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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My mother is emotionally abusive to me and treats me like a naughty child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have a terrible relationship with my mother. And its not one of them stereotypical type of bad its really bad. I am 20 years old and she treats me like im 6. Im not allowed to go out with my friends, if i do she constantly calls me and embarass...

How can I make this girl laugh no matter what mood she is in?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - First of all this is not really much of a relationship problem at the same time it is though. I want to know how a guy can have a good sense of humour or a way to make the girl he loves laugh no matter what mood she is in. This girl I like so much ...

My selfishness has left me single and miserable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - My selfishness left me single and miserable. How can I figure out what is wrong with me why I did this. I left my fiance hanging to hang out with some guy that isn't good for me or any other woman. Let's call my ex fiance Bob and the other man ...

What is going on? Should I get a lawyer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I told My separated husband, I'm pregnant by someone else. He said it didn't matter. We went on meanwhile he was seeing someone else. He needed his car fix and I gave him the money. Later he broke it off and said he wanted the divorce. Constantly he ...

We were supposed to be friends but he didnt even tell me he is married and expecting a baby!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I'm having a bit of a crisis and I'm probably mad but here goes. I split with my ex partner in November last year, though we dragged it out until January with sweet I miss you type e-mails (there was never a doubt of still loving each other, j...

We are both married, had an affair and now he has stopped contacting me, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - hi i recently had a six week affair with a married man, i am also married. it started out online then we realised we knew each other, we met up quite a few times kissing etc then we got more serious we had sex once. now i have heard nothing from him ...

Sick of being second best......

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - How do I deal with being second best? I'm second best when it comes to everything. My partner has a better ex. She was prettier and cooler and they only broke up because she cheated. He would never have left her had she not. I'm also second best...

We are supposed to be getting married in 2 months time but he has already stopped being affectionate. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 7 years and we have 5 year old twins together. He is such an amazing dad, loving, nurturing and helps with cooking and cleaning. The sad part is, we are getting married in 2 months but this last year he has...

Is there anything I can do to put us back on the right track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been married for almost 18months and with my husband for almost 3 years (known him for over 4 years). We have always been the type of couple who bicker but always make up very quickly. lately though the arguments have gotten worse (esp one...

He has cheated on me.What's a girl to do? he asked me "so what are we?" what did he mean by that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Ok im not sure where to start.. all im going to say is i have no idea what the hell im doing. and im 15 that would make sense for that reason huh. Anyways awhile back in Feburary this year i met this guy(22yrs old) online, yeah i know, anyways ...

Is my friend toxic? she seems to nick friends off you. Is she too much trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I have one friend who I spend more time with than anyone else. We were at school together, we’re at uni together and we’re even sharing a house this year. She’s been one of my closest friends since I met her but she can be pretty annoying...

I've got myself into this mess. I slept with my ex. How do I get over this and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Okay, so I now deserve the stupidest person in the world award. I split up with my ex quite a few months ago. I didn't communicate with him at all after that. I've invested so much time in getting over him (it was my decision to break up, we were...

These past few days he's been different. mean to me. How does anyone cope when a boy friend gets like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am pretty upset now and don't know how anyone deals/copes with it. Anyways my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We had our ups and downs, never broke up EVER. If we did it lasted like 2 days. These pas...

She will not cook, will not clean. I do it all, so I ask my self the same question every night, "is it worth all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - I dont honestly have the slightest clue on how to piece all of this together but here we go.. Just a little bit of information about my self before we start, i seem to think way too much into things, but i never actually express the way i feel v...

I'm newly single. Should I wait in case my ex and I can get back together? Or go with this new girl now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in love with this girl for five years, and now she has left me saying she can no longer take the fights we generally have. And so i let her go thinking she might really be facing real trouble. And i wasn't even thinking of anyt...

Don't want to do anything stupid. Should I tell my "friend" that I like his girlfriend, but I'm not going to act on my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - so im in love with my "friend's" girlfriend and have been since february. I just want to be with her so much and everytime i speak or talk to her i just want to kiss her. we are quite good friends and talk very often. we text and facebook. i told...

Why, when I reach out to her does she still blank me out? Seems I cannot do anything right with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - I suspect the possible answers to this one, but just want to be sure. A friend of mine, not spoken to her since July, I made all the effort, it wasn't given back. I sent her a letter last week as I heard it was an anniversary that wasn't too p...

Am I expecting too much from him? five years into our relationship and still he remains at the beck and call of his ex and others.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for over 5 years. Lots of difficulties have came from his ex wife, daughter, his mother and his mother's friend. I have struggled to understand why. I can see clearly now that these 4 women have had ...

He has no trust in me. He says it's because he is scared of losing me. But is this the best I can expect? It makes me sad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid, I am 20 years and i have been dating the love of my life for over 4 years. He is my age and we have been going to school together. However, i feel confused of late. He is a very nice guy the kind of guy who will never cheat on you...

Will this couple make it? Interested in your opinion, in view of their myriad of differences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I'm asking this question purely out of curiosity. What are the chances of a couple (one of them being a relative of mine) making their relationship work the second time around if she ended the relationship the first time because her bf tried to ...

My mom is having an affair with her married boss!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi readers, I'm typing this, hoping to seek great advice from anybody/everybody. I am 19yrs. old, living with my little brother and mother. My parents are separated. My father does not live with us, although he does live fairly close to us. M...

But what can I do to make this consuming jealous feeling go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been in a long distance relationship for almost three years on and off. i feel like i constantly have these insecurities that eat me up inside. i try not to show them because i don't want to push him away. but he has this...

He says I'm immature and selfish. Am I being unreasonable by being upset that his family exclude me from family events but invite his ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been involved with my boyfriend for 13 years now and we have one child. He has been divorced for the past 14 years. The problem is his ex wife. My boyfriend has refused to marry me in the past citing his family doesn't like me. Aft...

How do I get some balance back into our friendship? my friend is obessive and possesive of our other friends. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - so my friend lets call her J is being super possesive of our other friends lets call them JC n A. Everyday J has to call JC n A who are sisters to see what they are doing. J textes them like crazy. Always wanting to know where they are at and if ...

What do I need to do? I'm worried and broken hearted over our falling out. She means so much to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - my bestfriend for 3yrs. Yet we got into a heated argument over a lie someone else told.. She and I have only slept together 2 times in those 3yrs.As a guy, i have more respect her than that. Yet no matter what i say, she won't believe me. My heart...

Fiance has no self esteem and is anorexic, now she's pushing me away. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - my fiance is very beautiful and a wonderful person however she has no self esteem and is anorexic. a couple months back she was doing great with her eating but not so good with her mood. against my wishes and judgement her psychologist and docter ...