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female
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30-35,
*ni1989
writes:I am in relation with a man for the last 3.5 years.everything is going well,we are having a distant relationship!we are tight with each other and we are going to get married in 3 years!we are very much confident about each other and we communicate daily.the problem with my fiancé is that whenever he is coming back to town he brings gifts for every 1.but when it comes to me he keeps asking what i need.to be very honest i don't need anything as such but getting a gift from the special one no matter what it is is a different feeling but in my case he buys chocolates for every1 and also for me.i mean if i am so special in his life why can't he just buy something by himself?why always asking me when he knows that i'll keep on saying 'i don't need anything'.i buy something or the other every time he comes back and that something is specially for him.why can't he do the same?what should i do?it makes me feel less special. Reply to this Question
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reader, answerfromtheheart  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Men are not psychics. Some need to be told. There are a few men out there who do know how to be romantic and make their woman feel special. Just because your man doesn't do this does not make him a bad man, nor does not make you any less special than you really are.
Please learn to tell him what you want.
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