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writes:im a girl and ive liked my friend whose also a girl for a while and she knows and the other night while we were both quite drunk she kissed me, and told me she liked me, we went back to hers and went to sleep together it was so sweet but the next day things were weird i asked her what it meant and she said "she knew i liked her and wanted to kiss her and she wanted to kiss me too" but i couldnt bring myself to. i didnt want to spoil our friendship so she said "i just kissed you it felt right at the time, but she said it was just drunken fun" she said she would do it again, but couldnt see nothing coming form it like a relationship. i really like her and she was the one who made the move i just dont know what to do whether she really likes me back and is just confused about her sexuality. she insists shes straight and thats cool, i just dont no what to do help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): Hi
Im in a similar situation except I asked her if she remebered any of it which she said she did bt felt I was pushing myself on to her by asking questions. Unfortnately I got drunk and demanded answers and now the relationship is on hold until she figures and I figure out where we stand.
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reader, Tash +, writes (2 September 2008):
Tash is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys, yeah i really dont mind i wouldnt mind having a relationship with her, or if shes not up for that eithers fine, i dont want to lose her as a friend thats my biggest concern, i dont think i will. But i cant help feeling like im being led on, she told me that shes been wanting to kiss me for ages and so have i, so she could see me trying to find the right time to make a move so she just kissed me, and yeah we both enjoyed it and would do it again, but the thing is, i really like her and im not sure if she likes me in the same way :s
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): It sounds like you could be really building yourself up to get hurt with this one, especially if she is only kissing you for a bit of 'drunken fun'. It's possible that she does like you back and is afraid of saying that or doing anything about it - I mean she could even blame it on the alcohol, you never know. I've been in a similar situation actually, and I still don't know. You could always make jokes about how you kissed that time, every now and again, and see what her reaction is. Or you could ask her flat out exactly how she feels about you? Just some suggestions really.
Good luck :) hope you figure it all out soon! If you want to message me to talk about it some more, feel free!
xx Hope xx
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 Hi, I'm not sure what you're asking. Do you want to just keep her as a friend only? Or are you interested in starting a relationship with her?
If you just want to be friends, just let her know that you're not interested in going any further. Then don't go out drinking with her again, just to keep it from causing your inhibitions to vanish.
If you are interested in her, and she's not interested in you in the same way, you're simply going to have to drop it, if you don't want to end the friendship entirely. Then don't go out drinking with her again, as it may set up another situation that will make one or both of you feel awkward.
Again, it wasn't entirely clear to me what you were asking, so I hope this was of some small help.
Take care.
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