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Archived questions from: 18 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can this relationship survive? she is cold to me, she doesn't even say she loves me if I don't say it first

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - Hey There! I like what I read here and I just seek help, that is all. I'm with my girl friend from 2 years, and we had a pretty nice starts "but I guess every start is a nice start. She has really similar interests to me, and I really enjoyed e...

Has my sister caused me to hate women? I have discovered why I'm terrified of rejection

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - I'm 20 years old and its all because of my sister. She always rebukes and verbally abuses me. I've had enough and i disowned her a few days ago and im no longer talking to her. Whenever i go to talk to her she is always in a bad mood and answers ...

My boyfriend has lost all interest in having sex with me and this makes me feel incredibly insecure..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys! Wondering if you could help me out... I'm 17 and I've been with my lovely boyfriend for 8 months now. For the first 5-6 months our relationship was great, we'd do everything together. However, Since around July my boyfriend has tot...

He's blocked for a reason. Should I confront him, for seeking info about me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - I fell out with my best friend, who was a guy, around five or six weeks ago, blocked him from contacting me, so that he wouldn't be able to contact me and would leave me alone from then on. I do not want anything to do with him anymore. I have just ...

I can't stop thinking my bfs are cheating on me!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hey people.. I've tried for the last 10 months to try and "move on" my previous relationships about them cheating on me. I've been in 3 relationships since and all of them ended horribly with me accusing them of cheating on me and "doing stuff". I...

How do you chose between love and youthfulness???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half and I love him greatly, he treats me great and will do anything for me. The problem is, recently we have been going through are up’s and down’s. The thing is he is 10 years older than ...

Is there something that can be done to get him out of my families life safely and for good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - My father is very mentally abusive towards my mother and young brother ! I've had enough!!! But my mum is scared, he has been physically abusive before ! What can I do, or who can help ??? Is there something that can be done to get h...

How do I discuss with my daughter any future contact she has with him if it is the case that he really is mentally ill? And how can I get a healthy and less victim-like view on how he has treated me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - I got married when I was very young and the marriage lasted around four years. My home life prior to that had been extremely chaotic with a severely schizophrenic/violent elder sister and an abusive mother. In contrast my husband seemed calm, but I ...

Shall I initiate another 'where is this going conversation' and if he is not budging then accept that the relationship has no future and split with him or do I wait until he brings it up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 28 and in an intercultural, inter-racial relationship with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. He is Egyptian muslim (33 years old) and I am white British liberal muslim. We're both doctors. I've not met his siblings (2 sisters) except ...

Fwb ignoring me done nothing wrong

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hi this is my problem my fwb who I have been having sex with for the past 6 months has just recently started ignoring me I text him last wednesday and got no reply and today he completely blanked me and walked straight past me what have I done wrong ...

Do I confront her about this guy? Or is it just harmless flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - Hello, hopefully you can help me with this problem I've been having. I've been in a relationship with this girl for over 4 years and we love one another a lot. I have been hurt very badly in the past and as such put up some barriers with th...

Am I in the wrong? I didn't mean to be, I had her best interests at heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Okay; I'll try to keep a long story short. I have a friend who I've known for about a year and a half who I'll refer to as M; we'd speak every single day, talking for hours on end. We'd talk about really deep things as well as just genuinely ...

G/f said she was thinking of another girl, not me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - My girlfriend, whose also my best friend(we're both girls), got high the other day. When she was listening to music, she told me she was thinking about another girl, one that wasn't me. Is this a little thing or should I be worried?...

BF wants us to watch porn together but I'm worried that witnessing my partner getting turned on by someone much better looking than myself will damage my self esteem

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Yesterday, my boyfriend of 2 and a half years brought up the subject of watching porn together and said it was something he would like to try. Personally, I have never watched porn before as I have always thought of it as being degrading. I have no ...

I'm in a relationship with my ex GF's cousin, just to take revenge from my ex for dumping me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, Over the last six months, guys I have been in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend’s first cousin and pretending to love her but actually I am using her to settle score with my Ex who dumped for no reason almost one year ago afte...

What went wrong here? How did things change so suddenly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hello to anyone who reads this. I have heard this is a good site for advice so here goes... Met someone and hit off big time. Always recieving texts and asking to meet them. Saw each other everyday and spent most nights at their house. Met f...

How can my boyfriend have major mood swings and not realize it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Please can anyone help me. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, and living together for just over 1 year. We have always been so very happy and made lots of plans for our life together. The last 3 weeks he has been really down one ...

My life seems like sunshine and roses on the outside, but there's alot going on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (?) - Hi, I don't knwo where to start really but i need some help. I feel like my life is turning into one of those lives where its all sunshine and daises on the front but inside there stuffgoing on i don't know how to deal with. On the outside im a 17yr ...

Should I still hang on,and hope he forgets her,or should I move on ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - So,there is this guy.I've had a crush on him for a while,mostly on and off.My best friend dated him for like 1 week last September,and 1 week in January,even though she knew i liked him.Needless to say,she dumped him both times,and even hooked up ...

Is she still interested or just playing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (M) - So here's the deal. I was going out with this girl for a while (about 2 years) and things didn't end so well. It has been 3 years now since we have seen each other. The odd thing though is that we have talked about every other month or so since ...

Fiance not holding up his end, should I move back home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - It's been a year since I've moved from California to Nebraska with my fiancé and our 16 month old due to employment for my fiancé, I was able to transfer companies. He is no longer working and is now in the court system, things are not what he ...

Does boyfriend love me or what I do for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend of 10 years. life is good as long as its about him and no one else. recently my adopted son came back into my life and i needed to build a bound there. my question is does my boyfriend love me for me or what i can do ...