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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She likes, would date me....BUT she still wants to have sex with other people!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - Ok, this is a WEIRD one. But maybe you guys can help. See, I know this girl who is sort of promiscuous. Yet she's hott. And sweet. And so we been out a bit. Never slept together or anything because believe it or not, I dont think people should do...

She lied to me about her sexual past and I can't get over it, please help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - Before my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time she told me I was going to be her first. While we were having sex I realized she was lying to me. Also, I did a lot of research about virginity and concluded that she was lying to me. She told ...

Why is my b/f much more concerned with this girl's feelings than mine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - I don't know what I'm doing with my life anymore. It sounds so cliche, but nothing seems happy in my life. I have a loving family, but always feel so distant and lost, I keep all my friends at arms length despite not knowing why. I feel lost, but ...

How could he? Feel so hurt after finding my ex cheated on me before we broke up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 7 years 6 months ago because we were so different and wanted different things. I know what I did was for the best but it still hurt, anyway he was so heartbroken but turned on me spreading horrible lies and ...

My sister chose my ex over me...now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of two and a half years and I had a rather messy breakup just over a month ago. My sister knows I do NOT want to speak to or see him if I can avoid it and that I want nothing to do with him anymore, but she chose to be his locker ...

Why are these married friends suddenly ignoring each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - There are two people in our circle of friends who have suddenly started ignoring each other/playing it cool with each other. We are all married and have been friends for many years and do things together with our respective spouses. They are not ...

Mixed emotions about my relationship and now I'm wondering 'what if' about this other friend. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - Okay so lately i have been having mixed emotions about my relationship, i love my boyfriend we have been together 2 years now he is my first boyfriend so i know nothing other than him. Although i had a dream last night that i slept with this guy ...

Why does he keep ignoring me? How do I fix this? Is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently got into an argument because I got mad that this girl kept flirting with him. He didn't go along with it but he didn't make her stop either. She used to call him petnames, until I begged him to make her stop. She knows ...

My gut tells me to leave him alone but my heart misses him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about six months now. (We work in the same building, on different floors, and have known each other for four). Anyway, we are both in other relationships but came together because we were both unhappy. We hook up but ...

How do I stop being so dependent on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - We pretty much had been in a relationship for about a month before we both went off to college two weeks ago. There is a two hour travel distance between the two colleges, so technically we're long distance. My biggest worry with him is hell dump ...

Does he still like me and in time will come back? Or is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys , my boyfriend broke up with me last week and I'm devastated ... He ended it Cos he still had feelings for his ex of 6 years .. When he broke up he said he needed time and if he could get rid of the feelings for her he would cos he doesn't ...

Guys: Why would you give a woman your number if you have no intention of answering her calls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - Men why give women your phone number if you know that you are not going to answer for her? thats crazy...

How do I get my girlfriend's trust back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - so to start i messed up i know why did i lie in the first place i dunno. so the story goes: she finds out i still talk to one of my ex and i lie that it has been a while she finds out and the trust is broken and she doesn't know if she can beli...

My girlfriend is clueless about other guy's intentions, should I confront her or just let her make her own mistakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - Hi all, My girlfriend and i have been together for 2 years i am 22 she is 19 she has just started to go out with her friends in the day that she used to know at school which is fine she can do what she wants i do have a problem however when s...

How do I confront him about the texts I found on his phone?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - please can you help me, i checked my partner of 2 years phone and found a lot of girls numbers and some very sexy texts, which he has replied to, i am heartbroken ,how can cofront him when i had to put his pin number in to get in his phone ,i feel ...

I love my boyfriend with all my heart, but why cant I stop obsessing about this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - Please, help me. I have been with my partner for nearly two years now i am 20 years old (turned in June) he is my first love and i truly love him with all my heart and being,i picture my life with him and we have a fantastic relationship- we're op...

Is he having sex with her to get her money?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - am a girl of 25 years and have dated my guy for almost 5yrs now and it looks as if am not having money now aday so he's chasing a girl that has money....but i ask him about it and he said..his trying to get that girl's money for as to get marry..so ...

Does his reasoning make sense and am I being really petty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost five months. Things have been going generally fine, but he appears to have an issue with showing affection and care via text message. When something comes up, or if he has done something during the day, he ...

The difference between someone using you for sex or just having huge sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - If you're seeing a man and he seems very focused on sex, is that always a bad thing? I'm seeing someone, we haven't slept together yet, but he does seem to bring the conversation around to it a lot. That said, he has told me he isn't going to b...

My ex wanted me to stop seeing the new guy so I did, and now he doesn't want to get back together anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - I had been seeing this guy for about 5 months and was having a good time however one of my exs got back in contact with me. He phoned a few times and we flirted back and forth and recounted old memories. It made me realise how much i missed him and ...

So am I just being paranoid or is there something wrong with this picture?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - Ok, I need your input..Im not very good at spotting deception. I started seeing this girl, started out real good but then got a little rocky..we broke up, a couple days latter we talked and hashed out our problem..during the conversation, which ...

What the hell am I supposed to do to get through her trust issues? I want to be her hero and save her from this nightmare...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - Okay I'm gonna jump right in and say it. I've fallen in love with a girl! And here's my problem. This girl, we'll call her Rose for the time being, has some serious problems. I met her over the internet and I know that some of you will be like " D...

Is this my fault or is she taking her anger out on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - i posted on here last week and am looking for some new follow up answers. the girl i've been dating for the past two months had her grandfather get sick and put in the hospital. they were incredibly close, and she immediately shut me out and ...

We only make love once a week now and he always falls asleep so early! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - I am married for 6 months now. Ours was an arranged amrriage. we love each other. my husband is very loving and caring. both of us working but whenever we get time with each other during the day, he teases and touches me. but when we get to b...

Am I being too demanding? Is it ok to feel jealous of his attractive female friends and ex's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - Hi people I share a wonderful relationship with my bf of about a month. Before that we already knew each other for almost a year. Although he looks like an average Joe, he's a real charmer and in fact, his exes are really good looking and he has had ...

Was she just trying to be nice in actually flat out rejecting me? How should I act when I see her again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - So last night after going out with my friend I told her that I liked her. She was a bit shocked but proceeded to tell me that she was not rejecting me but simply saying no for the time being because of circumstances in both of our lives at this ...

He says he can't do long distance but then says he will wait for me. What?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - This is going to be kind of long, but I'll try to keep it as short as possible: I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I just moved away to finish school (only 3 hours away from him). He told me from the beginning that he has trie...

Am I mental for dating a married man and worrying that he's cheating on me with other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - I'm really starting to think I've got issues. I've been with this guy for almost four yrs. About a yr in, I found out he had a gf but stuck around anyway like a total idiot in hopes that something would change and we'd end up being together. Abou...

Will this relationship last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4830 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - Hi there, I am currently in a relationship and have been for 5 months now. I'm so happy but I feeel that when I'm not with him I'm really sad. I have noticed that I seem to get jealous if he goes out when I'm stuck indoors. I do love him but as this ...