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Would our age difference play a part in the duration of our relationship?

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Question - (1 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

ive recently been seing a girl whos nearly 17, im 24. she s a very mature girl and dresses really well, and extreamly pretty,intelegent,funny. when we met i thought she was a bit older and and she thought i was a bit younger. it started as just fun but we really clicked. i feel stupid to get on with someone that young at times,most of my friends r a bit older. i dont want to stop her having fun but at the same time dont want to lose somethin so genuine. surley im rite in thinkin it wont last?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2008):

It will last - for about 6 months, and then she'll have grown up and changed and one or the other of you will lose interest.

Be her friend and even date her but don't expect it to last for ever. She might want to go to uni next year and do you want her to go to a crap university just to be close to you? Encourage her to go away and do the best she can if she wants to.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Straight Up1 Canada +, writes (1 September 2008):

Straight Up1 agony auntBeen there more times than most ever will!!

And none of them have ever lasted more than a year or so. People change with time... even yourself... and that could lead things to an end. But in the mean time....just enjoy your time with her, be a good guy and let the future be whatever presents itself to you both!!

Any grief you get from your friends or others is only jealousy talking...they wish they wore your shoes!! hahaa!! remember that!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008):

Who cares if she's younger,she's mature and you like her.Stop worrying about it or it will happen,enjoy the present and stop worrying.

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