moment the coin is in the air ask yourself which outcome you want it to come down to.
I don't know why you have to leave your country, 'Permanently'. Is it because your family are moving away? And nothing is permanent really is it?
You state your age as 18-21. This makes you an adult. You can decide for yourself whether to take a gamble and a gambol. Life can be crazy can't it?
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reader, N91 +, writes (29 May 2017):
 So you'd rather deny your feelings to save your embarrassment? Why on earth would you do that?
Life is far too short to not tell people how you really feel.
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