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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 This is an emotionally immature and dependent individual who doesn't know what they want. Hot and cold behavior, on again off again relationships are a sign of how unhealthy the relationship is. Time to pull the plug and close the door for good, wouldn't you say?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (26 August 2010):
 I think TimmD may well be right about the person having serious mental and emotional problems.
Or, at the very least, the individual you speak of is very manipulative and not to be trusted........
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reader, TimmD +, writes (26 August 2010):
 It means that person has serious mental and emotional problems and you should stay away.
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reader, answerfromtheheart +, writes (26 August 2010):
 That usually means you have to RUN from a person like that. Inconsistent behavior only leads to problems.
It's a vicious cycle that will only get worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): Well in my opinion it means to me mood swings. For a girl or guy. But that's just what I think when I hear that.
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reader, kittyl305  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 hello. you need to stand up for your self. dont let that person walk all over you stand your ground and let them know that you dont like it. the person mussent love you if they treating you like a door mat. just think about it. good luck kittyl305
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