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Archived questions from: 22 September, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

If a person changes for the worst because of their mate, will they see it eventually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - If someone has changed because of their boy/girlfriend for the worst will they eventually see the light or not? If you think this can't last which I can't believe it can, you cannot just change that much and push everyone away who you care about th...

If my b/f wants to keep in touch with his ex, its fine. If I want to do it, he gets really hateful! Why the double standards?

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22 September 2011 (F) - Here's the situation. Over the past year I've been having problems with my fiance texting his ex-girlfriends, some of the stuff inappropriate, and I told him how much it hurt me. So he deleted every girl's number out of his phone. (He was having ...

I'm always just used, girls like playing with my emotions and I'm sick of it all..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - Hello, I am am an 18 year old male and I just can't take it anymore. I myself try to be a nice guy, but guess what? Every girl I date acts like a jerk, and never talks to me again. I'm always just used, girls like playing with my emotions and, i'm ...

How do I deal with this irritating man child whom I had been dating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I'm really mad. I was seeing this 40 year old man child for 5 months. He tells me he really likes me, sees us together but needed time to get himself together after a break up. He wasn't married or engaged to this woman. This guy would only call ...

I cheated on him, now he wants me to pay

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hey! So, cheated on my bf and I know it was bad and all. So, please, please, please, no judgment. Trying to win him back. He says he loves me, but his trust is gone. Then he came over to my place tonite and tried real hard to have sex.I refused cos ...

I honey-trapped my own boyfriend.....he doesn't know it was me and hes broken my heart!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I am in bits right now.....really need some help. Ive been seing my long distant lover for 9 months. Hes in the army but we saw each other when we could. Latley he had become really distant from me though......his calls and texts became very rare ...

I'd like to move away from both my B/f's family and mine to a new city and raise our baby, but I don't think my B/f would ever agree to that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - So I'm 21 and pregnant. About 5, almost 6 months along. And I'm having trouble with the family thing. I love my boyfriend, and his family has been so supportive of our relationship, of us. Well I should say his mom and his dad have. But I just...

Should I break up with my boyfriend for being jealous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hi I was for a week on vacation with a girlfriend to Italy. First days my boyfriend texted me said he missed me and asked me how I was doing. When I said that I met French and Polish guys and was going out with them that night he starting asking me ...

The reality of an open relationship is not so good

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hello - My husband and I have been married for 8 years. We have talked about an open relationship and I thought this was a good idea. I had sex with another man a couple of months ago. It was only one time and it truly was just sex. It was ...

To add or not to add on Facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 September 2011 (?) - Hi there, I met a guy through a social of a religious cult thing and then added him on FB a year later when I left town.. He accepted and we exchanged a couple of messages. I don't know much about him and he was not personal, just random likes to...

G/f's ex has invited her for a movie, and I don't trust this guy at all

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - My girlfriend's old friend / ex boyfriend invited her to the movies with him, alone. Her and I have been dating for 18 months and I've never really felt like this before. I feel, not that she would cheat on me or anything, but the ex will do ...

How can I help my wife to see that her partying with her gay and straight male friends is ruining our marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (M) - Hi, i'm 28, my wife 27, been married for 18 months now. Our marriage has been good up until now; she's a lovely wife and a kind, caring person. However, she's been going out partying far too much with her gay friends, and refuses to invite M...

Will marrying someone who cares about me help me forget my 31 year old married lover ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - well i am in love with a man whose 31 years old while i am early 20s, sadly hes married and has a child.so i want to get rid of him but cant.so i am thinking of getting married to someone.at least i will have a husband and a home with whom i ll sha...

Good guy, great morals, solid education, awesome personality, huge heart... and deathly afraid of commitment!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Well... if you saw my other question, you'd understand the background of my situation, but.. from an outsider's point of view, here's my current situation... I love a guy to pieces and secretly cannot threaten the fact that I will move on if he do...

Soldier on or scrap two years of work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly the past two and a half years. I have had a lot of happy memories with him, we've attended multiple music festivals, camped, ridden horses, laughed, and cried together. He even accompanied me on a recent ...

Wondering if I really love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4816 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Okay soo, i have been with this guy for a year and two months. We have been through a lot of things, great times, fights, anything that happens in a relationchip. well the thing is that now i been thinking bout if i really love him ? i dont think i ...

Am I right to feel upset about this? Or should I accept it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - My bf of 14 months and i have been looking at buying a business together for several months now. We've been looking at cafe's to run together. We've both been scouring the businesses for sale ads and i found a little lock up shop in a terrific...