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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do you leave someone when they are the father of your child?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I’m eight weeks pregnant with what would be my first child. But before I knew, I had been thinking on and off that I wanted freedom, I started questioning being compatible with my boyfriend and resenting him. Sex life was declining and I had no ...

Do I stay and hope that all these things will happen with my partner or do I leave and find them with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid. As I leave 2017 and start 2018, I'm wondering if I should stay in my relationship of three years or walk away...because within these three years he doesn't seem interested in saving.... I'm 24, he's 23...We are renting togethe...

He's losing interest. Is he trying to get me to break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly a year (it will be a year in February 2018) suddenly doesn't like it when I touch him. I don't mean sexually, I mean casually. I don't understand why. This has never been an issue before. He has been legitimately getting mad ...

I ended things at Christmas and gave each other's presents back, but she is furious about it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

31 December 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years, but we don't live together. I've been hesitant of her moving in, because in the past she has professed the belief that a man should sacrifice himself financially for a woman. Because of this, we ...

I don't want to continue this relationship but I want my money back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

31 December 2017 (F) - I start to resent my boyfriend of 3 years for some money I lent to him in the past. I will explain, he asked me if he can buy a phone with my credit card because his phone was not working at one point and he was having some financial issues. so I ...

No sex in 3 years! Is he gay? Am I just a cover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

30 December 2017 (F) - i've been seeing this guy for three years now I only see him on a Saturday till sunday, some times not even that we haven't had any sexual relationship yet sleep in the same bed , he said he don't think about sex ever , yet I found Viagra an durex ...

My friend wants me to be friends with his wife but I don't like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

30 December 2017 (F) - I’ve just recently become friends with a male friends wife. My friend and I have known each other ages but I never really got to know his wife (she was always busy and they are quite independent of each other). Anyway, we’ve been meeting up for ...

My boyfriend planned a week long New Year's party at his parents' holiday home despite knowing that I wouldn't be able to make it because of my upcoming exams

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2503 days ago

30 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend [24M] of 6 years decided to throw a week long New Years party with all our mutual friends (roughly about 20 people) at his parents holiday home, which is couple of hours drive away, while I [23F] stay back and study for finals for grad ...

I feel my girlfriend is cheating on me... With her ex husband's new wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2503 days ago

29 December 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, we'll call her "S", for about 11 months. She has a 4 year old son, I have no children. She's divorced, and it was rough. He was an abusive, meth-head a-hole. I've never been married, but I've been cheated on ...

Is it selfish to break up with him over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - A couple of months ago my boyfriend and I had an argument, I was trying my best to start sex with him, I don't know if he was maybe tired but he got annoyed and said it's a turn off putting sex on a plate. So I decided to stop trying, I though...

Can this violent, abusive relationship be saved?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2503 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over two years now. We have a house together and before we moved in, we had a great time. However when we moved in, he kept throwing parties and his friends would strip naked and jump into our bed, be ...

I really love this guy so much. How to make him realize all will be fine?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - I am 22 {Indian}and financially stable. I met this guy through Facebook . We were young and it was first love for both of us. It was intense and serious relationship . We had own ups and down in these 6 years .His parents were helpful during this ...

Why can’t they leave me alone and enjoy my visit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Am visiting family interstate for 2 days,staying overnight then leaving. Staying with my parents and will visit my younger sister and her family also, as they live in the same town. I have to stay with parents as sister has 2 kids (17...

Why am I upset that none of my dad's family congratulated me on my wedding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Hey, This is more a question on advise on how to control my feelings. I'm not particularly close to my dads family, always been excluded from family events (I.e wasn't even invited to my Dads wedding or were my two sisters from his second ...

How do I change his mind? How do I move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

28 December 2017 (F) - I am 22 female living in India. I am in relationship with this guy A for almost 6 years. We both are working and financial stable . My bf cheated on me couple of years back and I was devastated .Then after few months we patched up and things were ...

Should I pursue this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I've been having this strange "relationship" with this man over a year now. We met through common friends. Since then he's been chasing me. He was very charming and we really got along, always had something to talk about and there is tons of ...

He's not for me and I don't know how to end things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - I started dating a guy just over a month ago, things were very exciting the first couple of weeks, I got the butterflies and could tell he was really nervous when we had our first couple of dates (even though we knew each other about 10 years ago) ...

No Christmas gift from him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

26 December 2017 (F) - I have a December birthday and my boyfriend of 9months got me a gift for my birthday but today on Chritsmas no gift. He got one from me. After his family left I asked if he had a gift for me, he said no he ran out of money and hopes to take me...

I'm fed up but still attached to my long distance boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I are long distance and have been like this for 4 months. I am honestly fed up with him. He recently keeps asking for money when I clearly say that I dont have anything to give him (partly because I dont want to get used and see if ...

Career, family, marriage and my life are challenging me! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - Hi. I am 26, single forever and unemploymed forever. I have done my MSc in Biotechnology. Since then it's been 3 and half years that I am still unemployed after giving hundreds of interviews. I was so interested in the field of research in ...

All he wants is sex, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since July and I don’t know him he loves me he says he does but all he wants is sex I love him with all my heart but do I stay or leave should I wait a year ...

I'm ready to get back into the dating scene, but there are a few bridges to cross first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - So, to start off, I haven't dated anyone or pursued anyone in any way for over a year now, but recently, I have been thinking about getting back into the dating world now that things have been going great in my life as far as my health and financial ...

We are both married but we love each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

24 December 2017 (F) - Help me. I'm in love with a man who is not my husband. I'm very confused and even though I love my husband and he is a good man I can't stop thinking of someone else. We talk a lot and we have met up personally. We are work colleagues. I think he ...

His depression is sending me back to my depressed days

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

24 December 2017 (F) - Hey everyone . I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months at first everything was great as usual , weve got to know each other really well in that time and hes told me he suffers really bad depression .I have tried my best to support him in any way ...

I feel my boyfried obsesses over petty tips!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - Hello I'd like every one's opinion on this : My boyfriend is very big on tips. He worked as a waiter at a small restaurant for a few years and currently an Uber driver. Every day he would tell me how this rider or that rider promised to tip ...

Playing truth or dare .... I didnt like his answer.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - I’ve been talking to this boy he’s in the same year as me but in a different school and tonight we were playing truth or dare I asked him what the most he had done with a girl is and he said he wants to take it back but he’s fingered someone.Ohhh ...

My boyfriend regrets telling me about the woman who gets naked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have a predicament. I've been dating a really nice man for the past year. However, there is this one friend of his family member who in the past 10 years has removed all her clothing and targeting him lets just say more than once. He swears he has ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to be near me when I am sick.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for past 2 years and it's going on good and we meet on weekends and stay together on weekend. One thing that concerns me, not sure if I should be, he doesn't want to meet and around me whenever I'm sick, he says he doesn...

I know I don't have any claim on him so why do I feel bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my bestfriend, who I work in the same office with, started hanging out with this guy we also work with. The guy works in the field so we only get to hang out when he is in town, which happens about once a month. Anyway...

How do I stay out of friends argument?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

20 December 2017 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, two if my dear friends had a fight, I stayed out of it. The one who's in the wrong keeps insisting I take her side, the one who's right is glad I'm out of it. I keep telling the one who's insistent that I like them both an...

I don't think I can ever trust again...Even my family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

19 December 2017 (M) - Generally, I am not open at all. Not shy either. Just prefer to keep things private and off limits. This has happened because I've lost trust so many times that I built up this barrier, and I know it's unhealthy. But that's happened because of ...

I'm crushing on my ex's brother, his partner is my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I no this might sound really bad. But I am so confused right now!! I split with my ex over 3 years ago we have a child together. I have stayed close with his brother and with The brothers current partner. Me and the brother have always been flirty ...

Husband is cheating, wants me to leave the marital home.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I hope you can give me some advice. My husband of 19 years asked for a divorce in April this year, straight after I finished treatment for breast cancer. There has been no intimacy for 2 years now. He has refused to leave the family home ...

Did this Married Man forget his former mistress already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I dated a Married Man (MM) for a year and a half. We both worked at my dad’s office. He got caught by his wife 3 times but never left me. The 3rd time he got caught things got pretty bad. He started going to counseling and distanced himself from me. ...

21 year old currently lost in the world, any help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Hello all, Lately, I have grown incredibly depressed. It seems like last year, I had everything I could of wanted at the time. I had a boyfriend, I lived in a nice house, I had a great and fun job, I had a good relationship with my co-...

Do you think he cares that I don't call him so often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2521 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, I like this guy over 5 years now we talk on the phone I call him he never calls me i think the headache don't call me because I have to use my next door phone and he knows her they use to work to getther I use to call once ever week ...

My sister is toxic and bitter, and she hates me, what do I do about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I have a sister who I love only for the fact that she is my blood, but everything else about her I just can't stand because we have a toxic relationship ever since I was a kid she always told me that I'm ugly, that I'm dumb, that i am ...

My father and I have different views on life and it's holding me back from being myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - I live with my mom and dad while working and going to school part time to finish my degree. My mom and I have always been close but my dad and I not so much. I was always his little 'princess' growing up and loved to go camping/fishing ...

Could it be my social anxiety or am I right to feel left out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - Hey guys I need your help with something. About a month ago I went out with my boyfriend and a few of his friends, two of them being a girl and her boyfriend. My boyfriend still has a big friend group from when he was at school (girls and guys)...

Is my boyfriend too sexually demanding?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend around half a year. He has really bad anger issues which he has been trying to control but he still has his outbursts. One of the things that triggers these outbursts is when I don’t give him head when he wants it. ...

Will I never be with my soulmate? It seems fate is keeping us apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - I met the love of my life when I was 14, we fell in love so deep. The world was our oyster, growing together year after year, experiencing every 1st thing together. Bad and good. Both our life’s were tragically twisted and I made a mistake when I w...

How do I get the power back in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I started an affair with a guy from work around 1 year ago, who actively pursued me. The relationship I was in was physically and dometically abusive and around 5 months ago after police involvement I left him and moved out on my own, which was ...

Not sure how I feel about this married man anymore, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - Hey all! So I've been hooking up with a married man (mid 30s, yes I know im terrible for it) for about 9 months now, but the first time we had sex, we didnt communicate or see each other for almost 3 months, like I actually thought I wouldn't see or ...

I'm doing all the work in the relationship!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. I really love him and feel like he could possible be the one to walk into my future with. He carries a lot of baggage in regards to sexual abuse, drug abuse and so on. He is taking anti-depressants ...

I always seek validation, but I shouldn't really need it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - Why do I attract these men or better yet these people in my life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 next month and I am at a dead end with men . I have stoped daring and having sex for the last year an a half but I don’t jnow why I attract men that are ...

He wants me to change, I want him to love me as I am.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - I'm feeling kind of hopeless in the relationship I'm in. We'e been together nearly 10 months, age gap between us is 15 years. We get a long great, there is so much chemistry. We love each other very much. There is however an issue that we find ...

My boyfriend is being brutally honest and I can't cope with it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

12 December 2017 (F) - Been dating for a year and it's the BEST relationship I've ever been in. However, he's starting to be brutally honest and I'm not liking it. I've told him how I felt, even cried and I try to avoid certain topics just because where it can lead to. He ...

Our sexual needs are different

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

11 December 2017 (M) - My girl friend and I got in an argument last night about sex. I get tired it’s me who wants sex. She never starts it, and now she is too tired, because of work, one full time job an one part time job. I realize that, but now it’s the holidays. She ...

Religion may be the stumbling block for us

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

11 December 2017 (M) - I'm an atheist (born to Christian parents) and my fiancé is Christian. We both want kids. She recently asked me if I was willing to give them a Christian upbringing when they arrive. I want them to make the decision about a deity when they can think ...

This is the second abusive relationship I've been in. Am I picking the wrong type of men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Last night my boyfriend punched me in the mouth. I've left him. He asked me not to leave. But I said I have to be alone right now. It came about after an argument over a male friend of mine. My boyfriend said that my face lit up when my friend a...