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male
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36-40,
*imbob
writes:I got a refund for a couple of Music festival tickets the other day and half of that is my ex girlfriends money. Strangely enough i bumped into her at the festival (out of 100,0000 people) and she didnt seem surpised to see me at all and was quite off with me. we broke up 4/5 months ago and iv tried asking how she was before after we split up and got no reply. i asked her again how she was after i saw her at reading and asked where i stood with her over facebook but she keeps ignoring me and i have no idea what i have done wrong to deserve this. iv been nice, made an effort and tried to keep things civalised but she keeps ignoring me. i know i should just try and forget about her and her ways but its bugging me and id like her to have the decency to at least tell me if she doesnt want to know me or not, but she remains silent. MY QUESTION: do you think it is fair to say to her that i will send her her money as soon as she gives me answers as to whats going on?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 September 2008):
You can't blackmail her!
What do you want to hear - that she's still madly in love with you? Do you want her to grovel?
If she's being off with you then it's her problem. It's annoying but you just have to rise above it, and move on.
Drop the money round at her house. Give it to her mum if she is not in and ask her mum to pass on a message that you don't know what you've done to deserve being ignored but you are sorry and that this is good bye.
It's her loss if she is being too childish to be friends with you.
Cut ties and live life. We can't know everything but we can learn to deal with it.
Good Luck!! xx
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