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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I want to feel apprechiated! After 4 years together, how do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone, Well I am writing here because at this point I am totally confused. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22 years old. We have been dating since highschool. Since about 11th grade so around the time we were both 17. We had our ups and down...

Texting male friends constantly while we were watching a movie, should I be okay with this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - So I met this girl, we hit it off And started seeing eachother. One of the things we talked about was how her last boyfriend was very controling, wouldn't let her have male friends, go out to the bar with her girlfriends And so forth. Well I don't ...

How much contact between first and second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi Guys, This follows on from the last question I asked really, which was about getting a second date / level of contact / not being too needy. To put you in the picture, I went on a first date with this girl I met on a dating website. Now, I...

Perfect one minute, drifting the next, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - So I have been depressed and heart broken for the past two weeks and a half now. I was engaged to be married and he recently broke up with me saying that he gave up on me a long time ago because I wasn't as affectionate to him as I use to be. The ...

Urgent help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Dear cupid i need solution of this complicated problem. I have nobody to share my grief. My mother died when i was small, since then i am a very sensitive kind of girl. Recently i am perplexed and really need your help..so here it goes : i have ...

If I tell anyone I'm gay...I'm dead....literally!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I could really use some help advice. I'm 22 and where I live being gay is a no-no, but I fear that I might be gay or at least bi, but I'm not very sure I dunno what to label myself as I'm so confused. Honestly I don't want to be either. Ever...

I always attract the wrong guy, how do I bring the focus back onto my own life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need to understand what is going on with me as I'm back in the same position I've been in several times before and I've got to break this cycle. The problem is that I only seem to go out with guys who have an emotional disab...

Should I tell my friend the truth??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - ok my "friend" has a girlfriend and i am madly in love with her. I told her my feelings and she didn't say she didn't like me or nothing will every happen but my friend has a little instinct that i like her as he has told her that and she told me. ...

Should I stay single to make my ex feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy for about a year. Things were great in the beginning, but I was extremely stupid and cheated on him a couple of times. He decided to stay with me, being the very good guy he is. However, the p...

Should I tell him or hope that one day he'll like me like I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - ok, im only 14 but i like this boy who is 18, its really complicated because my mum is his boss and he has a gf, we text all the time and he seems to like me but not like i like him. should i forget about it and move on or still be friends and hope ...

Is this relationship worth holding on to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Is this relationship worth holding on to? Let me start off by saying I am 20. I've been seeing a 43 year old for about 3 months now and surprisingly, our relation is great. (I'm not after money.. And he's not just after sex). We have a lot in co...

Is the thought of too many kids an marriage spooking my partner??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hi all, I am new here and need some help. I have been dating a man for over 3 yrs and we are now having problems, well he is. Anyway to give you some hindsight into us - we are both divorced,over the age of 40 and i have 3 children (8,8 and 7) who ...

How do I come clean with my man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - hello all. I need some advice on how to tell the man ive been planning on being in a relationship that i have just been diagnosed with herpes. We have not had sex, as we have been taking it slow for about a year now. I freaked out over it so im ...

Why will he not collect his stuff now we are over

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Just wondering why my ex will not arrange to take his stuff that he left at mine back. We broke up about 3/4 weeks ago (he split with me)and we did still txt for a bit after we split but I think thats because we had to work together but that is no ...

Snooped and found out that my some guy kissed my GF! Now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - So i did something bad. I snooped my GF facebook. I found a conversation that she had with her friend. They are talking about a party that my GF friend attended. her friend said something like "3 guys tried to make out with me , they pretty much...

Just recently called me the wrong female name, twice. Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hello, My bf and I have been together for 3 years. We don't live together. Recently he's called me two different female names one was his exes name, the other was some name I've never heard of. He has no sisters nor anyone he works with by that name...

My mind says do not go back to my abusive ex. My heart says yes. what should I do? Should I just stay friends and avoid relationships for a while?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants me back. What should I do? He is 26 years old, I'm almost 17 years old. Our relationship was of 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. We met online. I broke-up with him 3 months ago but we still remained in contact on ...

I have serious trust issues with men....should I try dating women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - The last year ive been thinking about dating a women/woman. but im kinda in a boring, confusing, and unfaithful (on his part) relationship right now. im really attracted by the beauty of women. and im sexually attracted too. ive never dated a woman. ...

Is this girl, who I love, worth another try, or will I get hurt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated about 11 months before she dumped me. We had a fantastic physical and emotional relationship, we had great chemistry, and often stayed up to the late hours of the night talking and just enjoying the companionship of one ...

Why is he so committed and so confident that our LDR can last the distance until we can be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I'm in an LDR relationship which has gone on for about two years. We have met and want to see each other again. Problem is, there is a huge distance between us, and it will be another four years perhaps even longer until we can live closer to e...

Should I try to fix things? Or move on? I feel so insecure now that his attractive ex is trying to talk to him again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - hi, so my bf of a year and i live together, and i just kinda broke up with him. we are perfect, except for that we rarely have sex. i tried to get him to open up and he talked about how he doesn't feel he fits with me sexually. I know his ex and h...

My friends have suggested my Gf is emotionally abusive. Should I try to make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a girl. I am 24, she is 23. First off I would like to say I know I am not perfect, I dont think its entirely her fault and no I dont know exactly where my fault lies, nor will she tell me half the time. ...

Do we have a relationship or not? He says only his 3 year old daughter keeps him in a relationship with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now and we have a 3 year old duaghter together. Now he's said to me several times over the past 3 years that if it wasn't for our daughter me and him wouldn't be together. The last time he said it was prob...

I still truly love her, but what can I do? I still try to set up dates. She has never apologised

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I seem to be stuck in the past. I met this girl 4 years ago whom i can honestly say i love with everything i am. When we first met we could talk about everything under the sun for hours and hours with not one awkward silence. After awhile our ...

People keep calling me frigid. It pressures me and upsets me. How can I better deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Im ábout to turn 16 years old and i have never had sexual contact with a boy. Sure ive made out with a few, but never any further. Its not that im 'frigid' or anything i just havent found the right person. However, when anyone hears that i havent d...

My Affair of the heart has ended. How do I get over my lover? I've been married 7 years/

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I had an affair of the heart. I'm married and have been with my wife for 7 years, and we have a son. There is nothing wrong with our marriage in general, nothing I'm unhappy about. Anyway in February a woman came into my life. She works for t...