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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 May 2017):
 What do you want with this man? My guess is he got the signals wrong when you led him to your bedroom?!
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reader, Billy Bathgate  +, writes (25 May 2017):
Leave him alone. He thought your friendship was going somewhere else especially after you let him on your bed. Now he's hurt and possibly a little humiliated if he wants to contact you he will. If he doesn't you know The friendship is over.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 May 2017):
 I think he was hoping for more, and when you SHOT him down after taking him to your bedroom? He felt stupid.
Let him be for a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2017): Nah, just let him recover from the embarrassment. I agree with N91; I think he'd rather be more than friends.
If he behaves weird around you from now on; don't push it. He crossed the line and placed you both in an awkward position.
He's not happy in the friend-zone; or may want to acquire a few extra-benefits. If that's not on the agenda; cool-it for awhile. Maybe he's already decided to move-on, if sex isn't available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2017): Are you 36 or 16? You invited him to your bed and then you acted offended when he thought what most people would think inviting someone to their bed means.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (24 May 2017):
 So you invited him to your home, you invited him to your room, You invited him to your bed. Then you slammed on the brakes. He's still just trying to figure out what is going on in your head.
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reader, N91  +, writes (24 May 2017):
 I don't think he is your 'friend'. He clearly has other things in mind besides friendship.
He's probably feeling a annoyed or embarrassed that you knocked back his advances. Doesn't sound like he's too interested in trying to remain friends.
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