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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Im ábout to turn 16 years old and i have never had sexual contact with a boy. Sure ive made out with a few, but never any further. Its not that im 'frigid' or anything i just havent found the right person.However, when anyone hears that i havent done anything i get judged automatically and called stiff, or frigid. This really bothers me and i feel really pressured. What should i do?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 September 2011):
 Stop telling complete strangers your level of sexual experience. If someone asks, say "that is personal". Then change the subject.
Really, it's no one's business but yours. They don't need to know.
Immature people enjoy picking on others, it makes themselves feel more important and interesting. Pay no attention to it, they are only saying what they say out of carelessness and to get a personal ego boost. It'd be a shame if you decided to change anything about you or go against your own will, just because someone didn't think twice about their comments.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 September 2011):
Yep, just ignore it.
One day, those same people will be on a site like this asking why they allowed themselves to be used, or regretting having sex with the wrong person at first, or wondering why tey have an STD or are pregnant or something.
Stick to your beliefs and find the right person. It's a lot better than finding the wrong person.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (4 September 2011):
 You ignore it!
I got called a prude by girls and guys up until I was 18 and out of high school. After that I lost my virginity.
Prude, frigid, so what? I'd rather be called that than easy, or a slut.
Just tell them you're not going to be a sheep and succumb to peer pressure, so they can knock it off anytime now. It's mature to wait until you're ready.
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