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writes:ok i'm just about the most self contious person in the world and i hate it! i try to talk to people but i never feel better. my boyfriend is AMAZING and so suportive but i just feel like i'm not good enough. before we started dating, i was with a grown man who verbally abused me and hit me a few times. and after that i just feel horrible. i know my boyfriend loves me so much or else he wouldnt have put up with me for this long but i always think hes going to leave me or cheat on me. i dont think i'm pretty and i want to change everything about myself to look like the other girls. i know how stupid it is. I'M NOT STUPID OK? i just need help. any advise to help me feel better about myself and feel prettier? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Does your boyfriend tell you that you're pretty? But then, does it matter? What would looking like other girls accomplish? You need to be different, I'm pretty sure that's what your boyfriend likes otherwise he'd have gone for one of those girls who look like everyone else, right?
Read back on what you wrote. You said your boyfriend was 'AMAZING' and supportive. When you wrote that, I'm willing to bet that you didn't truly think he'd cheat on you otherwise you wouldn't have emphasized how AMAZING he was right? Enjoy your relationship, stop thinking about what everyone else thinks about you. Your boyfriend loves you, you love your boyfriend, be happy. His is the only opinion that really matters to you isn't it?
I hope that helps.
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