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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm ten weeks pregnant and now my Bf tells me he ''isn't sure'' about our relationship. How do I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - I'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has just told me he doesn't know if he loves me or wants to be with me. We have always known that we need to make more effort with each other, however which his lazy attitude he just never has. So I ...

He made a racist remark. How should I respond? I think reporting him will make things worse for me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Hi all, I'm a 16 year old female that has just started college and is having some issues. I am on a male dominated course and I know a boy on their from my old school. We got on really well at school but now we're at college he's trying everythi...

When we travel my wife of 21 years changes and becomes easily offended when on vacations. What's the solution to this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

30 September 2015 (M) - I'm tired of traveling with my wife of 21 years who will ruin a trip by becoming over sensitive and easily offended by any little thing. Otherwise, she is a rough and tumble type that jokes around a lot and a lot of fun to be with. But on vacat...

My wife will not accept apologies. No matter what. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

30 September 2015 (M) - I have a wife who rarely apologizes. But more strange to me is that she does not accept my genuine apologies. I am some one who does not have a problem with admitting by faults and working to do better. But my wife of 21 years seems to be stuck on ...

This is a second attempt at our relationship and I'd like feedback on my suggested guidelines!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend is in president of his fraternity and I know how important his frat is to him so I don't want to prevent him from his duties/fun. However, we recently broke up because he did something while drunk at a party that I didn't approve of ...

I'm not happy and his dog also causes me problems. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Hi everyone Hope someone could give me some good advice me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 4 years we have a 2 year old and a 1 year old and he Has a dog a rottweiler that he had when we met we moved in together. He is at work all day ...

Can I save this situation? What can I do if the girl I like is starting to show less interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

29 September 2015 (M) - Dear all To summarize, a girl i like may be losing interest. what should i do? I met this girl online 15 days ago, she lives about 1 hour away. we did not meet via a dating website, she chose to contact me as she had just moved to the area. ...

His ex was a slim red-head. Am I being silly by making the connection between his ex and what he's been preferring to watch via porn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3347 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Sometimes my boyfriend and I watch porn during sex. My boyfriend doesn't have a particular type... blonde/ chubby / tattooed/whatever - he really has a broad taste but I know he prefers curvier brunette girls. However recently he's been lookin...

Is there a possibility for someone like my husband can change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3324 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been living with my husband for 7 years now. For past 2 yrs things have been a roller coaster. I have left twice just for 5 wks at least to get a break from him and his tantrums. The first time I left I took our two kids with...

Help ! Should we get back together? Did he really cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3347 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - First off people of the internet, I apologize for the really long post I really just want you all to fully understand the situation (: So.. I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend because my friend told me she saw him grinding with another gir...

Am I being unreasonable? How can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I am very stuck. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and we were very happy and content together. I never thought that I would be thinking of breaking up with him but I really feel stuck. We were making plans for...

My childhood friend is passively mean to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - Hey all, So I have this friend I grew up with. He is a little eccentric in his behavior but we had a fun childhood together. He was my best friend for a very long time. As we grew, I guess he started liking me and still does I guess. I love hi...

This other guy is much nicer than my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and I must say we do have our ups and downs. He has a bit of a temper and a bit touchy and get angry a lot. There's also this guy that is totally opposite to my bf. He's sweet, kind...

Am I being controlling to my boyfriend? How do we work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - I started dating a guy from work and as we were getting to know each other I learnt that he takes cocaine on the occasional night out and smokes a lot of weed. He is also a regular smoker, but I knew this all along. In the early stages I made it...

I'm still dealing with the emotional trauma from a past rape but my boyfriend hasn't been understanding. Should I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - 2 years ago I was raped and recently I received a lot of compensation for what happened to me. I left my job I was in after I was raped as I worked in a Pawnbrokers and I had a lot of regular customers who were men, lots of them would try flirting ...

I feel like he just charmed me to get me to the bed and now that it's over, he's withdrawing himself. I feel disrespected, humiliated, hurt and betrayed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - I've been dating this guy for the past three weeks. He seemed to be a nice, caring and romantic person who made me feel special and showered me with attention. Now, we've entered a relationship since the last 15 days (the guy himself brought this ...

Our daughter is stealing from us how do we stop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

27 September 2015 (F) - I am married with one child who is 16. Like most teenagers my daughter has gone through rebellious stages but I feel as if it is going too far. My daughter for the past 4-5 months has been stealing money from us. After about 50 dollars being...

He has a family but acts like he is still single!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Hi hope someone can help me I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have a 1 year old daughter together we have a pretty good rrelationship but the problem is I still feel like he thinks he is single he is always out with his mates we never get ...

I realize we aren't compatible but feel obligated to stay with her. What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - Dear everyone I started to date a girl about 6 months ago and we started a relationship. We both knew it would become long distance but we both accepted it and said we'd give it a go, but we both understood they often don't work out. we accepted...

What can I do? I'm bored with the lifestyle my boyfriend wants to live

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Hi there :) So I've been with my boyfriend for over five years, half of which time he was in the military and we had a long distanced relationship. We both worked hard on our relationship, spending time together when he was home, and our plan was ...

How do I deal with a jealous/possessive friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Hello, For a few months now I've known this girl (K) through one of my closest friends at work (D). I knew she was important to him so I tried to get to know her and be very friendly. However, recently, a lot of negativity has been directed my...

Am I going crazy? Or is he being overly possessive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3350 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Here's a background on my relationship: I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. Currently we are having a long distance relationship (it has been ongoing for half a year and I have made plans to move over to his coun...

How can I stop myself from sharing cropped nude pictures of my girlfriend online with other guys? It gives me a thrill even though it's wrong

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

25 September 2015 (M) - Hi friends.. I have been Sharing nude pictures of my girlfriend but before that cropping the head of the picture and then share with other guys on an anonymous social networking website it turns me on when i share it.. I then wank over it.. Im ...

My siblings are attacking me for moving back home for 6 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and earn 100 euro a week and i suffer from severe stress anxiety and depression. I moved out from home one year ago to live with my fiance but our rent increased massively causing us to leave the home we made together, the rent rise was a ...

Should I take up my boyfriends parents' offer and move in with them for a while?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - I live with my mother and step father who I feel and believe are being abusive towards me. What I mean by this is that my step father says horrible things to me when he's mad and has grabbed me and has hurt me a few times. He has a bad anger problem ...

I love my boyfriend but can't stand him being abusive to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - Hello guyz,have been dating this guy for a month now. He is so sweet,kind but a lil selfish. The problem is that he drinks too much and everything . He was drunk the other night and was verbal abusive,he said a lot of things and call me so many ...

My addict parents expect me to move back in and fully support them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - I have always had a complicated relationship with my parents. When they're not drinking and are being normal, we have a great relationship. When they are drinking and getting angry and crazy, things get very bad between us. Both of my pare...

How do I get over the hurt and betrayal that my "friend" was dating the guy I liked behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - My friend tricked me into believing she wasn't seeing the guy I fancied. How do I get over this betrayal? Me and this girl were friends for a couple of years - I didn't know her that long - but long enough to be close friends. She knew I was keen...

Boyfriend's brothers are at our place way too often and I don't know how much more I can take!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3351 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - My bf and I moved in together about 2 months now. My bf works full time but he has been trying to start a company with his brothers, and he works on this in all of his spare time. Which means, there is very little time for me - I can't recall the ...

How am I supposed to continue into the future with someone as spiteful as she has been towards me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I've been dating this girl on and off for a little over three years and I just recently found out that whilst we weren't together for a short period of time, she had sex with a guy that was clearly my enemy, but she didn't come clean about it until ...

How long to wait to have sex with a new partner? Do I have to tell him how bad my sexual experience was with my first boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - I'm dating a guy who is 7 yrs older than I am which is fine as I really like him, however I'm the younger one at aged 22 years. We haven't spoken about our past yet with regards to my past boyfriends. I had a really bad time with my first boyfrie...

Been divorced for ten years and happy now. But now my emotionally abusive ex wants to come back and live with me since the death of her partner. How do I refuse my ex-wife's request?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I have an ex wife who was continuously unfaithful to me and was abusive, she divorced me about 10 years ago. I have been much happier since our divorce. We have a daughter together who is now 17. She moved in with me about a year ago after confid...

My mother has many issues, but despite this I don't want her to live with me, due to her chosen lifestyle. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - About a week ago I came on here to ask a question. I apologize that I can't find it but I will explain it again. I have an emotionally abusive mother on drugs who unfortunately does not work or take care of herself. She had 2 weeks to move ou...

To love? Or to live? Or to leave? That is the question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of seven years is seriously ill and this alone brings heartache because his life is inevitably shortened. I have offered him to move in with me but he likes to keep his own place and it does make financial matters easier to handle. H...

What should I do? He does not want to talk about it, but money keeps disappearing from our joint funds

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - I need some advice as I don't know what to do. I have been married for 6 years. For the past year or so i have slowly but surely noticed money gone from our savings. Now we are careful about our money and we never touch our savings unl...

Do I stay? Just dating yet he expects me to be full time stepmom without the promise of marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My bf won't marry me but expects me to be a full time mom to his child while he works and goes on vacations. I'm feeling trapped. His son in five and has displayed major violent and angry behavior. He has attacked other children during outings a...

In public I'm different. In private I'm unhappy and take it out on my elderly parents. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3351 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - Why do I get so irritable and shout at my parents? My life has really taken a turn for the worse. I was made redundant and running short of cash, I lost my boyfriend to another woman which I've never really got over and I have been diagnosed w...

He complains about being bored and he's rude. Should continue seeing him or just leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - Please correct me if I am wrong!but I am really mad at a guy I am seeing for a little over a month. So on our last date(which was yesterday) he called me over to his place and no we did not even kiss it was us just hanging out and having dinner,b...

I don't want to seem mean to my new neighbors but feel they are asking too much of me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - About 4 months ago, a new family moved in across the street from me and the mother seemed to be struggling moving boxes into her house so I went over to both help her and welcome her into the neighborhood. I met her and her 3 children and the...

I need advice for my daughter who is living in a filthy one bedroom apartment with 4 children and one big dog! Her husband is never home because he's at his church!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Desperate I need an advise for my daughter who is married with four children, my daughter and her husband works five days a week. They been living in a one bedroom apartment and one big dog since my first grandchild was born 6 1/2 years ago, the...

Is this his anger speaking or should I break it off with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - So , I ve been talking to and hanging with this guy I like for a year and some ... He's never really asked to be my boyfriend or make it official. I have but he didn't give me a direct Yes. Anyways, He says he likes me, he said he loved me once or ...

Should I have a baby with him? He's married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - I am a 38 year old lady who has been in an unhappy long distance relationship in another city(away from home) for 7years with no assurance from my man that he will marry me any time soon. At the beginning of this year i met a guy same age as me wh...

He cheated. Now he's devastated I'm leaving. Do I give him another chance or give up ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, I just spent the last few months getting my 25 year-old live-in boyfriend of nine years to confess that he cheated sometime last year. We'd had a great relationship other than this. I knew that he'd attempted to cheat at ...

My now ex Bf goes missing in action, but is furious if I don't pick up the phone. What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - My Now ex boyfriend of 2 and a half years gets really annoyed with me if I don't answer my phone or text back or call back quickly. He always said "keep me updated". He made it clear how he feels and I honor this request as best I can. He has had ...

Is it a lost cause to be looking for a man who, within a relationship, does not lust after other women ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - I'm growing increasingly tired of men thinking they can lust after other women with no consequences. Like us ladies don't notice or we are just supposed to accept it as "men being men". Are there any men out there who genuinely disagree with looking ...

Do I go or stay out of guilt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

22 September 2015 (M) - I left my wife and young sons for another woman, I am not proud of it but I fell in love. So walked.She left her marriage Still with the other woman missed the kids best years, my ex let me have access and it must have been hard for her. Fast...

It feels like he's distancing himself from me. How can I improve my relationship with my bf who has PTSD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has PTSD from the war and he is hard to deal with. He gets mad at dumb things and always thinks I'm mad at him when I'm not I'm just chill or quiet or relaxing or thinking. If I talk too much he gets irrational especially in fr...

Did I ask for a salary that was too high? Is there a way to negotiate back in their favor? How would I word my letter to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

22 September 2015 (M) - hey guys, recently I applied for a job. I got shortlisted in pre screening, but after filling up the final screening form, I got a mail saying that my candidature will not be proceeded further. In my form, I have mentioned quite high salary pack...

Porn. He called them 'pop-ups'. Feels like it's hard to trust him since I think I caught him lying. Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - I think I may have caught my boyfriend lying to me and it really bothers me, even more than what he is lying about. We live together and have been together for about two years. At the beginning of the relationship he came out and told me he doesn...

Could you forgive someone who lied about their age and their name? Turns out she the daughter of my boss!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

22 September 2015 (M) - I met this girl "J" at a bar back in late July. She is beautiful and has an amazing smile, I asked her to dance and we ended up talking all night. She told me she was 23. We exchanged numbers and the very next day I called her. We ended up Hoo...