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*ikki Nikkles
writes: Hey guys..Okay, I'm sorry - this is going to be a little rant type thing.I am SO sick of him (my boyfriend) making plans with me, and then making other plans that are apparently "more important". I also hate that whenever I ask him to hang out, he usually has "other plans." I understand that he has a life, and good for him: but for crying out loud, we both have jobs without a set schedule, and we can only see each other about once a week, depending on the schedule for the week.He's a good guy, he really is. And half the time I really shouldn't be angry at him. It's because of my nature and that I'm easily irked. But I just can't stand being disappointed and upset, and he makes me feel like that a lot. But it's more than likely only because I have a temper. Any advice on what I should do?Please help... Thank you. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, kristie2021 +, writes (26 August 2010):
If he doesnt want to take the time out to be with you, and you all only see each other once a week, then you need to dump him and be with someone who really cares for you and wants to spend time with you.
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reader, Distant Melody +, writes (26 August 2010):
Simple. Tell him you miss him, & that you want to spend more time together. Guys like being wanted.
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