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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He won't tell me when he's angry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - The boyfriend, who is over 24, won't tell me when he's angry. I didn't even know he was mad about something until he snapped at me over it a week later face to face, and even cursed some, instead of telling me sooner. I'm not sure how to hand...

He promised we'd get married by the end of the year, but won't set a date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - Six months ago my partner of 2.5 years promised we would get married by end of year.I had never been comfortable living together but somehow it just happened as after a ended 30 year marriage I fancied myself madly in love and was love starved. My ...

Attracted to damaged/broken girls

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

14 September 2011 (M) - Ok, at 20 I know i'm young for this whole sort of thing. But i realise i seem to either attract or am automatically attracted to somewhat broken or troubled girls. At first glance. You would not be able to tell (heck, my brain can't tell, if it ...

My abusive ex-girlfriend has came back in my life, how should I treat her now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

14 September 2011 (M) - I had abusive girlfriend for 16 months before I ran away from her apartment in June this year. She was 2 years younger than me. Outside, I don’t think there could have been beautiful girl I have to see to date on this on earth like her, inside s...

How can I stop living in constant fear that he will cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - I've been in a pretty good relationship for the past 1 n a half year..he cares for me ,is very committed to me ,we are in love and we plan to marry in future.But i have fought with him twice about some random chats he had with girls on facebook ,i ...

My 41 year old boyfriend fancies teenage girls

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - My partner is 41. However, he says he feels like he is 18 years old. Now thats great, as it keeps him active etc. However, the downside is that he fancies women or rather girls that are very young- I'm talking 16-18. This really creeps me out. I ...

What is with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - so, i have this relationship i haven't been able to get over yet for whatever reason, maybe because i haven't been able to make sense of it. maybe i'm not sure if i did the right thing. i have been so messed up by it, and i guess from my other ...

Nobody knows that a lot of my academic partner's work is done for him by me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - How much should you give up for your partner's career? My fiance is an academic. He's at a conference right now. He was out until 4.30am drinking, and he'll be tired and grumpy when he comes home. He won't get any work done today, which mea...

It hurts that she said she cared for me so much over the past 6 months then threw it away over one bump in the road...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

14 September 2011 (M) - I've been dating this girl (she's 29, I'm 30) for about six months now and everything has been going absolutely great. About a week ago we got into an argument, our first, at work and i yelled at her a little bit. the whole thing lasted about 20 ...

I'm still in love with both of my ex boyfriends, I have a child each, by both of them, and I'm a mess right now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

14 September 2011 (?) - From the start, I was in a relationship for 5 yrs on and off he destroyed me, my self-esteem, everything! Then I went to a relationship that lasted 10 months, he did the same. I had a child by each of these men, the first one he took full advantage ...

My Gf's 'one night stand' partner lives next door to her - how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

14 September 2011 (M) - Early into my relationship, my gf told me she'd had a 'one night' encounter a few weeks before I met her which was "a big mistake". She told me it involved 'party', 'drink', and explained "it meant nothing". I did not know who the guy was. I tried ...

My boyfriend gets angry with me for being miserable with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - It is a day before the month we celebrate together with my boy friend for being almost a year and I feel less in love with him and confused. Lately whenever I get sad that something is bothering me he goes from comforting me one minute to total ...

How to keep a cheating husband interested

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - hello and im so happy to meet you my name is blondie im 48 years old im a mother and a grandmother i have 11 grand children now iv been in my marrige now for ten years but from the word get go i've always known there was something very wrong bu...