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Sick of being disappointed.

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Question - (26 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, *ikki Nikkles writes:

Hey guys..

Okay, I'm sorry - this is going to be a little rant type thing.

I am SO sick of him (my boyfriend) making plans with me, and then making other plans that are apparently "more important". I also hate that whenever I ask him to hang out, he usually has "other plans." I understand that he has a life, and good for him: but for crying out loud, we both have jobs without a set schedule, and we can only see each other about once a week, depending on the schedule for the week.

He's a good guy, he really is. And half the time I really shouldn't be angry at him. It's because of my nature and that I'm easily irked. But I just can't stand being disappointed and upset, and he makes me feel like that a lot. But it's more than likely only because I have a temper. Any advice on what I should do?

Please help... Thank you.

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A female reader, kristie2021 United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

kristie2021 agony auntIf he doesnt want to take the time out to be with you, and you all only see each other once a week, then you need to dump him and be with someone who really cares for you and wants to spend time with you.

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A female reader, Distant Melody United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

Simple. Tell him you miss him, & that you want to spend more time together. Guys like being wanted.

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