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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend has undescended testicles which increases the risk of infertility. This really upsets me and although he's been too embarrased about it in the past, I have got him to see a specialist where he should hopefully take a sperm count.The thing is that I don't believe that he has a sperm count and I do believe he is infertile, which obviously upsets me alot as we were planning on starting a family, he is only 21 and I know how much he wants this kid.I love him and I don't want to leave him because he may be infertile but I don't want to accept that I may not be able to have kids naturally with him, which is all both of us have ever wanted :(I don't know whether to be positive about it all or whether to be negative because he is extremelty touchy about the situation and feels like he's letting me down.I have the urge to be a mother and am craving for his child which I don't think I can conceive :(
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (2 September 2008):
You have to stay positive. Its not his fault. Its not like he is telling you no he was born with a birth defect. There are other ways of having a baby that you can talk about.I know that this is harsh but if you really loved this guy you wouldn't consider leaving him over it you would find a solution to the problem. How would you feel if he left you because you were infertile. Why not talk about donnor sperm?
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